Komabe, m'dziko lamakono, zinthu zasintha kwambiri, asungwana ali patsogolo pa makampani aakulu, amayendetsa makampani ndikupanga malonda awo omwe. Tsopano sizosadabwitsa kuti nthawi zina amai amapeza ndalama zambiri kuposa nthawi zamphongo. Pa chifukwa ichi, theka la anthu labwino liyenera kuphunzira kuchita zochitika za amai. Komabe, ziyenera kukumbukira kuti izi zikugwirizana ndi amayi okha, chifukwa chakuti amamatira mwamuna wake kuyeretsa kuzungulira nyumbayo?
Panthawi ina ndimagwira ntchito ku kampani komwe kunali gulu la amuna okhaokha. Ndipo panthawi imodzi yopuma chamadzulo tinayamba kukangana zomwe amuna ndi akazi ayenera kuchita pakhomo. Nthawi zonse ndimakhulupirira kuti sikuyenera kugawidwa momveka bwino m'banja kuti zikhale ntchito zachikazi komanso zachikazi zokha. Aliyense ayenera kuchita zomwe ali nazo nthawi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati mwamuna abwera kudzagwira ntchito, amatha kusonkhanitsa mabuku osweka ndikugona pabedi. Koma ndinadabwa bwanji pamene anzanga onse adalengeza kuti abambo ayenera kupeza ndalama, osati kuyeretsa nyumbayo. Iwo molimba mtima ankanena kuti zingakhale zovuta kwambiri, ngati n'kotheka, kuti awayeretse kuyeretsa nyumbayo.
Zimatidziwitsa bwino aliyense wa ife pamene mukutopa kubwerera kuntchito ndi phukusi lonse la zinthu, ndipo mumayamba kugwira ntchito mozungulira nyumba, pamene mwamunayo akukhazikika patsogolo pa TV. Ndiye funso lodziwika bwino: "Nchifukwa chiyani mumasowa mwamuna, ngati mumakhala oyera m'nyumba, komanso mumapeza ndalama?"
Palibe amene sangathe kusintha maudindo awo, komanso kaya asakhale kapena ayi, ndizokha basi komanso moyo umasankha. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna adathamangitsidwa kuchoka kuntchito yake, thanzi lake lidakula, mwana anabadwira - ndipo ayenera kutenga maudindo ena aakazi, kapena kukhala "mwamuna wazimayi." N'zachidziwikire kuti muzochitika zotero, munthu aliyense adzathamangira mofulumira, pamene akuganiza kuti ndizochititsa manyazi kumathandiza pakhomo. Zinthu izi zimakwiyitsa kwambiri, amayamba kudzifufuza yekha, akutha, chifukwa zimamuvuta kuti apulumuke chifukwa chakuti banja lawo limayendetsedwa ndi mkazi.
Mkhalidwe wotere ukhoza kuthetsa molakwika kwambiri kwa munthu, ukhozanso kupita kukumwa. Choncho, atsikana ayenera kusamala kwambiri komanso kumvetsera wokondedwa wawo. Ndikofunika kuti mwamuna wanu ayambe kuyeretsa pang'onopang'ono. Ngati athandizira pakhomo pakhomo: kuphika chakudya kapena kutuluka m'nyumba, ndiye mutam'tamanda mochokera pansi pa mtima, ngakhale mutakhala nokha kangapo kangapo. Mukhoza kukhala otsimikiza kuti posachedwapa adzapeza bwino.
Koma muzonse muyenera kuyang'ana nthawi zabwino, ndipo izi ndi zosiyana. Vomerezani kuti n'zosadabwitsa mukamalowa m'nyumba ndikuwona chakudya chokoma patebulo, nyumbayo ndi yoyera, komanso pakhomo la ana odyetsedwa bwino komanso okhutira ndi ana omwe amamwetulira. Pambuyo pake, mu nkhaniyi simudzaponyedwanso m'nyumba zanu zapakhomo ndipo mudzatha kudzipereka nokha kuti muyankhulane ndi okondedwa anu.
Ndipo tsopano malangizo ena mwachindunji kwa munthu yemwe anadzakhala woyang'anira nyumba, ndipo anayamba kuyamba kuyeretsa kuzungulira nyumbayo:
- Choyamba, taya mawu akuti mkazi yekha ayenera kuchita ntchito zapakhomo. Zindikirani kuti inunso muli mamembala a banja, kotero kuti mukhale ogwirizana komanso mutonthozedwe osati mkazi yekha, koma inu. Choncho, yambani kuyeretsa nyumba popanda chikumbumtima chilichonse.
- Tangoganizani kuti ntchito zapakhomo ndizogwira ntchito zonse, koma zimangotanthauzira mosiyana. Pa chifukwa ichi, mukhoza kulemba mndandanda wa milandu yayikulu ndi yaing'ono, imene iyenera kuchitika lero molephera.
- Kuwonjezera pa muyeso-zochitika za amai, chitani ntchito yeniyeni yachimuna, nyumba zoyera "za amuna." Konzani mfuti yozembera, yikani zitseko ku chipinda, kapena potsiriza muzisokoneza zipangizo zowonetsera muzitali.
- Musatseke maso anu. Ngati simukupita ku ofesi, sizikutanthauza kuti simukuyenera kupita kumsika wa ovala tsitsi kapena masewera olimbitsa thupi.
- Yesetsani kupezabe ntchito muzipadera.
- Muli ndi nthawi yambiri yaulere, choncho yesetsani kudzikonza nokha. Mudzidziwe nokha chinachake chatsopano, sikungokulepheretsani kukhumudwa, komanso kukuthandizani kukhala katswiri wodziwa bwino.
Ndipo potsiriza, amuna athu okondedwa, kumbukirani kuti banja ndi thupi limodzi, choncho aliyense ayenera kuthandizana. Chikondi si mawu okha, koma zochita. Ndipo kuyeretsa kuzungulira nyumba kungatheke palimodzi.