Choyamba, sankhani mtundu wa ukwatiwo, chifukwa ndikuchokera kuti izi zidzasintha.
Ngati simukufuna kupita kutali ndi chikondwerero chachikulire ndipo mukufuna kuchoka phwando, mtsogoleri wamkulu ndi zina zotero, ndiye kuti muyenera kumvetsera malo a chikondwererochi. Malingaliro okondweretsa a ukwati angakwaniritsidwe pa mwambo wotuluka. Momwemo mumzinda uliwonse mungapeze, ngati si banki ya mtsinjewu, gazebo yosangalatsa kapena paki yomwe mungathe kuikapo chikwama cha okwatirana kumene, mipando ya alendo ndi tebulo la buffet. M'mawu amenewa, mudzakumbukiridwa ndi alendo, monga achinyamata omwe ndi achilendo omwe amadziwika ndi mafashoni a ku Ulaya, koma zomwezo sizidzachitika popanda zodabwitsa.
Kwaukwati wotero, mikangano ya banal idzakhala yosayenera, koma ntchito zoyambirira ndi pulogalamu yawonetsero. Lembani malo omwe akutsogolera KVN bokosi, osasangalatsa kwambiri kuposa otsogolera. Iye, mwa njira akhoza kutsogolera mwambowo wokha, chifukwa kulembetsa kalata wa ukwati mulimonsemo kudzachitika mu ofesi ya registry.
Pangani malo a mwambowu mwazithunzi zina, ngati mukufuna, ganizirani za kavalidwe ka alendo. Limbikitsani nyimbo yamoyo ndikuwoneka ngati heroine wa filimu yachilendo. Kutha madzulo sizimoto zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse, koma zimasonyeza moto! Mutakhala ndi ndalama zofanana, inu ndi alendo anu mudzalandira zambiri. Ngati chikondwererochi chachedwa, ndipo mukufuna kuti mutenge phwando, chitani pa ulendo wodabwitsa: galimoto, ngati muli pamtunda, ndipo ngati pagombe, ndiye Mulungu mwiniwakeyo analamula kuti apite pamtunda, ndipo kenako adzalowera pa hotelo ina.
Ngati chikondwerero chanu chimachitika nthawi zonse, samalirani madera osangalatsa a chithunzi ndi kujambula mavidiyo. Lankhulani ndi wojambula zithunzi za njira yanu, tengani ndi zothandizira zosiyanasiyana: ambulera, nsapato, zopepuka, dengu la zipatso, zidole. Konzani kuwombera pa karting, bowling, pa bwato kapena malo ena odyera kapena klabu yokhala ndi zachilendo. Yesetsani kugogomezera mmene tsiku laukwati limakhalira, kuti mukasangalale ndi zithunzizo mukamaziwona zaka zingapo.
Ukwati wapachiyambi udzakhala nawo, ngati iwe uchita izo mu kalembedwe kena. Sizodziwika kwambiri tsopano kalembedwe kaukwati. Kapena zikondwerero za m'ma 80. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuganizira zonse. Sizongokwatirana kumene. M'machitidwe amodzi, chirichonse kuyambira pakufika kumalo a phwandolo, kukonzedwa ndi nyimbo ziyenera kukhazikika. Ngati mwakonzeka kugwira ntchito pokonzekera ndi kuteteza maganizo anu kutsogolo kwa mbadwo woopsya - pitani! Yang'anani mafilimu, zojambula za nthawizo, kambiranani ndi wojambula wanu, florist fano lanu. Ngati simunakonzekeretse njira zowonongeka, ingopeza kavalidwe kakang'ono, osati maonekedwe owala. Tsopano ma salons achikwati amapereka njira zambiri zomwe mungathe kuchita popanda ntchito zowonongeka.
Odzipereka timapereka malingaliro oyambirira kuti tigwire nawo maukwati. Pano chiyambicho chingakhale zosangalatsa za anthu awiriwa. Mwina mwakhala mukuyenda mwamsangamsanga kapena mukukonzekera masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ndithudi inu ndi abwenzi a bwalo lomwelo lidzakuthandizani kukonza chidziwitso chosazolowereka choterocho. Pachifukwa ichi, zidzakhalanso zofunikira kuti mumvetsetse zonse, kuti ukwati ufanane ndi mutu womwe wapatsidwa. Izi ndizo, kufufuza zokopa, makosi kapena zosiyana, zikopa zamagulu ndi chirichonse mu mzimu umenewo. Musaiwale kuuza makolo anu za zolinga zanu, pemphani maitanidwe, omwe amatsimikizira mtundu wa ukwati wanu.
Kwa anthu omwe amakonda mbiri ya dziko linalake, koma ndalama sizimakulolani kuti mukondweretse ukwati kumeneko, kotero pali malingaliro angapo. Tsopano palibe vuto kupeza saris kwa okonda India kapena zovala za anthu a ku Spain, Argentina, South Africa. Chilichonse chimadalira kukhala wokonzekera kuyesa. Ndipo mwinamwake mukufuna kusewera ukwati, malingana ndi miyambo ya dziko lathu, ndiye kuti zonse zimakhala zosavuta. Ndipo ensembles kusankha kuchokera ndi holo ingapezeke yoyenera ndipo alendo ngakhale kuvala zonse sikukhala vuto.
Pansipa, tipereka malingaliro apachiyambi kwa omwe ali okonzeka kuchita ukwati okhaokha. Choncho, choyamba, tiyeni tiwonetsetse kuti ukwati womwe unatsirizika kunja sikudzakhala ndi malamulo m'dziko lanu, kotero muyenera kuika zizindikiro apa, ndiyeno kulikonse kumene moyo ukufuna kuwuluka.
Ngati mumakonda exotics, ndiye njira yeniyeni, kapena kuti makwerero a ndege, ku Maldives, Bali, Thailand ndiyeno pamndandanda. Pambuyo pake, funsani za kuthekera kokhala ndi mwambo waukwati, ponena za kukhalapo kwa wojambula zithunzi (kupatula ngati mutasankha nokha, kutsimikiziridwa) ndi mwayi wokonzekera nokha ndi wokondedwa wanu chifukwa cha chikondwererocho. Ku Czech Republic ndi Germany, mukhoza kupita pa ulendo wokonzedweratu kwa okwatiranawo ndi mwambo waukwati. Musaiwale kuti pali Akatolika ambiri kuposa Orthodox.
Musaiwale kuti posankha za ukwati, mungakumane ndi kusamvetsetsa ndi kuyanjidwa kwa achibale omwe ankalakalaka kuvina pamadyerero anu. Pachifukwa ichi, ndizofunikira kuima payekha, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, kuti chikhumbo chimenechi chinali mgwirizano ndipo simunakangana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'mbuyo. Ndipo ngati chirichonse chafika apa, ndiye kuti muyambe ulendo wopita kukakumana ndi maloto anu ndi maukwati kunja.
Musati mudzikane nokha chisangalalo chokondwerera ukwati momwe inu mukufunira. Ndiponsotu, chikondwererochi chimachitika kamodzi kokha (zedi, ndithudi)! Tikukhulupirira kuti malingaliro athu oyambirira a ukwati adakukakamizani kulingalira pa mutu wa tsiku lanu losangalatsa ndi mwambo. Patsiku lokonzekera bwino lidzakuthandizani kukhala ndi maganizo abwino.