Choncho, khalidwe loyendetsa ndilovuta kwambiri pamoyo wathu wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma, popanda kulabadira izi, tikuyesetsabe kukuuzani za momwe anthu ophunzira bwino amachitira zinthu zonyamula anthu.
Pang'ono ponena za ulemu
Zomwe sizikumveka zodabwitsa, koma chifukwa cha khalidwe lachibwana la munthu wonyansa osati pamalo amodzi, koma komanso poyendetsa, zingathe kuwononga maganizo ake mpaka kumapeto kwa tsikulo. Pa chifukwa chimenechi, kuti mukhale ndi maganizo abwino komanso kuti mupewe kukhumudwa, muyenera kukumbukira malamulo angapo omwe timapemphedwa nawo pamsewu.
1) Ngati mumadya galimoto yapansi panthaka, kumbukirani kuti musadalire kumbuyo kwanu pa njanji, yomwe ili pakhomo la galimoto. Ngati mutachita izi, mudzamunena munthu yemwe wakhala kumbuyo kwake, kusiyana ndi kusokonezeka kwake. Pano pali chifukwa cha kukangana kosayenera komwe iwe ukufuna kupewa.
2) Ngati munthu wakhala pafupi ndi inu, akuyenda, kuwerenga chinachake: nyuzipepala, buku, kapena kalata, musayese kuyang'ana muzinthu zomwe mukuwerenga kuti muwerenge, yesani kuĊµerenga chinachake pamenepo. Ndipo mochulukira kwambiri pindulani pazomwe mukulembazi. Pano sipadzakhalanso malo kukumbukira kuti pokhala paulendo wapamtunda, aliyense wa okwerawo ali ndi ufulu wonse ku "malo awo". Mwa kuyankhula kwina, "malo ozungulira" ndiwo malo omwe ali pakati pa okwera, omwe ayenera kukhala, osakhalanso, osachepera, 25-50 masentimita. Kuswa danga ili, osati kuwerengera salon yodzaza ndi ola nthawi, sichivomerezedwa konse.
3) Ngati mutapatsidwa malo, simuyenera kusiya. Ingotengani malowa ndipo musaiwale kuyamika munthu amene wakupatsani. Kumbukirani kuti posiya chidwi chanu, mutha kuika munthu wophunzira komanso wophunzira nthawi yeniyeni pamalo ochititsa manyazi kwambiri.
4) Ndiponso, ngati mukufuna kuchita molondola pamtunda, kumbukirani kuti muyenera kusiya malo anu. Makamaka zimakhudza anthu okalamba, olumala, amayi apakati, amayi ndi makanda kapena ana ang'onoang'ono. Perekani njira, musaiwale kunena mawu ngati awa: "Khalani pansi, chonde." Ngati mutangokhala chete mumalopo musananene mawuwa kwa malo enaake, mungathe kumangokhala malo omwe mwangoyambira kumene mungakhale ndi munthu wina yemwe sakudziwa momwe angakhalire bwino. Ichi ndi chitsanzo chokhazikika cha momwe chiyanjano chanu chikhoza kuchitidwa pachabe.
5) Ngati mudya mumsewu wochuluka kapena tekesi. Ndipo, panthawi yomweyi, iwe uli kutali ndi kuchoka. Choncho, kuyandikira kumene mukufunikira, yesetsani kukonzekera kutuluka, kuti musapite patsogolo mwadzidzidzi mu salon kudzera mwa anthu onse pamapazi awo komanso "mitu" yawo.
"Lolani cholembera chanu? "
Kuonjezera apo, momwe mungakhalire bwino pazitsulo zokhazokha pakati pa anthu ena, mumayenera kudziwa nthawi zovomerezeka za khalidwe la azimayi. Mwachitsanzo, kuchoka kwa mayi wochokera ku kanyumba ka taxi yokhazikika, basi ndi zina zotero. Poyamba, chirichonse chimakhala chosavuta: mwamuna nthawi zonse amayenera kupita koyamba ndipo amapereka dzanja lake kwa mkazi kuti akhale ndi chinachake chodalira, ndipo samapunthwa kapena kuti samusiya. Ndipo sizidalira ngati chowongolera chili zotsegula kapena ayi. Kapena, makamaka kuchokera ku chikhalidwe cha mkazi kapena mwamuna. Mwamwayi, mumkhalidwe uwu, anthu ochepa amadziwa momwe angachitire bwino. Akazi ena, mofulumira komanso mosavuta "vypargivaet" kuchokera ku salon ya kayendetsedwe kake, kuti alibe ngakhale nthawi yogwira dzanja la njonda. Koma mu bizinesi iyi chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikuti chikhale chosavuta komanso chokhazikika, ndipo chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa nthawi ino ndi kugwira dzanja la munthu. Apo ayi, ziwopseza kuti munthu angaganize kuti utumiki wake sulemekeza ulemu. Inde, ngati mukufunikira thandizo, mungathe kulimbikitsanso, moyenera, kudalira pa "kuthandiza". Koma kudalira kulemera konse, komabe sikofunika. Mwa njira, kuchokera kunja izo ziwoneka osati zosangalatsa, ndipo ngakhale munthu mwiniwake, mwinamwake samangokonzeka kuwonetseredwa kotero kwa mphamvu yanu.
Kawirikawiri, mumatha kuona kuti mwamuna yemwe akuchoka pamtambasula amanyamula dzanja lake mosavuta kwa mtsikana wanyamula katundu wolemera. Muzochitika izi zidzakhala bwino kwambiri komanso zowona bwino kuti aone ngati munthuyo mwiniwake amatenga matumba a azimayi, ndipo atuluke poyamba, awapatse pansi, kenaka apereke dzanja lake. Koma izi, ndithudi, zimachitika nthawi zambiri, ngati munthu uyu ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ambuye oterewa amatha kuwonetseredwa m'misewu ya dziko lathu.
Kotero ife tinaphunzira limodzi ndi inu ziphunzitso zoyambirira za khalidwe labwino, zomwe zimatiuza momwe zimalimbikitsira kuti azikhala ndi kayendedwe ka anthu.
Ndipo monga chomaliza ine ndikufuna kuwonjezera kuti nthawizonse yesetsani kukhala olekerera kwambiri ndi olemekezeka. Pambuyo pa munthu wonyamula katundu - pemphani chikhululukiro, munapereka kapena munthu wosadziwika patsikuli anapereka dzanja lake - nthawi zonse musaiwale kuti muyamikire, perekani ndalama kuti muyendetsere dalaivala - muziyendetsa ndi mawu amatsenga "chonde! ". Ndipo potsiriza, ngati muwona khalidwe losavuta ndi losasinthika likuyitanidwa kwa munthu wina - osamuyankhire mofanana. Nthawi zina nthawi zonse mukhale chete, motero muwonetsere chikhalidwe chanu ndi makhalidwe abwino ndikupewa mikangano. Ndipo mwa kulabadira kwake khalidwe lake, mumangofika pamlingo wa munthu uyu. Kupambana kwa inu ndi maulendo okondweretsa!