Kodi ndingatani pa nthawi yanga yaulele?

Mukukonzekera kukhala mayi wam'tsogolo. Iyi ndi nthawi yabwino pamene mungathe, mutapita paulendo wobereka ndikugona pabedi, dzifunseni funso: Kodi mungatani mu nthawi yanu yaulere? Pafupifupi amayi onse akuyembekezera nthawi yomwe padzakhala nthawi yochuluka. Koma kawirikawiri amayi amtsogolo amakumana ndi vuto lalikulu kotero kuti sakudziwa choti achite pa nthawi yawo yopanda pakati pa mimba, ndipo ambiri ngakhale osakonzekera kutembenuzidwa kotereku.

Nthaŵi yaulere m'mayi wodwala amasanduka chisokonezo cha banal, chomwe pambuyo pa masabata angapo chimayambitsa chisokonezo.
Akatswiri ambiri oganiza za maganizo amagwirizana ndi yankho limodzi ku funso: Kodi ndingatani ndi amayi anga oyembekezera panthawi yopuma? Ndipo amanena kuti kutenga mimba ndi nthawi yaulere kumathandiza mkazi kuwululira luso lake la kulenga. Ndikupatsani zokhazokha zomwe mungachite mukakhala ndi pakati.
Akazi amakonda kugula, ndipo nthawi yaulere pa nthawi ya amayi oyembekezera amatsegula mwayi waukulu kwa aliyense wa ife. Tikawona mmene thupi lathu limasinthira ndikupeza mawonekedwe atsopano pa nthawi ya mimba, timayamba kuyang'ana zovala zosiyana siyana zomwe opanga mafashoni amadza nazo. Mavalidwe a amayi apakati tsopano akulolani kuti muwoneke mochititsa chidwi ndi okongola kwa anthu omwe akuzungulirani, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, mwinamwake kwa amuna okondedwa anu.
Ndi chiyani chinanso chomwe mungachite pa nthawi yanu yaufulu kwa amayi oyembekezera? Inde, mukhoza kuyendanso m'masitolo, chifukwa nkhaniyi sikwanira kwa aliyense wa ife. Mukhoza kugula zovala ndi zovala kwa mwana wam'mbuyo mtsogolo ngakhale asanabadwe, zomwe zingachepetse ndalama zomwe zimasamalira mwanayo. Ndikuganiza kuti mudzakhala okondwa kuzindikira kuti malonda omwe mumapanga pa nthawi yomwe mwapatsidwa adzakunyamulidwa ndi mwana wanu wam'tsogolo.
Ndiponso, mu nthawi yanu yaulere mungathe kukonza chipinda cha mwana. Mukhoza kumangokhalira kukambirana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu, kukongoletsa chipinda cha mwana wanu.
Kujambula panthawi yanu yopita kwa amayi oyembekezera kumathandizanso. Mothandizidwa ndi kujambula mungathe kumva nokha matalente atsopano ndikulowa nawo mujambula. Kuti muchite izi, mufunika kugula nyimbo ndi mitundu. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito mapepala a mwanayo ngati chingwe, chomwe mukufunikira kusintha pakapita zaka zingapo, pamene mwanayo ayamba kujambula ndi kuwachotsa ndi zolembera zake.
Kuchita nthawi yaulere kwa amayi omwe ali ndi pakati, nkothekanso kukhala olimbitsa thupi kapena physiotherapy. Idzakuthandizani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yaufulu ndi kulimbitsa thupi lanu musanabadwe. Pali machitidwe apadera omwe amachepetsa mtolo pamtunda wa mayi wapakati, kotero kuti pamene mukuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, mudzamva chitonthozo kumbuyo.
Njira ina yabwino, zomwe zingachititsidwe kwa amayi apakati nthawi yawo yopuma kuchokera kuntchito zapakhomo ndi kukonzekera kubereka akuwerenga mabuku pa mimba. Ngakhale kuti mungathe kuwerenga chirichonse: kuchokera kumagazini a amayi omwe mumakonda, ndikutha ndi ntchito zazikulu za Karl Marx. Mwachitsanzo, ndinawerenga nthawi yonse ya Dostoevsky nthawi yaulere panthawi yoyembekezera. Werengani ndi kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano.
Zoonadi, izi siziri mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe mungathe kuchita panthawi yanu yaulere kwa amayi oyembekezera kuti muwonetse nthawi yanu yopuma. Kumbukirani chinthu chachikulu - mimba si matenda. Choncho, musakhale ndi moyo wodzaza ndi wolemera. Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yanu yaulere mpaka pamtunda. Popanda mantha, pitani ku maphwando, mafilimu ndi kugula m'masitolo. Kukhala ndi moyo wowala ndi kukonzekera maonekedwe a munthu wamng'ono, ndikukutsimikizirani, simudzakhala ndi nthawi komanso funso lopusa, zomwe mungachite panthawi yanu yopanda kwa amayi oyembekezera!
Ndikukhumba iwe chimwemwe ndi kubwezeretsa mosavuta!