Masiku owerengeka amasiyidwa mpaka mwana wanu atakhala pansi pa desiki yake yoyamba. Kunyada, chidwi, chimwemwe chophunzira zatsopano - malingaliro ofunika kwambiri aunyamata. Kodi iwo sangakhoze bwanji kubisala ndi mavuto osayembekezereka? Mmene mungakhalire ndi makolo? Aphunzitsi ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka malangizo othandiza.
Pewani kupanikizika, musapitirize kuphunzitsidwa. Kawirikawiri makolo amakonda kukhazikitsa nthawi yochuluka kuyambira masiku oyambirira a sukulu: kukonzekera mosamala maphunziro, masukulu ena owonjezera ndi maulendo opititsa patsogolo tsiku lonse. Ngakhale woyendetsa wanu woyamba akuyenda molimbika komanso mwamphamvu, adzalinso ndi nthawi yowonongeka ndi zovuta zachilendo. Ndipo ngati mwanayo ali ndi chizoloŵezi chokhala ndi ubweya ndi kutopa, koma palibe chizoloŵezi chokhala mu sukulu - molimba mtima kuwonjezera nthawi yokwanira. Mu miyezi yoyamba, yambitsani mwana kulepheretsa kusintha, pang'onopang'ono kuwonjezera maola a makalasi.
Konzani zofunikira patsogolo. Inde, kuphunzira n'kofunika. Koma musati mupange tanthauzo lalikulu la moyo wa mwanayo, poyerekezera ena onsewo. "Zonse zomwe mukufuna kuti muphunzire bwino" ndizolakwika. Konzani mwana pasadakhale kuti ndikofunikira kuti ayesere - koma chikondi chanu sichimasintha ndipo sichidalira kupambana. Ndipo khalani okonzeka kutsimikizira mau anu: chikondi, kumwetulira kapena mawu olimbikitsa.
Musaganizire mozama za "kukula" kwa mwana. Dzulo iye anali akungoyendayenda mu sandbox, ndipo tsopano akuyesera yunifolomu ya sukulu - koma, komabe, akadali wamng'ono. Musamufunse zochuluka kwa iye kamodzi, musati muzichotsa nthawi zonse, musawopsyeze ndi udindo - kuyankhula mobwerezabwereza, kufotokozera, kuseka ponena za chirichonse chomwe chimamuvutitsa.