Mwakonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zanu zonse pa mphatso kwa wokondedwa wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu; wokonzeka kuyenda mpaka m'mawa, kungokhala nthawi yambiri pamodzi; mwakonzeka kupumula tsiku logwira ntchito, ngakhale kuti bwana adzalitenga kuchokera ku malipiro ndikusintha maganizo anu. Simukusamala, chifukwa m'mutu muli zokhumba ndi zolakalaka, zokondweretsa mu selo iliyonse ya ubongo ndi thupi, ndipo mwadzidzidzi lingaliro limabwera mumutu mwanu limene limakondweretsa inu: "Tiyenera kukhala pamodzi." Ndipo ndi lingaliro ili simukuchoka.
Chifukwa chakuti mwamuna wanu ali wokondana kwambiri, amatenga lingaliro limeneli mwachimwemwe. Inde, ndi bwino ngati mumamvetsera mwachidwi, chifukwa nkhani zoterezi sizikondweretsa anthu onse, ndipo zomwe zimachitika zingakhale zosiyana kwambiri. Koma, muli ndi mwayi, ndipo wokondedwa wanu amalota maloto okhutira nawo, monga inu. Ndipo pano inu muli mu gawo limodzi ...
Sabata yoyamba inu muli okondwa ndipo mumathera nthawi yanu yonse yaulere pansi pa bulangeti. Pambuyo pa sabata kapena awiri mumayamba kuona zisosi zakuda zomwe zikufalikira ponseponse, onaninso kuti ngati mutadzuka pamaso pa wokondedwa wanu ndi kuthawira kuntchito, ndiye kuti kubwerera kwanu mudzapeza mbale zosasamba, bedi losweka ndi firiji yopanda kanthu. Koma pafupi ndi TV mukudikirira munthu akumwetulira. Komanso, nonse mumamukhululukira ndi kumwetulira bwino? Mlanduwu, ndithudi, uli wanu. Koma! Mukachita tsiku limodzi, khalani okonzekera kuti posachedwa izo zidzayamba kubwereza tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndiyeno simuyenera kuimba mlandu mwamuna wanu, ndiye kuti ndiwe wolakwa. Ndipotu, m'mayiko amasiku ano, mabanja ambiri akhala akukhala ndi nthawi yochitira ntchito zapakhomo.
Ngati simugwiritsa ntchito funsoli moyenera, musalankhule ndi mwamuna wanu za vutoli, ndiye ganizirani kuti mwakhalabe m'zaka zamkatikati. Azimayi amakono akhala akugwira ntchito zapakhomo pazinthu zawo zofooka. Ngati ili ndi vuto kwa inu, muyenera kupeza mizu yake ndi kuiwononga isanafike.
Monga lamulo, akazi amatha kuchita zonse pakhomo pawokha, ngati makolo awo amakhala ndi moyo womwewo, ndipo amayi anga adalera mwana wawo wamkazi kuti amudziwe kuti ndi munthu wamkulu kwambiri yemwe sangachite chilichonse pakhomo, komanso ayenera kutumikira chirichonse pa sauce malire a buluu. Kodi inunso mudzakweza mwamuna wanu monga chonchi?
Ndiye tipita patsogolo. Mkhalidwe wa m'banja mwanu ndi womveka bwino ngati mayiyo anali mayi wamasiye, ndipo papa adapeza ndalama ndikukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Zosiyana ndi zofanana ndi zanu, ngati amayi anu atayamba kugwira ntchito ndikuthamangira kukakhitchini kukaphika chinachake, pamene bambo ake akuwerenga nyuzipepalayo mwamtendere panthawiyo. Amuna oterewa amatchedwa ozunza azimayi kunyumba. Ndipo, inu mukufuna kuti mukwaniritse zofanana zomwezo. Ngati simutero, khalani pansi pa nthawi yoyenera pafupi ndi mwamuna (pamene padzakhala mbale zonyansa, kuchapa ndi friji yopanda kanthu) ndi kupereka mowona mtima ndi mawu ofatsa: "Tidzagawana bwanji ntchito zathu zapakhomo? "Mawu awa adzamutengera mwadzidzidzi, inu, musasinthe nkhope, fotokozani zomwezo, ntchito yabwino ndichisoni. Ndiuzeni kuti mwathera kuntchito, kuti lero muli ndi kugwa kwa galimoto ndipo simungathe kulimbana ndi moyo, koma ndinu ngati mkazi wokonda kukonzekera chophimba, pamene akusamba mbale. Iye sangathe kutembenuka, osati zokwanira zokwanira. Chizindikiro cha amuna: "Ndinagwira ntchito tsiku lonse! ", Koma popeza mwakhala mukugwiritsa ntchito kale, sadzayesera kubwereza. Ngati mwamuna wanu ndi wamtundu wotere amene amanyazitsa kusamba mbale ndi zovala zazitsulo, ndiye kuti modzikuza mumakweza mutu wanu, kuphika omelette, ndikugona popanda kuvulaza kapena kuchotsapo. Atawona chithunzi choterocho, mwamuna adzachita manyazi ndi nkhanza zake ndipo nthawi ina adzayamba kukwaniritsa udindo wake wosayenera.
Ngati, poyankha pempho lanu lothandizira, akukangana, ndiye kumwetulira bwino ndikukuti: "Chabwino. Popeza tili ndi mgwirizano wapakatikati, mawa ndikusiya ndipo ndikuphikitsani zidutswa zamkati tsiku lonse ndikutuluka m'nyumba. " Zotsatira sizingakupangitseni kuti mudikire, ngakhale munthu wanu atapeza ndalama zokwanira kuti akhale ndi moyo, amamvetsa kuti simukugwiritsira ntchito ndalama, koma chifukwa cha zosangalatsa. Kotero, izo sizingakhoze kukuletsani inu za chisangalalo ichi.
Malinga ndi njira zomwe mungasankhe, kuthetsa vuto, momwe mungagawire ntchito zanu zapakhomo, sankhani zomwe mukufuna kuti muzikwaniritsa kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu. Mukusowa wothandizira amene nthawi zina amakuzungulira ku khitchini ndikuchita zinthu zina, monga ngati kuyang'ana mbatata kapena kudula parsley; kapena mukufunikira kufanana, kotero kuti aliyense ali ndi ntchito zake zapakhomo, ndipo adaphedwa nthawi.
Kuti mwamuna wanu akhale wothandizira, simukusowa mphamvu ndi nzeru zambiri. Amuna ambiri amathandiza. Ngati mwamuna wanu sali mmodzi wa iwo, pempho losavuta lothandizira lidzakhala lokwanira. Pomwe mukufuna kuyankha ntchito zanu zokha, muyenera kugwira ntchito kwa mwamuna wanu. Limbani ubale wanu ndi ulemu ku moyo, monga kuntchito ku kampani yaikulu. Kumeneko antchito onse ali ndi ntchito zake, zomwe ayenera kuchita, kuthamanga kuzinthu ndizo kulangidwa, ndipo kuchitidwa nthawi yake ndi malipiro kapena malipiro. Mulipire malipiro - mum'patse chifundo ndi chikondi, ndipo mulimbikitseni pabedi: "Mukuona kuti ndinu mtundu wanji ndipo ine ndi anthu abwino, onse achita palimodzi ndipo tili ndi nthawi yambiri, yomwe tingathe kusangalala nayo." Mawu awa adzakhala ofunika, mwamuna wanu sangaphonye mwayi wakukokera inu mu kama.
Ngati simukudziwa ntchito zomwe mungapereke kwa mwamuna wanu, ndi zomwe muyenera kusunga, chitani mwanzeru ndikumufunsa zomwe akufuna kuchita. Si chinsinsi choti anthu amphika bwino kuposa akazi. Ndicho chifukwa chake m'mabanja ena, amai amangopanga khofi. Ngati inuyo mumapereka kuphika, zingakhumudwitse munthu wanu, ndipo ngati njirayo imachokera kwa iye, ndiye kuti izi ndizofunikira, ulemu wa munthu sutaya! Ndipo musaiwale lamulo lalikulu, tamandani okondedwa anu kuti mupereke zomwe mwachita bwino, muziwakonda: "Sindingathe kuchita zimenezo! "Kenako amvetsetsa zomwe akufunikira, ndipo simudzakhala ndi mavuto monga:" Chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kuchita izi? "