Banja likapangidwa, kukhalapo kwa makolo aŵiri onsewo, nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa kusagwirizana ndi kusamvetsetsana. Ndicho chifukwa chake achinyamata nthawi zonse amayesa kukhalira limodzi. Koma pali zochitika mwadzidzidzi kuti apongozi ake akufuna kuti akhale nafe. Zomwe mungachite pa nkhaniyi, kuti musawononge ubwenzi ndi mwamuna wake ndi amayi ake, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo pitirizani mtendere ndi bata m'banja lanu?
Choyamba, kuti muzindikire zoyenera kuchita ndi mtundu wanji wa khalidwe lomwe mungasankhe, nkofunikira kudziyankhira nokha funso - chifukwa chiyani mukufuna kukhala ndi apongozi anu? Tsopano tiwongolera njira zomwe zatchuka kwambiri.
Kusungulumwa
Mwinamwake wokondedwa wanu ali ndi bambo, ndipo tsopano apongozi ake amamva kuti ali osungulumwa. Pankhaniyi, ndithudi, iye akufuna kukhala ndi anthu ake omwe. Choncho, muyenera kuchita mosamala kwambiri, chifukwa mungathe kuganiza za amayi anu apamtima, koma mwamuna wanu ndikuwoneka ngati opanda chikondi. Choyamba, kambiranani za mkhalidwe wanu ndi mwamuna wanu. Fotokozerani kuti mumamvetsa apongozi anu komanso momwe zimakhalira zovuta kwa iye tsopano. Koma mbali inayo, amafunikanso kumvetsa kuti muli ndi banja lanu. Inde, akhoza kubwera kwa inu pamene akufuna ndi kuthera nthawi ndi anthu ake, koma zimakhala zovuta kuti mukhale m'nyumba imodzi, chifukwa, monga momwe zimadziwira, akapolo aakazi awiri akuwoneka, njira imatha.
Ndipotu, pakakhala izi, apongozi ake akhoza kunenabe kuti sangasokoneze aliyense, ndipo simukumuona kuti ndi wobadwira ndipo akhoza kukukhumudwitsani. Mwa njirayi, tiyenera kudziŵa kuti mulimonsemo, munthu amene amakonda komanso kulemekeza ana ake, amamvetsa nthawi zonse kuti alibe ufulu wolowera miyoyo yawo. Kotero, ngati apongozi anu akufuna kuti azikhala nanu, ndiye, ziribe kanthu momwe iye anakana, mosamala kapena mosadziŵa, iye amachititsa kuti azikonda, zomwe ziri zolakwika kale. Zikatero, ngati palibe njira ina yowonekera, ikhoza kutanthauzidwa kuti tisinthe malo apongozi apongozi ake. Ndiko kuti, mum'peze malo okhala pafupi ndi inu. Choncho, nthawi zonse akhoza kubwera kwa achibale ake, koma simudzakhalanso pamalo omwewo tsiku lonse ndi usiku.
Maphunziro a zidzukulu
Zingakhalenso kuti apongozi anu akufuna kukhala nanu kuti athandize kuphunzitsa ana anu. Inde, thandizo la agogo aakazi ndi labwino kwambiri, koma ngati makolo amavomereza njira zake zoleredwa. Ngati muwerengera kuti ndi bwino kuti ana anu apite ku sukulu yapamtunda kusiyana ndi kukhala ndi agogo anu aakazi, ndiye kuti mudzapeza zifukwa zotsutsa mayi wa mwamuna wake pa lingaliro limeneli. Mungathe kugwira ntchito ndi mfundo yakuti ana amapita ku sukulu yabwino, kumene aphunzitsi amaphunzitsa mwangwiro njira zawo zamakono. Kumbukirani kuti mkhalidwewu ukhoza kukhala mkangano, ngati palibe zifukwa zothandizira ndipo mukuyenera kunena kwa apongozi anu kuti simukufuna kuti athandizidwe mokwanira kulera ana. Zoonadi, izi zidzasokoneza chiyanjano chanu, koma, ngati mukuganiza kuti zotsatirazi ndizovulaza, ndibwino kuti mukhale nokha mpaka pamapeto, mosasamala kanthu za maganizo a mwamuna wanu ndi apongozi anu.
Matenda Odwala
Chifukwa china chimene apongozi anu angakonde kukhala nanu ndi matenda. Pankhaniyi, mukuyenera kulandira. Kaya muli ndi chibwenzi ndi apongozi anu, musaiwale kuti iye ndi amayi a mwamuna wanu. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti anam'patsa moyo ndikuleredwa. Ndipo tsopano mpata wake womuthandiza iye. Ndipo wanu, popeza ndinu kale banja limodzi. Choncho, zimangokhala zogwirizana ndi zomwe zikuchitika ndikuthandizira apongozi anu zomwe akufunikira.
Mulimonsemo, ziribe kanthu momwe zinthu zikuyendera, musamasonyeze mwamuna wanu malingaliro ake oipa kwa apongozi ake, ngakhale ziri choncho. Mukufunikira mwamuna kuti aone ngati akufuna kukhala ndi amayi ake, osamvetsera kulira kwanu ndi kunyoza kwanu. Choncho, ndi bwino kutenga zifukwa zomwe zingamupangitse kuganiza ndikuzindikira kuti ndi chikondi chake kwa amayi ake, iye sakufunabe kukhala naye.