Anthu amakumana, anthu amayamba kukondana, amakwatira ... Ndipo amadziŵa kuti anakulira m'banja losiyana, ndipo chifukwa chake amatsutsana mosiyana ndi zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku ndi ntchito, ndipo sagwirizana nawo masomphenya onse a dziko lapansi. Kodi mungatani ngati mayi ake alola (mukuganiza) zolakwitsa? Kodi izi zingakonzedwe mwanjira ina? Ndipo kawirikawiri - kodi mwamuna wabwino ndi ndani?
Kotero, kodi mwamuna wanu amaganiza kuti kuyeretsa, kuphika ndi kutsuka ndizokazikazi okha? Iye samatsuka mbale, nthawi zambiri amasiya mbale zopanda kanthu mufiriji, ngati amasamba, amakonza kusefukira mu chipinda chosambira, ndipo saganiza kuti zovala ndi nyumba zingasokoneze? Chifukwa chake sikumangokwiya kwake. Ndikhulupirire, mwamuna wako samayesa kuchita chilichonse kuti akuchitireni zoipa. Izi ndi zomwe amayi ake anakulira ... Inde, mungathe kuvomereza, koma kodi ndibwino kuti muvutike, ngati mungathe kuyesa, ngati simumaphunzitsanso munthu wotsutsa, ndiye kuti mungakambirane naye?
MAFUNSO A MOYO
Alena, wazaka 27, anati: "Titakwatirana n'kuyamba kukhala m'chipinda chimodzi, ndinali kumwamba kumwamba ndichisangalalo. "Komabe, mwambo ukakhala utatha ndipo tinapeza moyo, ndinazindikira kuti tinakulira m'banja losiyana. Mayi anga ndi msungwana wabwino ndipo anandiphunzitsa kuti ndikhale woyera m'zinthu zonse, ndipo mwamuna wanga sagwiritsidwa ntchito povula nsapato akalowa m'nyumba. Popeza kuti hysteria sizinathandize (ndinazikonza nthawi zambiri), ndinaganiza zopita kumbali ina. Ndikayika suti ndi suti kuti ndipereke mwamuna wanga pakhomo (kuti akhale chinthu choyamba pamene akulowa mnyumbamo), ikani zitsulo pafupi ndi desiki lake, ndipo pambali pa bedi munapanga thumba lolemera ... Ndipo izi ntchito. Mwamunayo anasiya kuponyera zinthu ndi mapepala ndipo anayamba kusintha zovala atabwerera kunyumba. "
"Alena wachita bwino kwambiri," anatero katswiri wina wa zamaganizo, dzina lake Eduard Lieberman. - N'zosatheka kusintha zizoloŵezi za munthu wina. Ndipo ndani adanena kuti muli wolondola? Nchifukwa chiyani tikukhala monga iwe umanena, molondola? Funso limeneli ndilofunika kubwera m'maganizo mwanu. Ndicho chifukwa chake ntchito yanu sikuti muikonze, koma kuyesa kuti ikhale yomwe iyeyo akufuna kusintha, kuti akhale mwamuna wabwino kwa inu. Ndi bwino kuyamba ndi kukambirana. Lankhulani za zomwe inu nonse simukuzikondana wina ndi mnzake. Lankhulani nokha ndikumvetsera kwa izo. Ntchito yanu siyikutsutsana, koma kufotokoza zomwe zimayambitsa maubwenzi (amuna amayamikira kwambiri). Kotero, mmalo moyika dontho kumapeto kwa mawu oti "Sindikonda kuti mukugona mu jeans pabedi pathu," pitirizani ndi mawu akuti "chifukwa ndi momwe timanyamula tizilombo toyendetsa magalimoto kuchokera ku galimoto komanso maofesi ku bedi lathu." Amuna amawopa matenda, choncho ndi bwino kukondweretsa maganizo a madokotala. Komabe, kukambirana limodzi sikukwanira. Ngakhale ngati mnzanuyo akutsutsana ndi malingaliro anu, nkokayikitsa kuti iye adakonza mwamsanga (ngati chifukwa chakuti ankakonda kuchita zambiri pamakina). Ndipo kotero ntchito yanu yotsatira ndikupangitsa moyo wake kukhala wosavuta, ndipo monga Alain adachitira, kwenikweni samusiya mwayi woti achite mosiyana. "
MUSAMAGANIZIRE MAFUNSO
Mawuwa nthawi zambiri amalembedwa ndi anthu omwe kale anali okwatirana pamutu wakuti "chifukwa cha kusudzulana." N'zomvetsa chisoni, koma kawirikawiri mawu awa amabisala malingaliro osiyanasiyana pa dziko lapansi, omwe amayi ndi abambo amawaika poyamba. Tawonani ubale wa banja la mnzanuyo, mudziwe mmene amayi ake anamubweretsera, ndikupeza zolondola.
Mwana wa Mamenkin
Izi nthawi zambiri zimatchulidwa ndi amuna omwe anakulira pansi pa goli lachidziwitso la amayi. Kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi choterechi ndi wotchuka kwambiri ndi amayi. Amayi anamuphunzitsa kukhala wachifundo komanso wachifundo, nthawi zonse kupereka chovala, atseke chitseko ndi kumulola kuti apitirize. Koma mwamsanga mudzazindikira kuti wosankhidwa wanu sangathe kupanga zisankho.
MMENE MUNGAKHALA?
✓ Nthawi yoyamba muyenera kutenga amai anu m'malo mwa amayi anu, mwinamwake iye adzasokonezeka ndikubwerera kwa iye.
✓ Chitani ntchito zonse zapakhomo pamodzi kuti asadzimve ngati wopanda pake.
✓ Mulimbikitseni ndikumuyamika chifukwa chowonetsa.
Wotsutsa Wamuyaya
Ankayang'aniridwa nthawi zonse ndikuwatsogolera ali mwana. Iye ankakonda kuchita zonse pamwamba asanu ndipo amazifuna kwa ena. Adzazindikira zolephera zanu zonse ndikudzudzula nthawi zonse, zovala ndi khalidwe lanu. Adzazindikira poyamba kuti mwachita chinachake cholakwika, ndipo mudzakumbukira za "zoopsa" izi. MMENE MUNGAKHALA?
✓ Yesetsani kusamvetsera kutsutsa kwake. Ingonena kuti: "Chabwino, wokondedwa", "Inde, wokondedwa wanga," "Ndiwe wolondola, wokondedwa," ndikupitiriza kukhala moyo wako.
✓ Agawire ena ntchito zapakhomo: "Ndidzachapa mbale, ndipo ndikupukuta, chonde, nyumba. Kwa inu zidzakhala bwino. Ndiwe woyera kwambiri! Ndiwe mwamuna wangwiro! "
Nytik
Moyo wake wonse umakhala ndi zolephereka, zoperewera ndi zokhumudwitsa. Pamene akukumana ndi zovuta, samayesetsa kuthetsa mavuto awo, koma nthawi yomweyo amakhumudwitsidwa padziko lonse lapansi ndikufuna kuti aone kuti ndi wolakwa. Chinthuchi ndi chakuti mnyamatayo, wozoloŵera kulandira troika, adadzilekerera ku zolephera zake ndipo anakulira mu munthu wosatsimikizika, wosaganizira. Ankaganiza kuti ayenera kukhala wolephera.
MMENE MUNGAKHALA?
✓ Landirani zina mwazochita ndi zochitika zake.
✓ Ikani zida m'manja mwake ndi mawu akuti: "Ndikukhulupirira kuti mutheka!"
✓ Mutamandeni chifukwa cha.
Narcissus
Iye anakulira atazungulira ndi namwino-mamas, kotero iye ankakonda kupeza chirichonse chimene iye ankachifuna mwakamodzi. Amalankhula za iye yekha, kupambana kwake, zolinga ndi mavuto ake.
MMENE MUNGAKHALA?
✓ Egoists amalemekeza mtundu wawo wokha, ndipo dzipenyerereni nokha, yankhani zofuna zake ndi mawu akuti: "Ndipo ndikufuna ... ndimakonda ..." Musaiwale nokha ndi zofuna zanu.
✓ Gawani chirichonse mu theka, musasankhe izo mwachindunji.
ZOCHITIKA ZITATU ZOFUNIKA KWAMBIRI
* MUSAYENERA kumunamizira amayi ake machimo onse. Ziribe kanthu momwe ubale wawo ukukhalira, iye amathabe kumbali yake. "Amayi anu ndi azimayi okongola, koma tisayende pa nsapato zapanyumba kunyumba kwathu: ndizosasamala, ndipo sindingathe kusamba pansi tsiku lililonse!" Kumbukirani: khadi lanu silinamizira, koma limalimbikitsa!
* Musamukumbutse nthawi zonse mwamuna wanu momwe angakhalire mwamuna wabwino. Ndipo kunena kuti iye amachita chirichonse cholakwika. Gwiritsani ntchito mwatsatanetsatane: lembani mndandanda wa zokambirana zomwe mukukonzekera, ndi mndandanda wa milandu yomwe akuvomera kuchita. Lembani "chikalata" ichi pamalo otchuka ndipo, ngati izo, chisonyezani.
* Musagwedeze ndodoyo. Inde, samachotsa mbale kumbuyo kwake, nthawi zonse amabisa masokosi ake pansi pa kama ndikuwombera mphuno. Kotero chiyani? Kodi wosankhidwa wanu alibe makhalidwe abwino omwe amaposa zizolowezi zonse zopusa ?! Kawirikawiri kumbukirani zoyenera za mwamuna wake.
Ndipo CHIFUKWA CHIYANI SIMAKUKHUDZANI?
Malingana ndi kafukufukuyo, zinati zomwe ife - akazi okonda ndi okhulupirika - amakhumudwitsa kwambiri anzathu. Nazi zomwe zinachitika ...
Ulesi - 14%
Kumvera - 13.8%
Malipiro ochepa - 7,6%
Chikondi cha mowa - 7.5%
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Kugonana kosakwanira - 6.7%
Zolinga zazikulu - 5.7%
Kusalongosoka - 5%
Ubwenzi wambiri ndi 3.5%
Kudzichepetsa kwambiri ndi 2.7%
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