Pafupifupi mwana aliyense wachisanu ndi chiwiri kapena wachisanu ndi chitatu ali ndi zizindikilo zosiyana siyana za matendawa, zomwe zimawoneka ngati "kusowa kwachisokonezo cha matenda." Matendawa nthawi zambiri amapangidwa kuchokera ku mawu a amayi onena za "kuyenda ndi mantha" kwa mwana, kuti "sitingathe kupirira, sizingatheke kukhala chete. "Kawirikawiri izi ndi chizindikiro chosasokonekera kwambiri monga momwe makolo amachitira zopanda phindu. Kodi ndi zolondola kuchita ndi" kugwira ntchito mwakhama "kapena mwana wokhudzana ndi ubongo? Iye sayenera kusungidwa pansi pa malo, amayenera kukwaniritsa zochitika zonse za moyo, ndizofunikira kuti mwanayo aphunzitse mphamvu zake zofooka kuti azitha kuika maganizo ake pazochitika "pafupi ndi nkhondo." Panthawi yomweyi, palibe chomwe chingatheke "kusiya chirichonse", ponena za kukhalapo kwa matenda. "Inde, sangathe kukhala chete!" - akuti amayi mu chipatala, yemwe mwana wake amatha kuyenda pamsewu ndikugogoda chidole pamakoma, akukwiyitsa ena ndikuletsa madokotala kuti asatenge phwando. Ndipo ndichifukwa ninji mwana yemweyo akukhala kwa maola awiri pa kompyuta kapena kuyang'ana katoto tsiku lonse? Kusasamala (ngakhale kupezedwa ndi katswiri) si matenda, koma mchitidwe wa mantha wamwana wopatsidwa. Tiyeni tione zitsanzo. Kusasamala komanso kutaya chidwi kwa ana - nkhaniyi.
Tikuyembekezera mzere
Kukhala pansi kapena kuyimabe akadali chiyeso kwa mwana aliyense. Nthawi zonse mukhale okonzeka kupanga "properlaxtivity attack".
• Choyika chaching'ono ndi chopepuka, koma chokhudzana wina ndi mnzake mwa tanthauzo la zidole. Mwachitsanzo, chidole chovala zovala ndi thumba lagona, transformer, chidindo cha pepala ndi pepala ...
• Mutu wa kholo pali masewera angapo kwa mwanayo pa zaka ndi zokongola, zomwe mungasewere kuyima kapena kukhala. Mwachitsanzo: "Nchiyani chomwe chinaikidwa pa steamer?" "Chimene mukufuna, ndiye kutenga," inde "ndi" ayi "musanene ..." ndi zina zotero.
• Bweretsani buku latsopano (la mwana) lomwe lingathe kuonedwa ndikukambirana.
• Ndikofunika kusamalira masewera omwe sitingapewe. Mwachitsanzo, tengani zidole ziwiri kapena magalimoto awiri kuti musapeze mikangano, ndipo kambiranani ndi mwanayo malire a ololedwa: "Kumeneko kudzakhala kotheka kusewera, koma pamalo omwe ndikuwonetsedwera ndi mwakachetechete."
Zotsatira za chikhalidwe
M'sewero, ana osasamala nthawi zambiri samatha ngakhale kusewera kwa ana. Ichi si chifukwa chokanira kufotokozera. Musanayambe, samalani kuti malo anu ali kumapeto kwa mzere ndipo mukhoza kuchoka nthawi iliyonse. Mwina, pachiyambi, mwanayo ali ndi chinthu chimodzi chokha - adalandira zochitika zake. Mtsogolo, pamene mwana akukula, funsani naye: "Pali mwayi woti mupite, ndizosangalatsa, kodi mumayimilira bwanji, kodi ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama ndi nthawi?" Musati mutenge udindo kwa mwanayo, ayeseni. Muzochitika ndi zikondwerero, ana omwe amawopsa kwambiri nthawi zambiri amawopseza, ndiyeno amayamba kukhala opanda nzeru komanso amawombera amatsenga.Cross sayenera kulemedwa ndi mayesero amenewa, ngakhale kuti tchuthi ndi yotchuka komanso yowala kwambiri. Mwanayo ayenera kudziwa kuti ngati akufuna kupitiriza, ayenera "kudzipangira yekha."
Timapita kukachezera
Musanayambe kukhala mwamtendere, kambiranani zomwe zikuchitika paulendowu: "Azakhali Zina sakonda kutenga zinthu kuchokera kumbali yake. Onetsetsani kuti mufunse. "" Galu wa Jack sungakhoze kuthiridwa ndi kufomedwa. Ngati mwanayo akuphwanya malamulo onse, mwamsanga mumudziwitse kuti mumakhumudwitsidwa bwanji ndi khalidwe lake, akukhumudwitsani, momwe mukuvutikira. Iye sankaona kuti ndi kofunika kuti awonetse malire omwe amatchulidwa bwino - ndipo apa pali zotsatira. Nthawi yotsatira, perekani mwana wanu kusankha: a) simukupita kukaona: b) mupita kukaona, koma mumatsatira malamulo: c) simukutsatira malamulo ndipo mumasokoneza zosangalatsa zanu, makolo anu komanso eni nyumba. Mwachidziwitso anabweretsa "hyperdynamics" nthawi zina amakana momveka bwino: "Ndibwino kuti ndisapite, koma sindingathe kuzigwira, ndikuswa kanthu, ndipo Aunt Zina adzakhalanso akunjenjemera pa ife."
Pa seŵero
Amakhumudwitsa aliyense kapena amalepheretsa chilichonse. Thandizani mwanayo: konzani masewera ndi ana angapo, momwe mungatsatire malamulo anu nokha. Musatopa ndi kufotokozera ndi kuwonetsa malamulo a "nyumba yanyumba yamchere": "Mufunseni za chidole cha wina", "Ngati mukufuna kusewera nawo, tsatirani malamulo." Zili chonchobe? "Panthawiyi panalibe mtendere wamtendere, tsopano tikuchoka." Mawa tidzayesanso. "Mpakana ntchitoyi itayenera."
Mu sitolo
Tiye tiyambe kunena kuti: "Kusaganizira bwino kumakhala kovomerezeka ku malo ogulitsa ana, pamene kungomveka kulira kwa mwanayo:" Ahhh! Zimangobwera chifukwa cha zolakwa za makolo. Ndibwino kuti musatenge ana ang'onoang'ono osasokonezeka m'masitolo, ali ndi zolimbikitsa zambiri, zosokoneza zambiri, zomwe zasowa kale. kulowera ku sitolo) zonse zimakambirana mwachindunji: "Mu sitolo tidzagula chinachake cha tiyi pa chisankho changa ndi maswiti amodzi kwa inu - malinga ndi kusankha kwanu." Ngati mwanenadi choncho, khalani okonzeka kugula chimodzi chamtengo wapatali kwambiri kapena chamtengo wapatali kwambiri. "Tidzakagula chidole. Mmodzi, osati ma hryvnia makumi asanu. "Pamene mwanayo amvetsetsa kuti mawu anu amasonyeza zomwe zidzachitike m'zochitika zenizeni, sipadzakhala zochitika za amatsenga." Kufunsa mafunso: "Koma izi sizingagulidwe? " Mukuyenera kukhala gulu la anthu ogulitsa nzeru, mukufuna chiyani?