Pano mungakumbukire zochitika zina. Mwanjira ina abwenzi ena omwe ali mu cafe anakumana ndi kukambirana amuna. Mmodzi wa iwo akufunsa kuti: "Atsikana aang'ono, ndiuzeni zoona? Pakati pa kugonana kodi mumakhala ndi vuto? ". Kwa iye analandira yankho la mphezi: "Ndikutopa kwambiri ndikunamizira ...". Ndipo chirichonse, izi nthawi zambiri zimathetsa ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ndipo chifukwa chake n'chakuti samalankhulana ndi mwamuna, mwachiwonekere, mantha. Musalankhule za zomwe mumazikonda kapena zomwe mungakonde kuyesera. Mabanja ena okha amakhulupirira wina ndi mnzake 100%, omwe, pamapeto pake, amatsogolera ku ubale wautali, kutha kwa ukwati.
Ndiye mwamsanga bwanji kupereka mkazi chiwonetsero? Tidzakambirana ndi nkhaniyi pakalipano.
Choyamba, thupi la mkazi ndi labyrinth yokonzedwa bwino kwa mwamuna. Popanda kuthandizira, sangathe kutuluka. Pali chinthu chabwino kwambiri pa thupi la mkazi yemwe amachititsa kuti mkazi azigwedezeka, zomwe mwamuna akhoza kutsegula zinsinsi zonse za mkazi ... Ndi mfundo yomweyi, mukhoza kumulandira msanga chisangalalo chachikulu, kutaya mutu wake.
Kwa munthu aliyense amene amadzidalira mwa iye yekha, mwamsanga kupereka zovuta kwa mtsikana ndi nkhani yodzikhutira ndi kudzikuza. Akazi mu izi amangoona nthawi yeniyeni ndi chikhumbo chokakamiza cha wosankhidwa wake. Ngakhalenso mtsikana wofatsa ndi wodzisunga amaganiza chimodzimodzi, chifukwa njirayi ndi yosapeŵeka, yosapeŵeka komanso ngakhale chokakamizika ngati pali mnyamata wachikondi pafupi naye.
Popeza kuti anthu onse ndi osaka, amayenera kufufuza malo atsopano a thupi lanu. Pambuyo pake, iye adzapeza ngakhale ngodya zobisika kwambiri, kukhudzidwa komwe mudzamva msanga wa mphamvu zatsopano ndi chisangalalo chomwe sichinachitikepopo. Nthawi yochuluka yomwe mumalankhulana ndi munthu, mofulumira adzatha kupereka msanga kwa mkazi.
Musalankhule zinsinsi za kugonana pa tsiku loyamba, mwinamwake zingathe kukondweretsa chidwi chake ndi chidwi chake, ndipo kumbukirani, iye akadali wogonjetsa!
Amuna nthawi zambiri amafuna zinthu nthawi imodzi. Ndipo popanda kuyembekezera tsiku lotsatira, iwo akufuna kudziwa zonse za osankhidwa awo, koma msungwanayo ayenera kusunga lilime lake pa lock ndi kusunga fungulo kutali naye. Kawirikawiri, kupanikizika kotereku kochokera kwa amuna kumawopseza ndipo kumapangitsa atsikana kulingalira za "kodi ndizofunikira ...?". Ndipo onse chifukwa msungwana ngati chamois phiri ndi wamantha. Kufuna kukhudzidwa, chidwi ndi njira zosiyanasiyana.
Mzimayi amapereka chiwonongeko osati kungokhudza khungu lake, komanso ndi zinthu zina zambiri zomwe munthu, monga mfumu ndi mfumu, sakumvetsa.
Choncho, muyenera kukumbukira maphunziro ena kuchokera ku psychology za kugonana, monga momwe aliyense adzakhalira wokondwa.
Kuti mupereke msanga kwa mayi, muyenera kunena mawu okonda kwambiri osasiya, aloleni kuti ayende ngati mtsinje, pang'onopang'ono komanso mosasuka. Kuseketsa ndiko kungong'oneza kwa mawu atsopano m'khutu ndi mawu okondwa ndi osokonezeka.
Pankhaniyi, mwamuna ayenera kudzidalira yekha ndi kusonyeza mantha ake kapena kusatetezeka pamene akuyesera kubweretsa chisokonezo kwa mkazi. Ndipo musamachite mwano kwa osankhidwa anu. Mvetserani mwatcheru mawu ake, kayendedwe ndi kunong'oneza. Izi zingamve zambiri zokhudza mmene akumvera. Mukawona kuti ndi bwino kwa iye kuchokera kuzinthu izi, pitirizani mu mzimu womwewo. Yesani mofulumira ndi pang'onopang'ono. Ingoganizirani ndi zamunthu kwa iye. Ndipo mudzayamikira zotsatira zake. Zidzakhala zanu kwa inu!