Si anthu ambiri omwe amadziwa momwe angadzitumikire okha. Mphatso yabwinoyi imatsegula zitseko pamaso pa mwini banjalo. Moyo wopatsidwa mwayi wamtengo wapatali uli wodzaza ndi misonkhano yosangalatsa kwambiri komanso odziwa bwino. Kwa iye, zikuwoneka kuti palibe zinthu zochititsa manyazi kapena zochititsa manyazi.
Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti simunganene zinthu zoterezi.
Kodi mungakane bwanji?
Mwinamwake, muli ndi abwenzi omwe amadziwa chinsinsi cha chithumwa. Mwachitsanzo, mnzanu Oksanka. Poyang'ana - msungwana wamba. Koma anthu nthawi zonse amakopeka nazo.
Akawonekera, amayi amayamba kumwetulira, amuna amathamangira kukapereka chidwi, ndipo ana akulira amatsitsa. Ndipo ngakhale antchito a maofesi a pasipoti samapewa zolakwa ndi zikalata zake. Ali ndi ubale wabwino ndi anzako, mabwenzi ambiri komanso mwamuna wabwino.
Mundikhulupirire ine, mwa kukhoza kwa mnzako kukongola anthu palibe chinthu chachilendo. Mutha kukhala ndi chithumwa.
Kuvutika.
Onetsetsani kuti zimakukhudzani bwanji mukakhala mu kampani yosadziwika kapena pamalo ovomerezeka.
Mwinamwake, mukuda nkhawa ndi zomwe mumachita ndipo musalole kuti mukhale osangalala. Ndipo pachabe. Mwachionekere, mumakulitsa zokhumba za ena kuti aone zolakwa za ena. Tangoganizirani: apa pali bambo yemwe wakhala mu khate pa tebulo lapafupi, akukayikira, akuyesera kutchula dzina lovuta la mbaleyo. Kodi mudzaseka kwa nthawi yaitali za "unlucky" gourmet "?
Kodi muli ndi chithunzi cha kulephera kwa m'tsogolo? Lembani zotsatira zomwe zingakhale zovuta. Ndipo mudzawona kuti ngakhale panthawi yovuta kwambiri, palibe choopsa chochitika.
Nthawi zina zimakhala zothandiza pakuganiza kuti zithetse vutoli. Nenani, abwenzi adakuitanani ku phwando komwe simukudziwa. Tangoganizirani izi: Alendo oopsawa akukuzungulirani ndi mphete yowonjezera, akudula njira yopita, ndikuyamba kukambirana maonekedwe anu, zovala zanu ... Chabwino, sizosangalatsa? Chinthu choipitsitsa chimene chingachitike ndi chakuti simudzapeza mitu yodziwika ndi anzako atsopano ndikuchoka ndi chidziwitso chaulemu.
Khalani pansi ndipo yesetsani kuthetsa mavuto. Pambuyo poona miyambo ya anthu okongola, mudzaona momwe alili omasuka. Chinsinsi chokhazika mtima pansi ndicho chikhulupiriro chakuti munthu aliyense ali ndi mtengo wapatali mosasamala kanthu ka maganizo a oyankhulana nawo.
Tonsefe tikudziwa kuti pali chomwe chimatchedwa chinenero chamanja. Panthawi yolumikizana ndi kuthandizidwa ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana a thupi ndi manja, timasonyeza momwe timachitira ndi wogwirizanitsa. Choncho, yesetsani kutenga malo osasamala, ndikukhala ndi malingaliro abwino, omwe amakulimbikitsani kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zochepa.
Ngati wina ali wovuta, yesetsani kuganizira za izi ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, yesetsani chidwi chanu pazinthu zina. Pa zokambirana yesetsani kuyang'ana m'maso mwa interlocutor, koma musakhale obtrusive, mwinamwake kuyambitsa kupumitsa.
Ndili ndi chidwi chonse.
Kawirikawiri maziko a manyazi amachititsa munthu kudzidalira yekha. Mukuwopa kwambiri kuti simukukonda interlocutor, kuti mutaya mphamvu zonse zomumvetsera, kupereka mayankho a mafunso ake.
Kodi mukufuna kuchotsa manyazi? Yesetsani kuganizira za mnzanu, maganizo ake, maganizo ake. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi maganizo ake, kuseka nthabwala. Mukusiya kuganiza ngati mukuchita zonse bwino, ndipo iwo omwe akuzungulirani adzakhala omasuka ndi inu. Posakhalitsa mudzamva kuti kuli kovuta kulankhula.