Kumalo mwawo kunabwera mnyamata ndipo anayamba kukhala ndi mavuto ndi omvera ake. Inde, koma ndi chiyani chomwe chingawonedwe kuti ndizolakwika molakwika kwa atsogoleri mu maubwenzi ndi omwe ali pansi. Ayi, ndi chiyani "choyimira" chomwe chimamveka bwino - ichi ndi chomwe chimapezeka kulikonse ndi kulikonse. Koma kulakwa? Ngati cholakwikacho chiri mu ulamuliro kapena algebra, ndiye kuti zingatheke mosavuta: pali mabuku, malamulo awo, timatenga bukhu - timayang'ana. Eya, chonde, chonde, mungathe kutsindika zofiira. Apanso, zambiri ... Ndipo ndi mabuku ati omwe ali ndi maubwenzi abwino pakati pa abwana ndi oyang'anira? Pali mabuku osiyanasiyana otsogolera, komwe wolemba aliyense amapanga lingaliro lake, koma palibe buku lovomerezeka lonse. Momwemonso ndizotheka kugwiritsa ntchito lingaliro la "zolakwika za atsogoleri"?
Ngati mumva kuchokera kwa mtsogoleri wamkulu wachinenero chotere, ndiye mukudziwa, alibe tsogolo ngati mtsogoleri. Pali malamulo, olemba osiyana omwe adziyika mwanjira zawo, koma maziko onse samasintha kuchokera pa izi. Ndipo ngati sakudziwabe ... Tikukhulupirira kuti owerenga athu ali ndi gulu losiyana la mameneja achinyamata. Amene akufuna kuphunzira, ngakhale kuti palibe buku lophunzirira, malamulo awa osavuta. Zowonongeka m'mawu ndi zovuta kwambiri pamoyo weniweni, powerenga mabuku muyenera kusunthira kuwerenga. Kumvetsetsa bwino chiyanjano ndi oyang'anira. Kotero, tiyeni tiyambe.
Kutalika kolakwira - chiyeso choyamba cha munda wa zolakwika
Pakati pa wotsogoleredwa ndi mtsogoleri wawo kumeneko ayenera kukhala patali. Zokwanira. Kutuluka kumbali zonsezo ndi zolakwika.
A. Kulingalira
Atakhala mabwenzi ndi omvera ake, mkulu amataya mpata kupereka malamulo ndi chiyembekezo kuti adzakwaniritsidwa. Anzanu apamtima angathe, mwadzidzidzi, mwaubwenzi kotero, mosasuka, kupirira kukwaniritsidwa kwa ntchito yofunika. Koma simungafanane ndi anzanu. Inde mungathe. Kuchokera maola. Kuntchito, ubwenzi umatha. Koma pazinthu zenizeni. Sikoyenera kuyesa kuwoneka ngati munthu wodetsedwa, wofunikira, wotsogolera nthawi zonse. Pokhapokha panthawi yomwe ikufika pa zosankha, nthawi, njira zogwira ntchito, kufufuza zotsatira. Ndipo pamene macheza a mpira wa dzulo akukambidwa, mukhoza (kusowa) kuti mukhale osangalala ndikuiwala kuti ndinu bwana.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuyesetsa nthawi zonse, kusamuka kuchoka ku dziko lina kupita ku lina, kuchokera ku gawo lina kupita ku lina? Ndiko kulondola. Ndipo kuti muchite izi, ngati kuyambira pachiyambi ndikuyimba moyenera, sizili zovuta nkomwe. Ndiyeno chizoloŵezi chimayamba.
B. Kuchotsedwa
Kusiyanitsa ndi omvera awo khoma lomvetsetsa tsogolo lawo, mfumu imatayika chinthu chofunika kwambiri: kulemekeza, kuyanjana ndi anthu omwe amadziwa bwino za tsogolo lawo. Ndipotu, amachita ntchitoyi. Ndipo popeza palibe mtsogoleri, ngati sakufuna kuchita bwino, ndiye kuti palibe utsogoleri pano omwe angakuthandizeni. Chinthu chokondweretsa kwambiri ndi chakuti palibe kuchoka komwe kumachita chifukwa cha kudzidalira kwambiri. Anthu opusawa samangopita kumalo a akuluakulu. Kusiyanitsa kwina, kuyesa kupeza mtunda wambiri, kawirikawiri kumawopsa chifukwa choopa kwambiri "kuyandikira kwambiri," monga momwe tafotokozera pamwambapa.
Gawo la ntchito - chiyeso chachiwiri cha malo olakwika
Mkuluyo ayenera kugwira ntchito yake, osalowetsa anthu ena, koma osapatsanso zomwe angachite.
A. Woyamba pakati pawo
Bwana sayenera kukhala wochenjera kuposa onse omwe ali pansi pake, ngakhale anthu olemera kwambiri komanso ophunzira kwambiri (kawirikawiri safuna kukhala mabwana, amasankha ntchito yolenga). Iye sayenera kudziŵa chifukwa chofala koposa antchito odziwa zambiri, makamaka omwe akukonzekera kale ntchito yopuma pantchito. Mkulu sayenera kukhala wolimbika komanso wolimba kwambiri, makhalidwe amenewa ndi apamwamba kwambiri antchito achinyamata omwe akuyamba ntchito yawo. Bwana akuganiza za chiyembekezo ndi zokambirana gulu lonse kuti lipindule. Nazi ntchito yake. Ndipo mawonekedwe ake ndi chitsanzo chaumwini. Mu kanthawi kochepa kwambiri, gulu lonse lidzayamba kuchitapo kanthu mofanana ndi mtsogoleriyo (salankhula).
B. Mavuto anu ndi mavuto anu
Mtsogoleri ayenera athe aliyense wa ogwira ntchito awo kuti afotokoze chinachake, kuthandiza mu chinachake, komanso chofunika kwambiri - kumvetsera ndikumvetsa mavuto ake. Ndiyeno zithandizani. Musasiye munthuyo yekhayo ndi vuto, musasiye njira iliyonse yothetsera yankho, kuganizira, kulankhula, kumbukirani nthawi ndi nthawi. Ndipo yankho lidzapezeka. Pamodzi.
Kukonzekera kwa zipangizo zamakono ndi kulamulira - chiwerengero chachikulu cha zolakwika
Popanda dongosolo palibe mphamvu, popanda ulamuliro palibe kuyenda. Aliyense amavomereza. Taonani, chonde, Bambo Woyang'anira, kodi muli ndi chiyani lero, sabata yamawa? Ndipo anu omvera?
A. Osakhazikitsa mawonekedwe
Aloleni owerenga akhululukire mawu awa, koma momwe angalankhulire ndi omvera awo, kuti "ziyenera kuchitidwa mwamsanga" kapena "tiyenera kuzichita posachedwa". Ndondomeko yokha yolembedwa yomwe ikuwonetseratu kuti ndani, ndi chiyani komanso tsiku liti lomwe liyenera kuchitidwa. Chabwino, kulamulira nthawi zonse - palokha. Ndipo, kawirikawiri mlungu ndi mwezi. Malingana ndi pulogalamu ya pachaka, yomwe ikuwerengedwanso kamodzi pa chaka.
Ndipo, monga taonera kale, ndondomeko ya mwini wakeyo ndi teknoloji yaumwini pa ntchito yake idzadziwika mofulumira ndi omvera ake ndipo idzakhala yoyenera. Kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito ndondomeko yotani: m'maloto, sabata iliyonse, mu dawunilo lalikulu la desiki, mu kompyuta yanu (foni, makompyuta) - chinthu choyenera kuchigogomezera.
B. Chikhalidwe
Mapulani, mapulani - malipoti, malipoti. Mlungu uliwonse, mwezi uliwonse, paulendo wa bizinesi, papepala, mapepala, malinga ndi zotsatira za misonkhano, paulendo wopita kwa makasitomala - kulemba, kulemba, aliyense akulemba, palibe aliyense ... Ndi kovuta kulimbana ndi chithandizo chomwecho: cholembera ndi pepala. Zabwino kuposa zamagetsi.
Kodi pangakhale lipoti la mlungu uliwonse pa malo ogwira ntchito, nkuti, mutu wa dipatimenti ya malonda? Inde, ndithudi. Voliyumu? Masamba 2-3. Nthawi yokonzekera: osapitirira theka la ora. Izi ndizoyendetsedwe za malonda. Kukambirana, kuvomerezedwa ndi kuyendetsedwa. Dziwani pang'ono? Kodi tingapeze nthawi yambiri? Ayi? Kotero, ife tikusowa kuti tikhale ndi kayendedwe ka mauthenga: dinani woyang'anira pa batani, ndi lipoti ndipo mudalumphira pazenera. Fomuyi ndiyomweyi, olemba mapulogalamu adzatulutsa ndi njira yokhayokha. Zimangokhala kuganiza, kusanthula ziwerengero ndi kuwonjezera mawu ku zomwe zinali zofunika kwambiri sabata ino.
Kuganiza? Pano pali, ulusi wa golidi, nthenga ya fever-mbalame-ndizofunikira kuganiza kwa ameneja achinyamata, kufufuza khalidwe lawo, ndipo zolakwitsa zidzisonyeza okha. Ndipo kuthamangira mwathunthu kapena ngati maphunziro, kapena laibulale (mumtanda) mu chiyembekezo chomwe iwo anganene ... Ayi, popanda kuwerenga, ndi malingaliro otani omwe angakhaleko? Kwa malingaliro olondola, mukusowa zakudya zamkati - mwachitsanzo, zilembo za pa tsamba lathu. Izi sizitsiriza, ndipo chomwe chidzakhala chotsatira - lembani kwa ife mu ndemanga.