Inde, si chinsinsi kuti ndi bwino kuyambitsa chibwenzi ndi mnyamata yemwe mumadziwa bwino kapena amene amakhala pafupi ndi inu. Pankhaniyi, zidzakhala zophweka kwambiri kuti mupeze zonse zokhudza wina ndi mzake, ubwino ndi zokhumudwitsa za mnzanuyo ndipo mwachimake mukupanga mapeto - mukufunikira munthu uyu. Ndicho chifukwa chake mumayang'anitsitsa momwe mungathere kwa anyamata omwe akuzungulirani (anzanu akusukulu, anzanu akusukulu, oyandikana nawo pafupi). Ngati pakati pawo wina akukuchititsani kumvetsetsa, yesetsani kuyamba kuyankhulana momasuka, zomwe zingamudziwe munthu uyu kuchokera kumbali zonse. Mwachitsanzo, ndi chophweka chiti, kambiranani ndi mnyamata kuchokera kusukulu kapena kuwapempha kuti akuuzeni anzanu. Ngati palibe otero pakati pa bwalo lanu, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuyang'ana mnyamata kumbali ina. Ndiye mungapeze bwanji munthu amene mumamukonda, yemwe mukufuna kumanga naye chibwenzi cholimba? Poyambirira, dzichepetseni nokha kuti palibe cholakwika chakuti mtsikanayo ayamba kumudziwa kumudziwa. Cholinga chanu chikungopangitsa mnyamatayo kuti adziwane bwino, chifukwa choti asapotoke, ndipo gawo lalikulu la maubwenzi omanga, mofanana, limadalira munthuyo. Ntchito yanu yaikulu ndikupanga chidwi choyamba kwa munthuyu, kuti mumusangalatse, kuti mukhale ngati munthu wokondweretsa. Izi ndizo zonse, zidzamupangitsa iye, kuti apite kwa inu kuti ayankhule ndi kutseguka polumikizana. Ndipo monga chomaliza, kupitilira kuzinthu zonse, izi zidzakhazikitsa maziko anu.
Choncho, mungapeze kuti, ndi kuti mungapeze bwanji mnyamata, komwe mungawafunire, ngati simukufuna misonkhano yokha pansi pa mwezi, koma ndi ubale weniweni? Izi zikhoza kuchitika paliponse. Choyamba, yambani kuyendera malo kumene ambiri a anyamata (adzakhala komwe angasankhe). Magulu a masewera, malo ochitira masewera, zigawo zosiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, ikhoza kukhala ndewu, kuvina, kusewera gitala, makompyuta, makampani oyendayenda. Pano pasakhale vuto linalake lapadera ndi omudziwa, popeza muli ndi chifuno chofuna, kuti musamange zomwe sizinali, komabe ndikukhala ndi chidwi chofanana. Chinthu chachikulu, onetsetsani kuti mukuganiza mosamala za zomwe mumakonda kuchita zomwe mungachite molimba mtima. Mwa njira, kwa mnyamata wokondedwa, nthawizonse, n'zotheka kufunsa thandizo pa izi kapena nkhaniyi. Nazi kwa inu ndi chifukwa chake, ndi zotsatira zake. Mutha kulowa nawo masewera a masewera - kupita ku masewera angapo pa mpira kapena mpira wa basketball. M'malo oterowo, simungathe kunyalanyazidwa ndi amuna. Musaiwale kutenga bwenzi. Pamodzi padzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo bungweli silidzasokoneza konse.
Ndiponso, kuti muwonjeze mwayi wanu, musaiwale za malo monga makanema, discos, amamwera ndi mipiringidzo. Mutagwira bwino ntchito yanu, mwamsanga pitani ku malo omwe tatchulidwa pamwambapa. Chisangalalo chokhazikika ndi zokhazikika m'madera awa zimapangitsa ndipo zimathandizira kuti mudziwe mwamsanga.
Ngati simukusowa malo okwera phokoso, ndiye kuti pali msonkhano wamtendere ndi wamakono - webusaiti yonse. Masiku ano, kumudziwa, kudzera pa intaneti, kwakhala nthawi yaitali osakhala ndi chidwi, koma ngakhale mosiyana kunapeza udindo wa wothandizira wofunikira kwambiri pofunafuna theka lake lachiwiri. Ndiponso mtundu uwu wa chibwenzi uli ndi machitidwe abwino kwambiri. Choyamba, panthawi yolankhulirana, mutha kumvetsetsa bwino, pangani lingaliro la womulankhulana wanu, potero mutsimikizire nokha ngati kuli kofunika kupitiriza kuyankhulana ndi malo oti mupitirize kukambirana nawo mmoyo weniweni kapena bwino kuti muime. Chachiwiri, mutha kulankhulana kwa nthawi yaitali, popanda kukakamizana wina ndi mnzake, kukambirana, mitu iliyonse ndikugawana zofuna zanu momasuka. Pambuyo powerenga bwino mbiri ya anyamata osiyana (ndi zithunzi pa malo oyamba), mungasankhe achibale anu ndi zofuna zanu komanso maganizo anu pa miyoyo ya anthu. Chikondi chokonda nyimbo, mafilimu, mabuku - izi zonse ndi chizindikiro chabwino, chifukwa chomwe mungakhazikitse ubale wabwino. Komanso, kulankhulana koteroko kungasonyeze chilengedwe chonse cha moyo wa munthu, pambali ina ya phungu. Moyo wake, mfundo zake, zikhulupiliro, zokonda, zomwe simudziwa mwamsanga za munthu, mukakumana naye pamsewu.
Mwa njira, pafupi ndi funso lanu la mafunsoli mumasamaliranso mosamala. Zambiri za inu nokha, mwayi wambiri. Ndipo musaiwale kusinthira chithunzi zithunzi. Zithunzi zanu ziyenera "kuuza" za moyo wanu, ndikugogomezera momwe mukukhalira. Kodi mukugwira ntchito yotani, nanga ndikuti, mumapuma bwanji, mukufunabe chiyani.
Pa cholinga chake, gwiritsani ntchito malo odziwika bwino, monga: VKontakte, Facebook, Classmates, My World. Izi ndizo malo otchuka kwambiri, komwe mungapeze moyo wanu wokondedwa popanda mavuto. Kulankhulana bwino ndipo usaiwale za msonkhano mu moyo weniweni.
Mwa njira, musawope kuyesera ndi kusankha. Nthawi zonse tengani manambala a foni kuchokera kwa anyamata ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, musiye nambala yanu. Zowonjezera, mu mndandanda wa anyamata, amakulira mwayi wanu wosankha umodzi, woyenera. Musapangidwe pa umunthu wina aliyense, malinga ngati pali chisankho, musachiphonye icho, kuti musadandaule pambuyo pake.
Ndipo otsiriza. Musanasankhe malo anu enieni pachibwenzi, ganizirani za izo ndikudzipangira nokha mtundu wa mnyamata amene mumakonda kwambiri. Ndipo molingana ndi izi, onetsetsani kuti muwonjezere ku malo omwe mumafufuza, komweko, kumene mungathe kukomana naye ndi makhalidwe awa.
Ndipo kumbukirani nokha - pa malo oyamba a malonjezano anu kuti mupambane, ndi maganizo anu kwa inu nokha. Nthawi zonse muyenera kuoneka wokongola, kutsindika ulemu wanu. Musamachite ngati chidontho ndipo simungapangidwe. Khalani otseguka, koma panthawi yomweyi pitirizani "zest" yanu yapadera. Mudzawona kuti mutsimikizika kuti mutha kuchita bwino. Pambuyo pake, yankho la funsoli: "Mmene mungadzipezere nokha mnyamata ndi kumene mungawapeze" - muli nawo nokha. Anyamata okha adzakhala pamzere, omwe angatenge chinsinsi cha mtima wanu. Ntchito yanu idzakhala yokha kusankha choyenera kwambiri.