Mimba yonse yomwe amayi anu ankakusamalirani, kusamalidwa, inabweretsa zonse zokoma komanso zothandiza, kudyetsa mpongozi wake mukakhala kuchipatala, ndi zina zotero. Koma atabereka, munayamba kukhumudwa ndi kusamalidwa kwake pang'ono ndikusokoneza muzonse. Zikuwoneka kuti sakukumvetsa za mantha anu atatha kubala, koma sakugawana malingaliro anu panopa pa chisamaliro ndi chitukuko cha mwanayo! Ndipo amayi anga amakhumudwa chifukwa chakuti, mumalingaliro ake, mumachita zinthu zonse zolakwika, inu mumakhala opanda nzeru ndipo mukuganiza nokha. Inu nonse mumanjenjemera, ndipo momwemo panyumba muli zovuta. Agogo ndi amayi onse akamasamalira mwanayo ndikuyesera kubwera ndi maphunziro atsopano. Kusagwirizana pakati pa inu si njira yabwino yokhudzira mwanayo. Tiyeni tiyese kupeza chomwe chomwe chiriri. Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji dziko?
Titha kuchita popanda kupanikizika!
Kutopa, kulakalaka kulira, kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa chifukwa cha mwanayo chifukwa simudziwa momwe mungamuthandizire pakalipano - zizindikiro izi zimasonyeza kupweteka kwa postpartum. Ndipo gawo lovuta kwambiri ndikutanthauzira kwa okondedwa anu kuti malingaliro anu saloledwa ndi whims, koma ndi vuto lapadera la maganizo opangidwa ndi kusintha kwa mahomoni m'thupi. Kumbukirani kuti nkhawa yanu ili ndi zotsatira zoyipa pa lactation.
Yesani kufotokoza momasuka kwa agogo anu . Muwonetseni zofalitsa m'magazini kapena palimodzi mupite kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo yemwe angakuthandizeni kuthetsa vutoli.
Monga lamulo, agogo aakazi amadziona okha osadziwika bwino pankhani zonse zokhudzana ndi kusamalidwa kwa mwana, komanso kusungidwa m'nyumba. Chidziwitso chawo sichingakanidwe, chifukwa adalera ana awo ndipo adachita bwino! Koma nthawi zina zimakhala kuti ngakhale kufika kwa zidzukulu, mayi anga akupitiriza kukuchitirani ngati chitsiru ndipo nthawi zonse amatsutsa zochita zanu. Muyenera kumvetsera kuchokera kwa iye: "Mudzawononga mwanayo!" Ndipo maganizo anu ndi mwamuna wanu pa nkhaniyi kapena yosamalira mwanayo sizingoganizidwe. Pofuna kutsimikiza kuti mikangano yotereyo siidatulukemo ndikutsanulira mavuto a m'banja, yesetsani kusiyanitsa momveka bwino pakati pa magawo a mphamvu. Fotokozerani kwa agogo kuti thandizo lake lofunikira silidzalowe m'malo mwa amayi ndi abambo, ngakhale atakhala osadziŵa zambiri komanso osasangalatsa ngati inu ndi mwamuna wanu!
Udindo wa mwanayo ukugona kwathunthu pa mapewa a makolo, choncho mumasankha njira zoleredwa ndi kusamalira! Afotokozereni agogo kuti zidziwitso zake zikhoza kukhala zosagwira ntchito zaka makumi awiri ndipo ndi nthawi yoti aziganiziranso.
Ife timabweretsa ndi kuphunzitsanso
Zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni, koma nthawi zina ngakhale agogo aamuna omwe sapita patsogolo sangakwanitse kuchita zomwe amakhulupirira. Mwachitsanzo, ndiletsedwa kuthira madzi atatha kusamba madzulo kapena kumangoyamwitsa mwanayo nthawi yeniyeni. Kukhala chete, kuvutika ndi kukwiya sikoyenera: yesetsani kulankhula modekha ndi agogo anu. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amatipatsanso njira zosiyanasiyana zosinthira khalidwe losayenera la anthu omwe ali pafupi nafe. Choyamba, yesetsani kumvetsa zomwe zimayendetsa agogo awo. Kawirikawiri izi ndi zolinga zabwino: amakufunirani zabwino, ndipo amafunikira kuzindikira, kusamala ndi kulemekeza. Pa nthawi yopuma pantchito kwa ambiri, njira yokha yochitira zonsezi ndi kuthandiza kusamalira zidzukulu zako. Momwe mungakhalire mumkhalidwe umenewu? Yankho lake ndi losavuta: nthawi zambiri amasonyeza chikondi ndi kuyamikira kwa amayi anu kapena apongozi anu, aziwotenthe ndi chikondi chanu kuti nthawi zonse azidziona kuti ndi ofunikira komanso okondedwa.
Musamaimbe mlandu wokalamba chifukwa cha kunyalanyaza kwawo, chifukwa cha zolakwa palibe amene ali ndi chitetezo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti makolo amakonda kuwonjezera kukopa kwa agogo awo komanso nthawi yomweyo amanyalanyaza zolephera zawo za maphunziro. Kwenikweni, kusagwirizana kwa amayi, mantha, ntchito yamuyaya "ntchito" ndi "makolo" opweteketsa ana "amazunza" maganizo a mwanayo mozama kwambiri kuposa "kukumbatirana" ndi "kuvomereza" kwa agogo. Kuphunzira kukhala agogo weniweni ndizoti makolo ndi mwana ali ndi lingaliro kuti ndi atate ndi amayi omwe ndi ophunzitsa ofunikira kwambiri.
Kumva chikondi chanu , Agogo aakazi amamvetsera maganizo anu pang'onopang'ono. Ndipo ngakhale kusagwirizana kwakukulu kwambiri pa kusamalira mwana kumatha nthawi!
Mayi wamakono samakhala kawirikawiri pa lamulo, nthawi zambiri amakakamizika kupita kuntchito. Ndipo mu nkhani iyi, ndithudi, wothandizira bwino mwana ndi agogo. Pambuyo pake, ndani, ngati si agogo anu aamuna, adzasamalira mwana wanu modekha ndi mwachikondi! Komabe, nthawi zambiri pamtunda uwu pali nsanje. Mayi wamng'ono akuganiza kuti agogo ake aakazi adzakhala odziwa bwino komanso odziwa bwino kusamalira mwana wawo, adzawona zoyamba za mwanayo poyamba, ndipo pamapeto pake adzabwezeretsa mumtima mwake.
Kulimbana ndikumverera uku sikuli kosavuta . Koma kumbukirani kuti ndiwe yemwe ndi mayi, ndipo palibe wina amene angathe kukuchotsani. Chuma chanu chidzakudalirani inu kuchokera kuntchito, kukhudza, kukumbatirana, kumva fungo lanu.
Kubadwa kwa mwana kumasintha moyo ndi zinthu zofunika. Ndipo kwa amayi ambiri omwe anali ndi bizinesi opambana, banja ndilo loyambirira. Musadzitsutse nokha chifukwa cholekanitsa ndi zovuta, ngati mukukakamizika kupita kuntchito. Mwana sangakukondereni ngati mumakhala naye maola 24 pa tsiku, koma 6. Ndikhulupirireni, chikondi sichiwerengedwa ndi maola, koma ndi kuya kwa maonekedwe ndi maubwenzi. Kumbukirani kuti chinthu chachikulu si kuchuluka, koma khalidwe!