Chovala?
Funso limeneli likugwiridwa ndi maganizo a amai ambiri - ndi mawonekedwe ati oyenera kuwonekera pa phwandolo? Palibe zinsinsi zapadera. Mukungofunikira kutenga zovala zomwe zikugwirizana ndi nthawiyi. Ngati mupita kuresitora, mukhoza kuvala kavalidwe , ngati gululo - ma jeans omwe mumakonda komanso pamwamba, ndipo ngati mutatuluka mumzinda, ndiye kuti chinthu chimodzi chofunika - zovala zikhale bwino.
Sikofunika kuti tifike ku maphwando a mgwirizano m'mabvalidwe a madzulo, omwe angakhale oyenera kupereka mphotho ya Nobel, koma osati mowa ndi kapu ya vinyo. Chimodzimodzinso chovala chimagwirizana pasadakhale.
Sankhani zovala ndi nsapatozo, zomwe mumakhala omasuka komanso zogwira mtima, chitani tsitsili ndi kupanga zomwe mwavala. Koma dziwani kuti muyeso, komanso zovala zosaoneka bwino zingasokoneze fano lanu lazamalonda, choncho musaweramitse ndodo ndi neckline ndi kutalika kwaketi. Kumbukirani, simudzapuma mu bwenzi la abwenzi, koma ndi anthu omwe akhala ndi nthawi yayitali yogwira nawo ntchito.
Mmene mungakhalire?
Poyambira, chotsani kusakhutira kumaso, ngakhale ngati lingaliro la phwando liwoneka ngati lopanda pake kwa inu. Lolani kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro ena a madzulo, koma muyenera kuwonekera pa holide ya mgwirizano, ngati simungathe kuphonya zambiri zatsopano ndi zothandiza ndikupatsa chakudya cha miseche. Kambiranani makamaka omwe sali, kotero musakhale cholinga cha nkhani zopanda pake.
Chachiwiri, yang'anani khalidwe lanu. Ngati mwakhala mukugwira ntchito ku kampani kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo nthawizonse mumakhala ouma polankhulana, ogwirizana ndi ogwirizana ndi bizinesi ndi anzako, musasinthe machenjerero. Ngakhale mutakhala munthu wokondana kwambiri, musamangokhalira kudabwa ndi anzanu. Khalani momwe akugwiritsirani ntchito kukuwonani inu, ndiye m'mawa sipadzakhala chifukwa chomveka.
Ndithudi, mudzamva zambiri zokambirana za zomwe masiku ano ogwira nawo ntchito samagwedeza. Musamalimbikitse miseche ndi zopusa, kupuma, koma samalani kuti musalowe mu nkhani yosasangalatsa.
Chachitatu, ganizirani zomwe mungakambirane ndi anzako. Kuima molimba pambali sikungagwire ntchito, apo ayi iwo angaganize molakwika za iwe. Kuyankhula za ntchito kwatha, mwinamwake simudzaonongeka kuti muli nawo. Lembani mutu wosalowerera womwe ungakhale wokondweretsa wopemphayo - chifukwa inu pang'ono, koma mukudziwa chomwe mumachita naye mnansi. Ngati simungapeze nkhani zomwe zimagwirizana, perekani chidwi kwa anthu ena ndikupitiriza kukambirana.
Chachinayi, ndikofunika kuti mukhalebe ogwirizana. N'zachidziwikire kuti maphwando a magulu amasonkhanitsa pamodzi, omwe amawerengedwa. Kupanga chinyengo cha kufanana kumakopa, koma kumbukirani, izi ndi chinyengo. Kumbukirani kuti m'mawa bwana wanu sangasanduke bwenzi lapamtima, ziribe kanthu momwe adakhalira ndi inu lero mokondwera. Choncho, musalole kuti zidziwike, koma musakhale ovomerezeka kwambiri, zitsatirani kuyankhulidwe ka boma. Ngati bwana akuchita mwaulere momasuka, mwaulemu asalephere kulankhulana, apeze chifukwa chochokapo, kuti asamalire munthu wina. Zomwezo zimapita kwa anzako. Ngati nthawi zonse mumalankhulana pa nkhani za bizinesi, musamacheze, choncho musanenere. Chilichonse chimene mumanena chidzafotokozedwa kwa nthawi yaitali, choncho penyani chinenerocho.
Mliri waukulu wa maphwando a gulu ndi mowa. Ndi chifukwa cha kumwa kwake kosalekeza kuti mitu ikuuluka m'mawa. Zimadziwika kuti sizinthu zochepa chabe pamene iwo omwe adadutsa adathamangitsidwa ndi manyazi. Sindifuna kukhala mmodzi mwa iwo omwe angabise m'mawa ndi kubisala chimbudzi - osamwa, koma kungodziyesa kuti mumamwa. Pewani mowa kwambiri, yesetsani kutambasula magalasi awiri kapena atatu a vinyo usiku wonse. Mutu wanu umamveka bwino, mutha kuzindikira chowonadi moyenera, ndipo kotero, m'mawa mudzakhala osasamala kwambiri-simudzakhala ndi chifukwa choopa kudzudzula!
Kuphatikizanso, maphwando oterowo ndi nthaka yachonde, yomwe bukuli limapsa. Kawirikawiri maubwenzi amenewa samatha ndi chirichonse chabwino, makamaka ngati kukondana pakati pa bwana ndi wogonjera. Choncho, sungani mtima wozizira, yesetsani kukhala kutali ndi malingaliro achikondi a anzako, chifukwa mungapeze chikondi kwinakwake, ndipo sikungasokoneze ntchito yanu.
Kodi mungapindule bwanji?
Phwando lamagulu lingakhale lothandiza ngati mutaphunzira kudziwana bwino ndi kulankhulana ndi anthu abwino omwe simunayambe mwakumana nawo. Otsogolera ndi ogwira ntchito, makasitomala ndi othandizana nawo - ubwino wa onse ukhoza kukuthandizani mtsogolo. Sankhani mphindi yoyenera pamene aliyense adzamasuka ndikuyamba kulankhulana, koma osakakamizidwa ndi botolo lowonjezera la mowa, ndipo pitirizani!
Ngati mukufuna kukomana ndi munthu, ingogwedezani kwa iye. Chizindikiro ichi cha moni sichikugwirizanitsani ndi chirichonse, koma mudzathandiza kuti muzindikire.
Musayime pamalo amodzi. Mudzazindikira kuti anthu amagawidwa m'magulu ang'onoang'ono, akusunthira kuchoka ku umodzi kupita ku wina. Kotero mukhoza kudziwana ndi anthu ambiri, kuyankhulana ndi anthu omwe mumawadziwa ndikuyimiridwa ndi anthu abwino.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti palibe chomwe mungakambirane ndi munthu, koma samasiya, khala woleza mtima, mpaka wina atakuphatikizani. Zikatero, zokambiranazo zidzamangirizidwa pakati pa interlocutor ndi munthu amene wabwera, ndipo mukhoza kuthawa, ponena za bizinesi.
Ngati mukufuna kuyanjana ndi wina, koma mulibe anzanu, ndipo mulibenso wina woganiza, gwiritsani ntchito njira yovomerezeka. Pitani ku gulu limene munthu amene mumamuthandiza ndi kuyima pambali pake, koma kuti mumve kuti ndinu a kampaniyi, yomwe ili kutali kwambiri. Njira imodzi, kukambirana kumayambira, ndipo mumatha kudziŵa omwe mukufuna popanda chopinga chilichonse.
Ngati maphwando a gulu sakupatsani chisangalalo chilichonse, ngati mutsimikiza kuti simungathe kudzisamalira nokha, ngati mutakhala kale ndikumvetsa chisoni, muli ndi njira imodzi yokha - nkutheka kuti mukudwala matenda odzidzimutsa. Koma mutaya mwayi woti muwoneke ndikuyandikira pa siteji yatsopano ya ntchito yanu.