Abambo atsopano ndi amayi, ngakhale okonzekera bwino, atakhala ndi zinyenyeswazi, amafunsidwa mafunso ambiri. Kodi tingakhale makolo abwino? Kodi tiphunzira kusamalira bwino? Kaya tidzakambirana ndi maphunziro? Kodi tidzatha kudziteteza ku matenda ndi ngozi? Zochitika zimadza pang'onopang'ono. Tsiku ndi tsiku mudzaphunziranso za kusamba ndi kusintha zovala, kupenda minofu ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuphunzira masewera ndi mavimbo, kuyendayenda ndi kuyenda ... Ndipo mukumvetsa zomwe ana akugulitsidwa m'masitolo, ndipo pakati pa anthu ambiri adzapeza chinthu chomwe chidzagwirizane mwana wanu. Ndipo kudalira kokha pa chidziwitso chawo, zolemba. Ndipotu, mwana wanu ndi wapadera, mosiyana ndi ena! Kotero, iye akusowa yekha kuyandikira.
Maphunziro Oyamba
Kubwerera kuchipatala iwe, Amayi, mwazindikira momwe kumumvera mwanayo ndikumakhudza, ndikofunika bwanji kukhalapo kwanu. Mwanayo akamva mawu a mayi ake, kupuma, kutsekemera, amatsitsa pansi, amafuula, amamvetsera. Mofananamo, amaphunzira momwe akumvera panthawi yovala. Wodandaula pamene iwe umachotsa ziphuphu zake, akulira, ndikupitilira kumbali. Ndipo mwamsanga mukangoyamba kugwiritsa ntchito kirimu kapena mafuta, mumatsitsimutsanso ndipo mumakonda kukhala ofatsa ndi ofatsa. Khungu la ana ndilo limene limapanga zambiri zokhudza dziko lozungulira makolo. Pamene ndi youma, omasuka, ofunda, osamvetsetsa pang'ono: zonse ziri bwino, dziko limalimbikitsa ndi lotetezeka. Koma zovuta (zotupa zamvula, hypothermia kapena kutentha, bedi losasangalatsa, zochitika ndi mantha a amayi) zimasonyeza ngozi. Kugona mokwanira kungawonongeke, chilakolako chimatha. Neonatologists amati: Ana ovutika amakhala ovuta kwambiri kulemera ... Ndicho chifukwa chake ndi kofunika kwambiri kuyambira tsiku loyamba kupereka mwanayo zinthu zabwino, ndipo izi ndi zofunika kwa makolo. Valani pajambula abwino omwe amapereka kumverera kwa ukhondo ndi ukhondo, zosangalatsa ku zovala zogwira.
Poyambirira kuposa kuganiza kwa mwana
Mwanayu akukula. Kuchokera ku cholengedwa chochepa chopanda mphamvu pang'onopang'ono chimakhala munthu wodziimira. Iye amatha kale kulankhulana zosowa zake, kuyitana amayi ake. Ndipo inu, chifukwa cha kugwirizana kosamvetseka ndi mwana wanu, mumamva zomwe akufunikira, ndikuzindikira momveka bwino phokoso limene amapanga. Osakhutira ndikunyoza? Kotero, iye akufuna kuti azipita mwanjira yaying'ono. Kodi amatembenuza mutu wake mosasinthasintha, akuwombera ndi kuwombera? Musaganizire kuti mudzipangitse nokha. Mukufulumira kumuthandiza. Choncho, pokonzekera mauthenga ake okhudzana ndi chilakolako chofuna kusinthana, adye kapena agwire, mumamukumbatira: Ndikukumvetsani, zonse ziri mu dongosolo. Ubale wotere pakati pa amayi ndi ana a ana umaganiza bwino kwambiri kuti ubongo wa mwana ukhale wogwirizana, maganizo ake.
Ndigwireni!
Karapuz imapanga ziphuphu zazikulu pakukula ndikukondweretsa makolo abwino, chofunika kwambiri kuposa aphunzitsi abwino. Lero akuyesera kuti afikitse chidole ndikusintha kuchokera kumbuyo mpaka kumimba kwake, ndipo mawa ali kale pazinayi zonse. Musakhale ndi nthawi yoti muyang'ane mmbuyo, momwe mungakhalire, ndiyeno mukukwawa! Mphamvu yosuntha imavumbulutsira mwanayo asanafikepo. Amafuna kudziwa malo omwe amamuzungulira. Kuyambira tsopano, mukhoza kumugonetsa. Mukamadzuka, yesetsani kuonetsetsa kuti palibe chimene chikulepheretsa kuyenda kwa zinyenyeswazi zanu. Ndiyo nthawi yosintha kukula kwa ma diapers. Samalani kwa omwe amamwa bwino, musatope ndipo musasokoneze ntchito. Mwana woteroyo adzamva bwino! Makolo okha ayenera kulingalira: kuyambira tsopano, mwanayo ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa. Sungani malo omwe muli: ikani mapulagi pazitsulo, chotsani kuchoka kumalo oti mukwaniritse zinthu zing'onozing'ono, mankhwala, mankhwala apanyumba, muike Papa pamtunda wa waya. Ndipo chonde, musatenge maso anu kuleza mtima kwanu. Iye sadziwabe zoopsa zomwe zilipo ndi zinthu zina. Mwamwayi, pamene "chosatheka" chanu sichigwira ntchito. Choncho, sungani chidwi chanu, musokoneze ndikupereka zinthu zokhazokha.
Ndipo mkati - njinga
Mphamvu ya mwanayo ndi yokwanira. Atayendetsa, akuyenda ndi makolo ake, akuvina pakhomo ndikuponyera ana anyamata, ali wokonzeka kuchita zinthu zambirimbiri. Ndi zabwino! Koma chifukwa cha zinyenyeswazi, zosangalatsa zotero zimapangitsa kuti pakhale mowonjezereka. Mwadzidzidzi amawononga maganizo, mwanayo ndi woipa, wosakhutira ndi aliyense ... Nchiyani cholakwika ndi iye? Ndikofunika kuphunzitsa mwanayo kuti asinthe pakati pa nthawi yogwira ntchito. Panthawi imeneyi ya chitukuko, zigawo za ubongo zomwe zimayambitsa kusintha ndizochepa. Mwanayo sangathe kuima panthawi yake. Musamayembekezere kusintha, ndipo musinthe zosangalatsa zanu pa mphindi 15-20. Kodi mwalumpha? Tsopano mukhoza kuwerenga mabuku. Mukuwerenga? Ino ndi nthawi yakukwawa.
Gawo ndi sitepe
Wina ayamba kuyenda yekha pa miyezi 9-11. Ana ena amaphunzira kuyenda pambuyo pa chaka. Komabe, onse amasangalala ndi luso lawo latsopano. Eya, amayesa kuphunzira momwe angathere mwamsanga. Monga lamulo, pa msinkhu uno palinso zoyesayesa kumudziwitsa mwanayo ndi mphika. Chabwino, mwana wanu wokondedwa wapita ku gawo latsopano la chitukuko. Kotero, ndi nthawi yambiri yogula - masewera apamwamba, zinthu. Ndikofunikira kuti musankhe kansalu kamene kamasangalatsa achinyamata komanso kosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito. Phunzitsani mwanayo pang'onopang'ono: ndiroleni ine ndiphunzire chinthu chatsopano, gwiritsani ntchito chidole kuti musonyeze momwe mungakhalire. Kutamandidwa ngati chophweka chinkayamba kuti chichite chinthu chawo. Koma musandikakamize ngati ndizovuta.
Kufikira chaka ndi theka, ana sangathe kuyendetsa kayendedwe kake ndi kutetezedwa popanda kuthandizidwa ndi makolo awo. Iwo sangathe nthawi zonse kudziwa kuti akufuna kupita kuchimbudzi. Makamaka pamene chinachake chikugwira ntchito mwakhama. Bzalani pa mphika mutatha maloto, yendani, mu mphindi 15-20 kuchokera pamene mutenga madzi. Kodi mwanayo anafunsa? Umnichka! Muthandizeni, ndipo ngati akufuna kuchita zonse mwini - mulole iye. Chifukwa cha mikangano yabwino mwanayo popanda kutenga nawo mbali angachotseko kansalu ndikukhala pamphika. Palibe chomwe chinabwera? Zilibe kanthu! Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti chidwi chokhala ndi chidwi chimaphunzirako zomwe zikuchitika. Zonsezo ndi nkhani ya nthawi.