Kukonzekera ukwati kumafuna kukumbukira zinthu zambiri zomwe sizikhudzana ndi nthawi yokonza masewero kapena kusankha madiresi, malo odyera komanso malo omwe chiwonetserocho chidzachitike. Mfundo yofunikira ndikukonzekera malo okhala. Pano mukuyenera kuganizira maonekedwe monga a zaka za alendo, amodziwa kapena ayi, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - ali ndi ana. Ukwati umatanthauza kuti anthu apamwamba a chikondwererochi ndi omwe amalemekeza omwe zonse zimachitika kwenikweni. Komabe, kukhalapo kwa ana pakati pa alendo kungakhale okonzekera bwino kuti zisanduke ntchito ya m'mawa.
Zikuonekeratu kuti kholo lirilonse limakhulupirira kuti chinthu chachikulu ndicho chilakolako cha mwana wawo, koma izi sizothandiza nthawi zonse komanso sizikhala zosangalatsa kwa anthu ozungulira. Kotero, pali zochitika zingapo ngati ana angakhale pakati pa alendo. Choyamba, n'zotheka kutumiza maitanidwe pasadakhale, zomwe zidzatsimikiziridwa kuti phwando liyenera kupezeka popanda ana, makamaka m'malesitilanti ambiri ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zimakhazikitsa madyerero. Ngati kukhalapo kwa ana si vuto, mukhoza kuwatenga mosiyana kapena kugula makola omwe angakhale nawo alendo ocheperako. Kuphatikizanso apo, mungathe kuphatikizapo ana mwachindunji kumakondwerero. Komabe, zaka za mwanayo ziyenera kuganiziridwa. Zidzakhala zovuta kuti mwana akhale chaka, osati kungotopa yekha, komabe sadzapumula ndikusangalala ndi makolo.
Choncho, ngati zatsimikiziridwa kuti ana adzachita nawo chikondwerero kapena mbali ina ya iwo, ayenera kuchenjezedwa za izi. Pambuyo pake, ngati adziwa kuti ali alendo olandiridwa, kwa iwo, ukwati wa wina ndiwonso udzakhala wofunika kwambiri, womwe udzakonzedwa bwino. Ana akhoza kuchita nawo mwambowu monga "okwatirana". Mukhoza kupempha atsikana kuti "ayankhe" madengu ndi maluwa. Ndipo anyamatawo adzachita ntchito za pageant, zomwe zimanyamula sitima ya mkwatibwi pa phwando, komanso mnyamata akhoza kugwira maluwa a mkwatibwi kapena mphete ndi mphetezo. Chinthu chokha chimene sichiyenera kuiwalika, ndizofunika kukambirana maudindo omwe amaperekedwa kwa ana ndi makolo awo.
Chinthu chachikulu chimene chidzafunikila kukonzekera ana ndi kusankha chovala choyenera. Kuti tipeze chovala kwa mtsikana ndikofunikira kusamalira sitolo imodzi, nthawi yabwino imapereka nthawi zina kupambana koma tiyenera kukumbukira kuti chovalacho chiyenera kukhala chosangalatsa kwambiri, koma ndibwino chifukwa mwanayo ndi mwana. Pambuyo pa "ntchito yofunika" yomwe idzachitike, mwanayo adzayenera kuthamanga ndi kusewera, popanda kuwona zovuta zilizonse kuchokera ku zovala zoyera. Kuti musankhe zovala kapena zovala kwa mtsikana, ndibwino kuti musasankhe mtundu wanu, ngakhale kuti zovala zosaoneka bwino sizikugwirizana ndi zovala za mkwatibwi. Ndizomveka kuyang'ana kukambirana musanasankhe chovala chake. Zingakhale kuti ukwatiwo udzakhala wovuta kapena kuti chikondwererocho chidzasungidwa mu mtundu wina wa gamma, kotero izo ziyenera kuti zizigwirizana. N'zotheka kuti zovala za ana zidzaperekedwa ndi okonza phwandolo.
Pankhaniyi, konzekerani mnyamata ndi wosavuta, chifukwa iye ndi wokwanira kusankha suti yeniyeni, nsapato, zomangira uta ndi munthu wamng'ono ali wokonzeka!
Sikoyenera kunena kuti chovala choterocho kwa ana aang'ono sachigula, chifukwa ndizofunikira pa chikondwerero china, ndipo ana amakula mofulumira kwambiri ndipo sangathe kuwunikira zovala zofanana chaka chimodzi kapena miyezi isanu ndi umodzi.
Komabe, ana monga alendo akhoza kukhala ochulukirapo kapena samangochita nawo mwambowu, pakali pano, chotsani chovalacho chikhale chosavuta. Koma zofanana sizingatheke kuti zikhale zochepa ku jeans ndi koftotkami, lolani ubongo mulimonsemo umve gawo la chochitika.
Funso la kugula chovala choyenera kwa mwana limaphatikizidwa ndi vuto ngati momwe likufunira. Pindulani tsopano pali masitolo ambiri, kuphatikizapo pa intaneti omwe amapereka zovala zambiri za ana a tchuthi za zosiyanasiyana. Ndiponso, monga njira, mautumiki apamalonda ogulitsa apadera ayenera kutayidwanso.
Mulimonsemo, chinthu chachikulu chomwe chiyenera kukumbukiridwa - kukhalapo kwa ana mu chiwerengero cha alendo kumafuna khama lina, kuti alendo ndi alendo akwaniritsidwe ndi chikondwererocho.