Malamulo a banja: mavumbulutso onena za kusudzulana

Kwa mabanja ena osweka, chisudzulo chinali cholimbikitsira moyo watsopano, wokhutira, ndi moyo kwa onse omwe kale anali okwatirana. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, panthawi ya chisudzulo, amilandu adanena ndi makasitomala awo kuti amamvera chifundo, kumvetsetsa, kuvomereza ndi kupatsana wina ndi mzake. Ena sangathe kuchotsa ululu ndi chidani cha omwe kale anali nawo. Nthawi zambiri, ndi omwe amawongolera ndi khalidwe loipa, lodzikweza, kukakamiza kuchita zinthu zomwe zikuphwanya malamulo ndi malamulo. Kutsogolera akatswiri a ku Ulaya pa lamulo la banja, mabungwe a milandu omwe ali ndi zaka 20-30 adatsegula chophimba pazinthu zina za maphwando omwe "anabalalitsidwa", akuwatcha iwo "zizolowezi zonyansa", akuchenjeza kuti zisankho zoterezi zili ndi khalidwe laumwini ndipo zimayambitsidwa nthawi zambiri chibadwa chaumunthu chodzipulumutsa yekha pakali pano, ndipo ndithudi sichiyenera kuti tigwiritse ntchito. Ndipotu ena mwa iwo ndi oletsedwa!
Kusamukira kudziko lina kuti akakhale ndi zinthu zabwino zothetsera banja.
Mkhalidwe, pakuyang'ana koyamba, umawonekera, koma umachitika nthawi zambiri, timaganiza. Mkwatibwi (kapena mkazi) yemwe watenga chisudzulo amayamba kukakamiza kugonjera kudziko lina, kujambula mitundu yonse ya zipsyinjo za moyo watsopano - nyengo, ndale ndi zachuma, ndi zina zotero. Ndipotu, mwamuna wonyalanyaza amayembekezera kuti ndalama zisawonongeke pakakhala chisudzulo. Malamulo amalangiza - musakhale oganiza. Ngakhale bwatolo lanu silikuopsezedwa, musanayambe kudziwerengera nokha zomwe zidzakuchitikirani ngati chibwenzi chanu chimasokonekera mwamsanga. Musanayambe kusuntha, mufunseni mapeto atsopano, omwe amatha kusudzulana, omwe adzakhazikitse kuti banja lidzatha, komanso momwe ndalama zidzakhalira pakati panu mutatha kusudzulana.

Pogwiritsira ntchito ogwira ntchito kuti azionetsetsa kuti akuyang'anitsitsa mnzanuyo, kumvetsera foni, "ziphuphu" mu ofesi ndi galimoto .
Kusaka kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi kungakhale ndi zotsatira zovuta kwa inu, chifukwa zidzakhala zovuta kuti mufotokoze zolinga zanu pa mulandu. Ngakhalenso ngati ndiwe woperekera pansi pa mpando wa galimoto yomwe munalembera mafoni onse, zochita zanu ndizoletsedwa. Lamulo ndi woweruza yemwe amayamikira mbiri yake sadzapeza zifukwa zofunikira ndipo sangagwirizane ndi mlanduwo.

Kujambula chinsinsi cha pepala lililonse lomwe lili ndi ndalama zam'nyumba komanso mu ofesi ya mkaziyo .
Wokwatirana aliyense ali ndi ufulu wosunga chinsinsi ndipo akuyenera kufotokozera momveka bwino zifukwa zothetsera banja. Malemba omwe amapezedwa mosavomerezeka sangagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi loya wanu ndipo ayenera kutumizidwa mwamsanga kwa woweruza wa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Okwatirana omwe alandira chidziwitso mwanjira iyi akhoza kuperekedwa ngongole kapena milandu yokhudza milandu kapena milandu yotsegulidwa. Lamulo likuletsa kuletsa makompyuta a mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, kulowerera ndi kutsegula mauthenga asanatumizidwe ku adiresi yolondola. Musasewere ndi malamulo, zochita zanu mwamsanga zidzangobweretsa kutsutsa ndikukupangitsani mavuto ambiri osafunikira.

Kuika pambali "tsiku lamvula" ndalama zambiri momwe zingathere.
Amakasitomala ambiri amaleya amilandu am'mudzi amatenga njira zowonetsera ndalama zawo nthawi yayitali chisanathe chiyambi cha chisudzulo. Anthu olemera amatsegula ma banki m'madera akumidzi kuti amuna apambane. Zowonongeka bwino zimakhala mu akaunti za mabanki achibale. Zimabwera ku mfundo yakuti "mwakachetechete" katunduyo akugulitsidwa, ndipo ndalamazo zimaponyedwa pa chiwembu chomwecho ku nyanja. Pamene theka lachiwiri likubwezeretsa, ndichedwa kwambiri kuchita china chirichonse.

Kuwonongeka kwadala, kuwononga kapena kugulitsa katundu wamtengo wapatali, makamaka zomwe mkaziyo amayamikira.
Zomwezo, pamene chifukwa cha zizolowezi zonyansa zili zokonzeka pa chirichonse, amilandu amakumana pa sitepe iliyonse. Mkaziyo amagulitsa piano ya piano popanda piyano yake, pamene iye anali paulendo, mwamuna akhoza kuwona miyendo ya mipando yaofesi, yogulitsidwa ndi zibangili zamtengo wapatali, ngakhalenso ndege! Mzimayi wina wokwiya kwambiri anaponyera mikanjo ndi maukwati a mwamuna wake, ndipo mwadzidzidzi anawathira madzi ndi madzi otentha.

Gwiritsani ntchito ndalama kumanja ndi kumanzere, ndikulimbikitseni ndalamazi ngati malipiro a banja lanu.
Monga lamulo, uwu ndiwo mawonekedwe a kubwezera kwa mkazi wokanidwa. Amuna samadziwa mwamsanga kuti ndi makadi awo a ngongole chinachake chikulakwika! Koma ali ndi ufulu wosabweza ngongole zapakhomo. Bwalo lamilandu liribe mphamvu zobwezera ndalama, zomwe zinawonongeka, kotero kuti kulamulira kochepa pa dziko la akaunti pa khadi kudzaloleza kuti ipulumutsidwe kuti asamalipire zomwe mkazi wake akugula.

7. Gwiritsani ntchito anzanu monga azondi kuti mutha kupeza mwayi wothandizira malamulo komanso mudziwe zomwe zikuchitika.
Malamulo amalingalira kuti izi ndizofunika kwambiri ngakhale mwa iwo. Mkaziyo akudziyesa kuti ndi bwenzi la mkazi wake, amapereka chithandizo poyankhula ndi alamulo ake, amaphunzira machenjerero ndi uphungu woperekedwa, ndipo amauza zonsezi kwa mwamuna wake. Chifukwa chake, amilandu amaletsa makasitomala awo kuti abwere kwa iwo ndi "abwenzi" mu doko.