Monga tanena kale, buku lotoli likusiyana kwambiri ndi ena mwa chiyambi komanso kutanthauzira kwathunthu kwa maloto. Zinali pano, Freud anaganiza, kugwiritsa ntchito luso lake la psychoanalysis potanthauzira maloto. Mwa njira, malingaliro a maloto, mu bukhu lake la loto, akuwonekera kuchokera pa zithumwa zathu zamkati, zomwe ife tingakhoze, ngakhale kwathunthu, sizikuzindikira. Apa ndibwino kuwonjezera kuti pafupi ndi mwana wa Freudian, lomwe ndilo loto lolota, pali lingaliro lomwe ali ndi chiwerewere mwachindunji mwa zomwe ali nazo. Ambiri amamuona ngati buku lolota maloto.
Womasulira maloto a Freud potanthauzira maloto akuphatikizapo tanthauzo la maloto lomwe liri ndikuti maloto athu onse ndi kukwaniritsidwa kwa zikhumbo zathu zosadziwika molunjika. Ndipo zonsezi zimachitika mwachindunji pa msinkhu wosadziwika wodzidzimitsa wekha. Freud ankakhulupirira kuti mu maloto mu ubongo wathu pali kusanthula maganizo ndi zinthu zooneka, zomwe pamapeto pake zimaloledwa ndi zizindikiro zina ndi zinthu zomwe ifeyo timalota.
Nthano ya Freud ya kugona imanena kuti maloto ndi chithunzi chomwe chimapereka umboni weniweni, chifukwa china chake, nthawi yomweyo sichidziwika konse. Psychese yaumunthu ndi mndandanda wake wa phunziro imakhudzidwa ndi zosiyana za maganizo ndi zinthu za dziko lozungulira. Ndi iwo amene amachititsa kuti maloto athu akwaniritsidwe.
Ndipo, potsiriza, tiyeni tiyang'ane pa kutanthauzira pang'ono kwa zomwe ife nthawi zambiri timalota, pogwiritsa ntchito bukhu lathu lotolo: kutanthauzira maloto molingana ndi Freud.
Ukwati
Ukwati wa wina ndi nkhani zabwino kwa inu kapena okondedwa anu. Ngati mutakwatirana mwachindunji mu loto, muyenera kuyembekezera zodabwitsa.
Fata
Ngati mkazi wokwatiwa amayesa pa chophimba chake, kuyembekezera chinachake chachilendo ndi chatsopano kuchokera ku moyo chomwe chidzachitike mwachindunji m'banja mwanu. Ngati ndilo loto la mtsikana wosakwatiwa, yang'anani watsopano ndi munthu. Ngati, ngakhale inu, mu loto, muwona chophimba chothothoka, dikirani chinyengo mwamsanga kuchokera kumbali ya wina.
Nyanja
Mukuona nyanja yamtendere - mwachiwonekere mulibe mtendere wa m'maganizo, koma idzasintha posachedwa ndipo mudzaipeza. Maloto amene amayang'ana panyanja kuchokera kutali amatanthauza kuti nthawi zambiri mumaganizira za chibwenzi, ndikuganiza kuti kugonana ndi chinthu chomwe sichikutheka ndipo sichitha. Mukusambira m'nyanja - zikutanthauza kuti mumapeza chilichonse kuchokera ku moyo chomwe mungachifunire. Yesetsani kulowa m'nyanjayi yodikira kuti musaiwale komanso kugonana. Zimasokoneza munthu - ndiye munthuyu akupempha thandizo lanu, penyani mwatsatanetsatane izi. Ngati mumasambira mu maloto anu ndikusambira pansi pa madzi - muyenera kusiya kusiya kukumba zomwe sizikukhudzani inu konse.
Kangaude
Mzimayi wina adawona kangaude m'maloto, motero amadziwa kuti ali yekha popanda mwamuna.
Nkhuku
Kumva khwangwala - kuyembekezani chinyengo chanu. Tangoganizirani tambala - posachedwa, pangani zolakwika pamoyo wanu.
Kubereka
Ngati mukulota kuti mukubereka, khalani okonzekera kutenga mimba, ndipo ngati mutengeka, muyembekezere kuti mwamsanga mutha kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu.
Nsomba
Gwirani nsomba mu maloto - simungasangalale ndi kugonana chifukwa simudziwa momwe mungathere ndikuiwala mavuto anu onse. Yesani kuthana ndi izi. Kugwira nsomba ndi kukhalabe wopanda nsomba - kumasonyeza kuti mumayang'aniridwa ndi zovuta zambiri zomwe zimakhudzana ndi mantha olakwitsa panthawi yogonana.
Mnyamata
Ngati mnyamata ali wokongola ndi wokongola - ndilo loto lomwe mumasintha ntchito yanu, kapena bwino, kupeza mphotho zachuma pa ntchitoyo.
Ngati, mu maloto anu, mumpsompsona mnyamata kapena kulankhula naye - izi zikusonyeza kuti posachedwa, mudzafuna kusintha kwambiri moyo wanu waumwini komanso wapamwamba.
Masitepe
Ndilo chizindikiro cha moyo wanu. Ngati mukulota kuti mukukwera masitepe mmwamba, ndiye kuti muyenera kumvetsera anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi inu.
Ngati mukulota, mukugwa pa makwerero - muyembekezere kukhumudwa kwa munthu pafupi ndi inu.
Pamene, iwe umamuwona mwamuna atayima pamwamba pa masitepe, ndipo iwe umamudziwa iye_ikutanthauza kuti iwe ukufuna kumudziwa bwino munthu uyu, koma samangoyesera kuchita izo.
Mumatsika masitepe kupita kumtunda - izi zikusonyeza kuti mumadzifunira nokha. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ndiwe wodalirika wochuluka, ndipo chifukwa chake simupeza ubale ndi amuna.
Moto
Maloto moto --yembekezerani kuti posachedwa mumakondana ndi munthu yemwe adzakutsatirani pazochitika zonse za moyo.
Kupsompsona
Kupsompsonana kosautsa mu maloto akulonjezani inu kukumana ndi munthu wopeza ndalama, mwa kuyankhula kwina, Alfonso. Ngati wina akupsompsona, ndipo mukuyang'ana izi, dziwani kuti posachedwa mudzakhala pakati pa zochitika zosasangalatsa.
Kotero ife tinatchula maloto omwe amapezeka kwambiri. Izi, ndithudi, ndizochepa kwambiri zomwe zikuyimiridwa m'buku la loto la Freud. Osakhala waulesi kwambiri kuti uyang'ane kachiwiri ndikupeza chinthu chatsopano ndi chodabwitsa. Ndipo chifukwa cha kutanthauzira kwake, mudzadziŵa nokha, zovuta zanu, zokhumba, kugonana ndi mantha kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti maloto ndi moyo wathu wausiku, womwe uli ndi tanthauzo lalikulu. Choncho, kutanthauzira kwawo kolondola ndi luso sizongopanda kanthu koma chidziwitso musanathetse zosowa zanu ndi zikhumbo zanu.