Kodi muyenera kuyembekezera chiyani ngati mwalumidwa ndi galu m'maloto?
Ngati kuluma kunagwera pa dzanja lako, ndiye kuti mwadzidzidzi mumayesa kubwezeretsa. Kotero mu moyo weniweni: mudzamenyana kuti mukwaniritse zolinga, koma anthu omwe mukuyenera kukumana nawo adzakudabwitseni modabwitsa.
Ngati nyama ikuluma mwendo, sizhenjezo zokhudzana ndi machenjerero a adani, koma ndondomeko ya momwe angayesere kukuvulazani. Mwinamwake, otsutsa amayesa kugogoda nthaka yanu pansi pa mapazi anu kuti aswe bizinesi yanu kapena kuwononga ntchito yanu.
Galu wakuda kukubvumbirani ndizoipa. Onetsetsani kuti mvetserani kutanthauzira uku kuti muteteze mavuto m'tsogolomu. Zoona zake n'zakuti nyama yowopsya ya mtundu uwu imasonyeza kuti mnzanu weniweni sali wokoma mtima ndipo akungodikirira mphindi yabwino kuti agwire molakwika.
Kutanthauzira kotchuka kwambiri
- Mu bukhu la Miller la loto linalembedwa kuti anthu amene amadzuka kukhala osadziwika kwathunthu mu gulu lalikulu la anthu amawona maloto ngati amenewa. Kulephera kumaphatikizana ndi wolota m'mbali zonse za moyo: kuntchito ndi kunyumba. Chisamaliro chachikulu chiyenera kulipidwa kwa anzako atsopano, chifukwa munthu amene mumamuyesa kuti ndi bwenzi lanu labwino adzakhaladi mdani yemwe angangodikirira kuti mulanduwo uwonjezere vuto lanu lovutitsa kale, kufalitsa mphekesera.
- Kodi mwawona galu akuluma kapena akukali akukukozani? Yesetsani kugwirizana kuti mukhale ndi mtendere wamtendere. Chowonadi ndi chakuti kwa inu mumabwera nthawi ya mikangano yowonjezereka ndipo inu mukhoza kukangana ndi ena pang'onong'ono pang'ono. Ndikofunika kuyesa kudzipangira nokha, ngati mikangano yambiri idzawonetsedwa molakwika mu magawo a moyo omwe ali ofunikira kwambiri kwa inu.
- Ngati chinyama chakulowetsani ku magazi, ndiye kuti mavuto a m'tsogolomu adzakhudza mmodzi mwa achibale ake. N'zotheka kuti mudzakhumudwitsidwa ndi wina m'banja mwanu. Mukuyembekezera chinyengo kapena ngakhale kusakhulupirika.
- Poona momwe galu akulira chipewa, akuti wolota akuyembekezera nthawi yaying'ono ya mavuto. Zolinga zanu zonse sizingatheke chifukwa cha moyo. Choncho, buku lotolo limalimbikitsa kubwezeretsa chisankho cha zochitika zonse zofunika pa nthawi yabwino.
- Nyama yaing'ono, yokha kwambiri komanso kukupwetekani, imati muyenera kuyambiranso khalidwe lanu. Mungathe kuzunzika kwambiri ndi kudzikuza kwanu komanso kudandaula kwa adani anu.
- Galu wamkulu, kumbali ina, akunena kuti iwe wochuluka kwambiri akuyembekeza thandizo la munthu wamphamvu.
- Nyama yoyera ndi mtundu wochenjeza. Munthu wapafupi ndi inu amakugwiritsani ntchito pazinthu zokhazokha komanso amachita chinthu choipa kwambiri pa izi. Zotsatira zake simudzazimva, koma zosakhalitsa zosakhalitsa zidzatsala zaka zambiri.
- Kuwombera ndi kumuluma galu ndizomwe zimayambitsa mavuto. Ngati izi zidachitika kwa wolota, ndiye kuti mavuto ake adzamugwera, ndipo pamene wodwala wamkuluyo ndi wina wa achibale kapena abwenzi, ayenera kukonzekera mavuto.
Kawirikawiri, mtima wokwiya wa "bwenzi la munthu" mu loto ndi wophiphiritsira. Musamanyalanyaze masomphenya amenewa, chifukwa mitu yanu imangowonjezera mavuto omwe kale ali nawo.