Ngati bambo wakufa akulota, ngati kuti ali moyo
Pamene munthu nthawi zambiri amamuwona wachibale wake wakufa, ayenera kupita ku tchalitchi ndikuyika kandulo kuti apereke mtendere kupereka msonkho kwa kholo. Ngati mwawona kuti wakufayo akufunsani chinachake kuchokera kwa inu, kapena kugwiritsira ntchito chinthu ichi m'manja mwanu, gulani chinthu chofunikira ndikupita nacho kumanda. Ndiye maloto amaletsa kukuvutitsani.
Koma lero tidzakambirana zambiri za kutanthauzira maloto, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi moyo wa wolota.
- Munthu akhoza kuzunzidwa ndi zolakwitsa zapitazo ndipo chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri amamuwona bambo wakufayo yemwe amaoneka kuti ali moyo. Mungathe kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna ngati mutadutsa kunyada kwanu ndikuyamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, pogwiritsa ntchito zochitika zanu zonse pa moyo wanu.
- Bambo amene adangomwalira kumene akulota wina yemwe ali ndi makhalidwe ena okhudza imfa ya wachibale. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuyesa kugwirizanitsa ndi imfa ya wokondedwa, chifukwa nthawi zambiri sitimakhala ndi mlandu pamapeto a moyo wa wachibale wathu.
- Mu bukhu la Miller la loto linafotokozedwa kuti kuona bambo ake wakufa wamoyo kumatanthauza kuti wolota akuyembekezera chochitika chofunika kwambiri ndi chodikira nthawi yaitali. Yesetsani kuyang'anitsitsa zomwe zikuchitika, kuti musaphonye mwayi.
- Ngati mutakumbatira kholo lanu m'maloto, ndiye kuti mudzakhala ndi makampani azachuma omwe mumayambitsa posachedwapa.
- Mukawona bambo wakufayo wamoyo kumatanthauza kuti mungathe kutenga mosavuta zatsopano. Mukhoza kuyamba kuyambitsa ntchito yodalirika ndipo musaope ulendo wautali ndi zoopsa.
- Ngati kholo likukuitanani kuti mupite naye, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kusunga kuchoka kutero. Zoonadi, mukhoza kudwala kwambiri.
- M'buku lotolo la Vangi kutanthauzira mosiyana kumaperekedwa. Msungwanayo, yemwe bambo ake omaliza anam'lota, ngati kuti ali moyo, ayenera kuopa chinyengo kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wake. Koma munthuyo maloto akulonjeza mwayi mu bizinesi, komabe ndibwino kuopa machenjerero a adani.
Ngati imfa ya abambo ikulota
Kawirikawiri, kutanthauzira maloto kumalota maloto omwe mumawona momwe abambo anu amamwalira, ngati chizindikiro choyenera. Ngati kholo lanu likudwala matenda aakulu, posachedwa adzachira. Mwachidule, masomphenya akulonjeza moyo wautali ndi wosangalatsa kwa wachibale wako. Choncho, tidzakambirana za zochita ndi maonekedwe a papa wakufa, amene mungamuone m'maloto.
Pamene akupatsani ndalama, ndiye kuti mumoyo weniweni mungafune thandizo lachuma kuchokera kunja. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, wolota ayenera kusamala ndi anthu osaganiza bwino omwe amadziwana ndi anthu omwe, phindu lawo, akhoza kuvulaza.
Ngati bambo wotsiriza m'maloto akukumbatira munthu ogona, ndiye masomphenyawa ali ndi kutanthauzira kwabwino. Chiwongolero choyembekeza mwamuna ndi bizinesi mu moyo uliwonse adzakhala ndi moyo mosavuta komanso mofulumira. Atsikana osakwatiwa amakonda kulonjeza kuti adzakhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi mnyamata woyenera, ndipo munthu akhoza kutsimikiza kuti ali pachimake cha mphamvu zake ndipo adzakwanitsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zake.
Ndipo ngakhale pambuyo pa maloto a bambo wakufayo ena angathe kuswa thukuta lozizira, musakhale olakwika pa masomphenya oterowo. Makolo omwalira mwanjira inayake komanso atamwalira amayesa kuteteza ana awo ndipo motero amachenjeza za zoopsa kapena chithunzi cha moyo wabwino.