Pofuna kudyetsa panopa, kumatenga nthawi yaitali, chifukwa mkaka umodzi si wokwanira kwa mwana. Choyamba, amayi anga amatha nthawi yaitali akuyendayenda pophika kuphika kenakake kake, kenaka amayesa kumunyengerera kuti adye mbambande yotchukayi kwa nthawi yayitali. Ndiyenera kudziŵa luso lokonzekera, kuti ndizitha kusewera ndege ndi "ku-ku" kuti amudyetse gawo lonselo. Zitatu kapena zinayi zomwe zimadyetsa, ndipo simukuwona momwe tsikulo linathamangira.
N'zosakayikitsa kuti ana amakonda pokapriznichat, koma ana odziwa bwino ana amamukumbutsa nthawi zonse kuti mayiyo ali ndi mphamvu zowonjezera. Iye sakufuna - izo zikutanthauza kuti iye alibe njala, koma monga njala - adye chirichonse, ndipo adzapempha zowonjezerapo. Ndipo musaiwale kuti mwanayo amafunika kuti azizoloŵera chakudya chatsopano. Zimatenga pafupifupi sabata. Choncho, lowani chakudya chatsopano pang'onopang'ono, kuyambira ndi makilogalamu awiri kapena awiri.
Mwanayo atangoyamba kukwawa, amauluka mofulumira. Mwanayo akazindikira kuti tsopano sadalira amayi ake, kuti adziŵe yekha komwe angakwere ndi zomwe angakhudze, muwona mwana wosiyana kwambiri. Wodziimira komanso wogwira ntchito. Adzapeza dziko lozungulira. Ndipo osati dziko lokha, komanso makatani, mabokosi, mabokosi ndi mitsuko. Amakhudza, kukoka ndi kukonda chilichonse chimene angafike.
Ndipo izi ndi zachilendo ponena za chitukuko cha mwana pambuyo pa miyezi 6. Mwanayo sayenera kufufuza nkhani iliyonse, koma amvetsetsenso zomwe zili. Ayenera kudziwa zomwe zingachitike ndi chinthu ichi, chomwe chingakhale chosangalatsa. Amayang'ana momwe zinthu izi zimagwiritsidwira ntchito ndi anthu akuluakulu, zomwe zimamveka panthawi yomweyo, ndikuyamba kuwatsanzira.
Akatswiri a physiologists amati pakakhala miyezi isanu ndi iwiri kapena isanu ndi iwiri ubongo wa mwanayo ndi woŵirikiza. Izi zikutanthauza kuti tsiku lirilonse lomwe mumakhala limabweretsa zambiri zatsopano komanso zothandiza kuntchito. Kumbukirani momwe analiri mwezi, ndipo mukumvetsetsa momwe kudumpha kwakukulu kamene mwana wanu akupangidwira. M'mwezi wachisanu ndi chitatu, mwanayo amasonyeza chikondi kwa munthu wamkulu, nthawi zambiri kwa amayi ake, chifukwa amakhala naye nthawi yambiri. Iye ali wokonzeka kuti azikhala ndi mphindi iliyonse ya moyo wake ndi iye. Ngati poyamba mungamulole kupita kwa anzanu kapena agogo anu ndikupita ku bizinesi yanu, ndiye konzani okondwa ndi zogawanika pakhomo.
Musamvere chisoni pamtima
Ana ambiri ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri, ndipo panthawiyi amayamba kuyankha ku ma adiresi awo. Izi zisanachitike mwanayo sanamvetsetse kuti mukumukantha - tsopano ndi mawu ndi mawu omwe amauzidwa, amvetsetsa kuti amayi ake sakukondwera nawo. Ndipo pobwerera mudzawona nkhope yake zonse zochitika. Ndipo matamando - ndipo adzaphuka. Choncho, kumwetulira nthawi zambiri ndikuyamikiranso mwana wanu. Ndipo ngati pali chinachake chokakamiza, kumbukirani kuti musanayambe kukhala ndi umunthu wochepa. Musathamangire kunyoza "Ndiwe woipa!" Kapena chinthu china pohleshche, ngati atasokonezeka. Kotero inu mumayesa umunthu, osati zochita zomwe iye anachita. Kotero, mawu akuti "Choncho, izi si zoipa!" Zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri. Ndikofunika ngakhale momwe mumalankhulira. Ndipo musaiwale kufotokoza chifukwa chake sizingatheke komanso momwe angachitire bwino.
Pokhapokha pamene phokosoli likukwawa, ayenera kufotokozera malamulo ena a khalidwe. Kodi ndingakhudze chiyani, chosatheka, ndi chifukwa chiyani. Nthawi yomweyo muike malire omveka pa zomwe zololedwa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munena kuti musagwire chitovu kapena zingwe zilizonse, musakhale aulesi nthawi iliyonse yomwe mwanayo akuyandikira, kuwakumbutsani. Ndondomekoyi ndi yofunika kwambiri poleredwa ndi nyenyeswa zanu! Koma, pophunzitsa, musaiwale kuti mumamuchitira ulemu, chikondi komanso kuleza mtima!
Kumbukirani kuti, molingana ndi agogo aamuna Freud, makina onse a maganizo amachokera kuunyamata. Mwa njira, chaka choyamba ndi theka la moyo wake iye adayambitsa chitukuko chachinsinsi cha mwanayo, chifukwa chiwalo chachikulu cha mphamvu za mwana m'miyezi iyi ya moyo ndi pakamwa. Mwanayo sangathe kudya, koma amatha kudziwa dziko loyandikana nawo, akukumana ndi zosangalatsa zambiri. Panthawiyi, makhalidwe ena amapangidwa. Ndipo momwe adzasonyezere bwino m'tsogolomu zimadalira ngati siteji iyi ya chitukuko yayenda bwino.
Choipitsitsa kwambiri, ngati panthaŵi ino mayi anga ali okhwima kwambiri, amanyalanyaza zosowa, kapena mosiyana, moyandikana ndi chisamaliro chokwanira, kuyesera kuwoneratu chikhumbo chirichonse. Panthawi imeneyi, mwanayo sangathe kudzipatula yekha kwa amayi ake, choncho makhalidwe amenewa amadzipangira okha. Zotsatira zake, mwanayo akhoza kukhala ndi chidaliro chodzidalira, kudzikayikira. Pambuyo pake, adzafunsira ku "maganizo" omwe ali pafupi, kuti amve kuti akusowa thandizo komanso kuthandizidwa.
Pangani kwa kampani
Tawonani kuti mwanayo atatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kuti akhale pafupi ndi amayi ake, ndizochepa chabe za mawu ake okondana omwe amalumikizana. Adzakhudza ndi kuphunzira chilichonse chimene angakwanitse: mphuno, maso, lilime, mphete, mabatani, mikanda. Iye ali ndi chidwi choyang'ana momwe munthu wamkulu amasewera ndi chidole, momwe nkhope ya nkhope yake imasinthira. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kukhudzana maganizo kumapita pamwamba - "mgwirizano." Tsopano mwanayo amapanga limodzi ndi wamkulu, kuyesera kumutsanzira iye. Pa masewero awa, masewera mmanja, kubisa ndi kufuna, ndi "ku-ku."
Ambiri amamupatsa mwanayo zovuta zapakhomo. Kaya munapita kukachapa, kudya, kugulitsa, kapena kuyeretsa, lankhulani za zolinga zanu zonse, zochita zanu, kutchula zinthu zomwe mumatenga. "Tsopano ife tidzasamba. Tiyeni titembenuzire madzi. Ndipo burashi yathu ili kuti? Titsuka mano athu pang'ono ndi izo. Tsopano manowo ndi oyera. " Ndipo onetsetsani kuti mumayamika mwana wanu pazinthu zinazake: zomwe adya, adasonkhanitsa piramidi. Kotero mwanayo amapeza maphunziro otsogolera ku khalidwe lachidziwitso la amayi ndi malingaliro ake pa izi kapena izi.
Kukulankhulana kwabwino ndi mwana yemwe muyenera kuyankhula nthawi zonse. Ayenera kumva mawu, ndi omveka bwino. Ndikofunika kwambiri kutsanzira ubble wa mwana. Iye amalankhula phokoso, mumabwereza. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amawona momwe milomo yanu ndi lilime lanu zimasunthira, ndipo amamva phokosoli molondola. Ngati pali phokoso pakati pa inu, yesetsani kutchula mawu atsopano a crumb. Ndipo iye adzayesera kubwereza izo. Chikhumbo chotsanzira chimagwiritsidwa ntchito mu chirichonse. Ikani mipira kunja kwa bokosi, yanikeni, iwasonkhanitseni. Kapena musonkhanitse piramidi, ndiyeno musokoneze. Mwa kulingalira kwathu, izi ndizopanda pake, koma kwa iye awa ndiwo oyamba kudziimira okha ndi zinthu.
Kukula kwa mwana pang'onopang'ono miyezi isanu ndi umodzi
Miyezi 6-7
kudula;
- atagona kumbuyo kwake, kusewera ndi miyendo, kuwalawa;
- zakumwa kuchokera m'chikho m'manja mwa amayi;
- kuyenda, kugwirana ndi izi kwa manja a amayi onse.
Miyezi 7-8.
- akhoza kuimirira ndi kuyenda, kugwiritsitsa ku chithandizo;
- zokwawa ku mipando, kuyesera kuima, kudalira pa izo;
- molimba mtima ndipo mofulumira akukhala pansi ndipo akhoza kusintha malo okhala, mwachitsanzo, kusintha kuchokera pamalo amodzi, kusintha malo;
- luso la "kubwezeretsa" likuwoneka - mwanayo akhoza kutenga kanthu kakang'ono ndi chala chake ndi chithunzi chake.
Miyezi 8-9.
- amasunthira kuchoka ku phunziro limodzi kupita ku lina, pogwiritsa ntchito sitepe ndi sitepe, pang'ono kugwira manja ku chithandizo;
- ndikudzidalira yekha m'manja mwake, kukwera pamwamba pa zitulo ndi sofa;
- amatha kutsegula ndi kutseka chivindikiro, kuyika chinthu chimodzi mzake;
- akhoza kugwiritsira botolo m'manja mwake, kubweretsa pakamwa pake, kuyamwa.
Kusintha maganizo
Miyezi 6-7.
- amadziwa momwe angasonyezere chikondi, amakukumbatira ndikupsompsona nkhope ya wamkulu yemwe amamukonda;
- mwamsanga imatontholetsa ngati igunda.
Miyezi 7-8.
- akuyamba kuopa alendo;
- kumakhudzidwa mtima ndi akuluakulu;
- amayamba kusonyeza chidwi kwa ana ena, kuona khalidwe lawo.
Miyezi 8-9.
- kumenyana ndi munthu wina wamkulu mwa njira zosiyanasiyana: angathe kumabisa dala, kutaya zidole, kusonyeza luso lawo ndi luso lawo;
- amatha kukhumudwa, ngati achikulire alola chingwe chakuthwa.
Kukula kwa maganizo
Miyezi 6-7.
- amasonyeza zinthu zomwe zimadziwika bwino pa pempho la wamkulu;
- Amakonda kuwombera kwa nthawi yayitali - nthawi zingapo amaimba zida zomwezo;
- ali ndi chidwi ndi thupi lake.
- amadzikhudza yekha ndi mphuno, makutu, tsitsi, kupweteka kwa mimba.
Miyezi 7-8.
- Panthawi yomwe mwanayo akukula pambuyo pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, mawu-manja amayamba kuonekera: mwanayo angagwedeze dzanja lake "pomwe", atambasula dzanja m'manja mwa akulu - "hello";
- kugalamuka kwambiri, kusewera ndi zidole kwa nthawi yaitali: amakonda kuganizira, kugwiritsira chidole pa chidole;
iye amatha kung'ung'ung'oneza phokoso.
Miyezi 8-9.
- mwana amadzizindikiritsa yekha ndi dzina lake ndipo akhoza kutembenukira ku foni;
- Zinthu zimatha kuchiritsidwa mosiyana malinga ndi zomwe zimakhala: Zimatha kuyendetsa mpira, kuchotsa chinthu chimodzi kuchokera kumzake, kufanikizira ndi kujambula zojambula za mpira.