Chifukwa chachikulu chiri chofanana. Ngati mupempha mkazi zomwe akuganiza nthawi zambiri, mayankho angakhale osiyana: za ana, za banja, za ntchito, ... Koma oyamba adzakhalabe ndi lingaliro "za munthu". Mwamuna ndi ubale ndi amuna, chirichonse chimene anganene, ndi "vuto" lalikulu la mkazi. Kotero pali akazi.
Kotero, poyamba, mkazi pa intaneti akuyang'ana mwamuna. Inde, ndi anthu ochepa chabe amene akuyembekeza kudzakumana ndi bwenzi lomanga nalo pa intaneti, koma pang'ono "Ndipo mwadzidzidzi ..." akadakalipo, ndipo abwere kudzakumbukira zithunzi zosangalatsa ndi mutu wakuti "Iwo adapeza chikondi chawo pa intaneti."
Kuphatikiza pa chibwenzi, mkazi amafunika kukopeka ndi zofunikanso, ndipo ngakhale muzitukuko ndi maulendo, zoposa. Kukopana ndi kotheka, ngakhale kukambirana njira zothetsera makina. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa kuti munthu azisamalira komanso amamvomereza ku adiresi yanu, ngakhale simudziwa munthu weniweni komanso dzina la interlocutor. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti kukondana kochepa kumakula kukhala chikondi chenicheni komanso chikondi "cholemberana," chomwe, malinga ndi kutentha kwa zilakolako, sichikhoza kufika panthawiyi.
Kodi kupatulapo kukonda ena? Chikhumbo chophweka cholankhulana. Masewera a amai ambiri amakambirana chirichonse: banja, ana, amuna (mwachibadwa!). Pali mapiri a maphikidwe, malangizo othandiza komanso maumboni. Pano mkaziyo amapeza abwenzi ake, amalingaliro ngati amuna, akugawana zochitika zake ndi mavuto ake. Intaneti imathandiza kuti anthu azikhala osangalala, ngakhale anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro otsekemera sakuzengereza kukhala okha - palibe malamulo okhwima pa intaneti, palibe amene akukuonani, ndipo simukuwona.
Chilakolako cholankhulana ndi chifukwa chachiwiri chimene amai amayendera pa intaneti.
Zikachitika kuti mayi pa intaneti akhoza kuthawa kusungulumwa, kapena amalowa nawo "magulu a chidwi". Kodi ndi zophweka? Ayi ndithu. Mkazi aliyense ali ndi mavuto ake omwe ndi osangalatsa, ndipo onsewa amawonetsedwa pa intaneti.
Elena Romanova , makamaka pa webusaitiyi