Kodi chiyanjano cha tactile n'chiyani?

Kugwira ntchito kwachangu kumakhala ngati kutulutsa maganizo athu ndi maganizo athu. Pa kafukufuku pankhani ya chitukuko chabwino cha ana ang'onoang'ono, pamapeto pake, anapeza mfundo yochititsa chidwi: ana, omwe nthawi zambiri ankavala zolembera, ankakukumbatira, amawomba, amatsompsona, amakhala ochepetsetsa komanso okhudzidwa kwambiri kuposa ana omwe alibe chikondi. Kuyambira paubwana kuti chosowacho chimasunthidwa ndi munthu kuti chikhale wamkulu, kupereka kufunikira kokhala ndi zowawa komanso zochitika. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino kwa mwana wanu, chitani khalidwe lake mofulumira komanso losinthasintha, ndithudi mukufunikira kudziwa chomwe chiyanjano chogwirira ntchito chiri.

Kodi chiyanjano cha tactile ndi chiyani chomwe chili chofunikira kwa mayi ndi mwana?

Chifukwa cha kukhudzidwa kwa khungu, mwana wakhanda amayamba kulandira ndikupanga zinthu kuchokera kunja kwa dziko: chabwino ndi choipa; zokondweretsa - zosasangalatsa, ndi zina. Mwana amawona, amamva, koma m'miyezi yoyamba amayamba kumvetsa dziko kokha mwa kugwira komanso kumverera kwa khungu. Ngakhale ali wamng'ono kwambiri, amayamba kuzindikira zinthu kapena anthu omwe ali ochezeka kwa iye, ndi zomwe siziri.

Zakhala zowonjezereka: mukamamukumbatira kwambiri, kumpsompsona, kumusisita, kumupatsa chitsulo, mopanda nkhawa, amalira. M'malo mwake, imakula mofulumira ndipo imakhala yolandira.

Kumbukirani kuti mwanayo adachokera ku malo otentha ndi otetezeka a mimba ya mayi mudziko lachilendo ndi losadziwika ndipo amafunikanso kuwononga. Amayi pa nkhaniyi, yekhayo amene angathe kuthandiza mwanayo kuti aphunzire momwe angakhalire bwinobwino. Ngati simukufuna kuti mwana wanu akule kuti azitsekedwa kapena akukwiya, yesetsani kumukankhira pachifuwa mobwerezabwereza, kuwagwiritsanso pogwira, kukwapula ndi kumpsompsona. Kulankhulana kwachinsinsi ndi chitsimikizo cha psyche wathanzi.

Amayi ambiri akhala akuzindikira mobwerezabwereza kuti kusuntha kwa mwana kumakhala kovuta komanso kosasokonezeka, koma ndi koyenera kukhudza, pamene pang'onopang'ono amakhala odekha ndi ofewetsa, minofu imasuka.

Kodi mungatani kuti mukulankhulana momasuka ndi mwanayo kwa kholo?

Kuyambira miyezi yoyamba kuchokera pamene mwana wabadwa, amagwiritsa ntchito mphindi iliyonse yakuuka kwake. Chitani pang'ono phokoso lochepetsetsa ndi kupopera kwa stroking: sikudzangotulutsa minofu hypertonia, koma idzachepetsa.

Malangizo ochepa:

• Amayi nthawi zambiri amamukakamiza kumtima. Phokosoli ndilodziwika kwa iye kuchokera m'mimba ndipo likuyimira chitetezo, kutentha.
• Onetsetsani mitengo ya palmu yosakanizika, tsatirani ndi chala chanu. Tsindezani ndi kusuntha chala chilichonse. Musamawopsyeze kuzizira zidendene, kuzigwedeza.
• Pa kusamba, ndi bwino kusamba mwana wanu nthawi zambiri kuchokera m'manja mwanu. Kusuntha ndikulandiridwa.
• Kuwongolera manja anu ndi imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri zothetsera ndi kuthandizira wina kugona. Kusuntha kwanu sikuyenera kukhala kolimba kapena kosiyana, yesani kugwedeza mofanana. Ndizotheka ngati lullaby ikuphatikizidwa ndi mtendere wamtendere. Komanso musamalidwe bwino m'nyumba ya kutentha.

Kudziwa kuti chiyanjano chotani ndi momwe mungachigwiritsire ntchito poyankhulana sikudzakuthandizani kukhala ndi mwana wathanzi wathanzi, komanso, monga kholo, kuti mudziwe chimwemwe chonse chowonetsera chikondi chanu.