Mabuku ambiri amalembedwa za zovuta komanso akazi. Zimakhala zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa kuwerenga ndemanga pa nkhaniyi pazitukuko. Kumeneko mungathe kuwona kumene mbuyeyo, ndi kumene mkaziyo ... Palinso mayankho a iwo omwe amangomvetsa chisoni ndi mkazi kapena mkaziyo. Koma chodabwitsa kwambiri, mwina, zikhulupiliro za amayi ena zokhudzana ndi zolakwika. Nthawi zina zimachitika, mumawerenga ndikuzindikira kuti akazi, ngati sangathe kusiyanitsa mitundu. Mkazi - ichi ndi chinsomba ndi ntchentche, chabwino, akazi ndi white swans. Wokonda kwambiri kumwa magazi ndi ndalama kuchokera kwa amuna ... Palinso zolakwitsa chotero, sindidzakangana. Komabe, amayi ambiri oterewa, omwe sali okondweretsa kapena odyetsa, amangofuna chisangalalo cha amayi okhaokha ... Kotero tsopano tidzasintha nthano ...
Nthano nambala 1. "Onasama adalumphira pa iye ..."
Inde, m'masiku athu akazi amayamba kukhala olimbika ndipo ntchitoyi ikukhalitsa. Komabe, amuna, monga kale, amakhalabe atsogoleri, omwe amakhalanso otsogolera mafilimu achikondi. Amayesetsa kudziyamika okha, kupempha nambala ya foni, kupereka mphatso ndi maluwa, kuwaitanira tsiku, kuyitana, lonjezo, kukopa ndi kuvomereza ...
Ambiri amapita kwa amayi ngati amphaka ndikukakamiza anthu omwe sadziwa kuti ali okwatirana, kuti asawopsyeze amayi omwe amawakonda. Kenaka mu maphunzirowo muli zolembera za chikondi ndi mphatso. Pamene "zhenatiki" akupeza kuti muli ndi zokondweretsa, mwachitsanzo, mumasunga zisindikizo za kristalo, amakoka mapaketi awo ochokera kunja akupita ku bizinesi ... Akazi amapambana amuna, koma osati mozungulira! Zindikirani izi, mkazi wokondedwa!
Nthano nambala 2. "Mutu wanga uli ndi lingaliro limodzi - kuti awononge banja lathu ..."
Pamene okonda amasintha mafilimu ndi amuna okwatirana, samafuna kuwononga banja ndikugwira mwamuna. Izi ndizofanana ndi achinyamata, pamene anthu amakumana, koma salankhula za ukwatiwo.
Ambiri (koma osati onse) amanyoza amanena kuti akhala okwatirana kwa zaka zingapo kwa amuna okwatira, koma sakanamkwatira. Chifukwa amamvetsetsa: ndi kubwerana kwaukwati, chikondi chimatha ndipo misonkhano yachisangalalo imasokoneza banja. Iwo akukumana ndi mavuto limodzi ndi mzake ndi chilakolako chopitirira. Choncho, okondedwa samafuna nthawi zonse kukwatira, ngakhale abambo amavomereza kuti achoke m'banja. Ndi bwino kuti mukumane nawo pamisonkhano yonse ndikunthunthumira, maluwa, mphatso, chakudya chamakono ndi kugonana, komanso pambuyo paukwati udzakhala vobedennost.
Nthano nambala 3. "Iwe sungakhoze kupanga chimwemwe pa tsoka la wina ..."
Amisala sagwirizana ndi chiweruzo ichi. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti nzeru yoteroyo inapangidwa ndi mkazi wokanidwa. Poyamba, chimwemwe cha mbuye aliyense ndi tsoka la wina. Komabe, kumbukirani nokha m'zaka zomwe mumaphunzira. Aliyense anali mfulu, ndipo palibe yemwe anali wokwatira. Koma kumbukirani kuti ndi mitima ingati yomwe inathyoledwa ?! Ndi angati anyamata omwe amamenya atsikana ndi atsikana angati atatenga anyamata kutali ndi ena? Komabe, palibe yemwe anazunzidwa ndi lingaliro lakuti adachitira munthu wina zoipa, koma mosiyana, nthawi zonse adadzitamandira kuti adatha kuchotsa mnyamatayo kumbali yake. Ndipo tsopano, pamene iwo akwatiwa ndi mnyamata yemwe nthawi ina anachotsedwa, iwo anakumbukira kuti winawake wapweteka.
Nthano nambala 4. "Ife tinali awiri okongola ndi okongola kwambiri. Iye anawononga chirichonse ... "
Zakale bwanji izo zinali. Nchifukwa chiyani mwamuna angayambe mbuye ngati amakonda ndi kukonda mkazi wake, bwanji ali mlendo kwa iye, ngati ali wokonzeka kupatsa moyo wake chifukwa cha okondedwa ake, ndikuganiza masiku omwe angam'patse iye ndi kumudabwa mmunda? Othawa sangathe kuwononga, omwe akhala akuwonongedwa kwa nthawi yaitali. Ngati tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tomwe timapatsidwa ulemu ndi chikondi, tikhoza kukondana kwambiri, sizodabwitsa kuti mbuye
Nthano nambala 5. "Nchifukwa chiani iye amachotsa mwamuna wanga, sangakhoze kupeza iye wosadziwa? Ayi, akusowa galimoto komanso ntchentche ngati n'kofunikira kuti mukhale ndi ... "
Ngati zaka 30 mpaka 40 mwamuna alibe banja, ndiye kuti mumamvetsa kuti izi sizowonekera. Iye sangathe kusamalira aliyense, kaya ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, tizilombo toyambitsa matenda, osamwa mowa, kapena odzikonda okha, ndi zina zotero.
Choncho zimakhala kuti anthu amange banja, nthawi ikafika, pamene mukuyenera kukwatira. Amakwatirana, kotero kuti anthu amawamvetsetsa bwino, kotero kuti alibe malingaliro apamwamba, samadzudzula kuti ali ndi maofesi ambiri, sanasokoneze kupita patsogolo kwawo pa ntchito. Komanso, amuna amadzimanga okha ndi banja kuti wina athe kusamalira iwo - kulenga chisokonezo ndi chitonthozo m'nyumba, kukonzekera kadzutsa ndi masana. Chabwino, pali, ndithudi, amuna omwe amakwatirana chifukwa cha chikondi chachikulu ndi choyera, apa simungathe kukangana.
Nthano "№ 6. "Palibe choyang'ana pa wina ..."
Zingakhale zomvetsa chisoni bwanji kuti sizikumveka zomvetsa chisoni, koma pambuyo paukwati, akazi amakoka manja awo, kuganiza kuti "ntchito yatha". Iwo amakhulupirira kuti kuyambira nthawi yolemba ku ofesi yolembera, mwamuna ndiye chuma chawo. Ayenera kudziwa komwe, ndikuti, kuti, ndi ndani, mwamuna ndi ndani, zomwe akuganiza tsopano, akulota pamene abwerera kwawo. Amawona kuti mwamuna ndiye chinthu chawo, ndipo akusocheretsa ndi akuba omwe akuukira chiyanjano chawo. Komabe, munthu ndi munthu, koma osati kanthu. Mwamuna wanu ali ndi zolakalaka zake ndi malingaliro ake. Ndipo iwo ali ndi zilakolako zotero pamene iwo akufuna kuchita chinachake chomwe sichiri chololeka.
Nthano nambala 7. "Mayi ndi mkazi wachiwerewere!"
Mwina muyenera kuwerenga zolemba za a Russian kapena a Chiyukireniya omwe angathe kufotokoza maganizo. Sikuti onse akunyengerera ndizochita zachiwerewere komanso zachiwerewere. Ambiri a iwo ndi okoma mtima, osakhala ndi gram ya bitchiness. Musasese kukula kwakukulu kamodzi kokwanira. Pali zitsanzo zambiri pamene asungwana ali ophunzira kwambiri, ali ndi udindo komanso oona mtima, alibe mwayi mu moyo wawo. Koma pakubwera kwa wokonda kwambiri iwo samakhala ... Uwu ndiwo moyo ...
Nthano nambala 8. "Amafuna yekha ndalama ..."
Sikoyenera kuganizira za ... Zimakhala zophweka kupeza ndalama zabwino kuposa kupeza munthu wabwino. Mwamuna yemwe mungathe kumukonda kwenikweni. Azimayi omwe ali ndi zaka 30 ndi 30 amakhala ndi ntchito yabwino, samwalira ndi njala, samayenda mumsewu mumphepete kapena nsomba.
Tiyenera kuzindikila kuti si anthu onse omwe amadziwika ndi kupatsa kwawo kwa amayi awo, monga momwe akazi amagwiritsira ntchito kuganiza. Ambiri mwa ndalama kwa aliyense amapita ku banja kukhala akazi. Ndi mphatso zosawerengeka zokha zomwe zimakhudza bajeti ya banja, zimakhala zovuta ...
Inde, pali akazi omwe akufunafuna mwamuna ndi ndalama. Koma tsopano si za iwo.
Nthano nambala 9. "Kodi amapereka chitsanzo chotani kwa ana?"
Ana aunyamata sangathe kuphunzira za izo. Chabwino, ana akuluakulu sali aang'ono, amvetsetsa ndikumvetsa zonse ... Maphunziro ndi ndondomeko yochokera osati zitsanzo chabe. Komanso, akazi sali angwiro. N'zosatheka kuti iwo azidzitamandira chifukwa chakuti nthawi zonse amapatsa ana zitsanzo zabwino zokhazokha.
Nthano nambala 10. "Sangathe ngakhale kulingalira momwe ..."
Chabwino, kodi mbuyeyo adzadziwonetsera yekha pa malo a mkazi ndi chiyani? Kodi mukuganiza kuti muli pa malo a msilikiti wa timu amene adatayika mu mpikisano wa dziko? Kapena kuti atamuponyera mwana wawo ku sukuluyo ndikupereka chiphuphu kwa munthu woyenera, iwo amamuletsa wophunzira yemwe anali wokonzeka bwino? Munadziyimira nokha pamalo a ochita mpikisano, omwe munamenya ndi kulemba mgwirizano poyamba?
Mu moyo, nkofunika kuti mumenyane nthawi zonse ndipo musagonje. Tiyenera kumenyera chimwemwe chathu, ndipo pankhondoyi aliyense amamenyana yekha. Musaganize za makhalidwe abwino! Ndi bwino kuganizira zomwe mukuchita molakwika ngati mwamunayo atakusiyani kwa mkazi wina. Ganizirani, musamunamizire wotsutsa pazinthu zonse zomwe mwalingalira, mfiti za izi ndi nthano zachibadwa.
Nthano nambala 11. Omvera amapereka kumverera ndi kumverera kwa mwamuna, koma pamapeto amakhala okha.
Ndi zoona, koma ngati ali ndi proprietress. Mtsikana amene amakhala ndi chibwenzi ndi mwamuna wokwatira, akhoza kumanga ubale komanso moyo wofanana, palibe amene angamulepheretse. Komanso, akapeza kuti ali ndi chimwemwe, amatha kukhala limodzi ndi wokondedwa wake, okonda chikondi sali ndi ngongole kwa wina ndi mnzake.