Ulendo woyamba wopita kwa mayi wazimayi

Mu moyo wa msungwana aliyense, mphindi ya chiyanjano chofunika kwambiri imabwera. Kuchita chibwenzi ndi mayi wa amayi. Ndipo, ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwake komwe mukufuna kuiwala za iye, misonkhano yoteroyo iyenera kukhala yowonongeka, ndi ubale - pafupipafupi kwa moyo wanu wonse. Tidzakudziwitsani zinthu zofunikira za ubale wanu. Ulendo woyamba wopita kwa mayi wachinyamata si woopsa kwambiri, monga momwe anthu ambiri amaganizira.

Atsikana ochulukirapo amaopa kuwopsa koyamba kukambirana ndi azimayi. Pambuyo pa ulendo, mantha amatha. Musanapite kusamba, koma musagwiritse ntchito njira zowonongeka - dokotala ayenera kufufuza momwe zimakhalira ndikupanga smear - ngakhale sopo wabwino kwambiri akhoza kukhudza zotsatira.

Inu mudzatumizidwa ku mpando wachikazi. Musachite mantha ndi "chinthu chachitsulo" chomwe mudzafunsidwa. Ichi ndi galasi lachidziwitso, ndipo sichigwiritsidwa ntchito pozunza, koma moyenera kwa dokotala. Kenaka adzalandira zitsamba pazomera, mwinamwake, ndi matenda. Funsani mafunso angapo.

Matenda ambiri a "akazi" amawoneka osasangalatsa, ndipo makamaka zizindikilo zina, ndipo matenda aliwonse amachiza kuchipatala choyamba. Matenda omwe amapezeka m'maganizo mwawo nthawi zambiri amatha kuchiritsidwa kwa nthawi yayitali, ndi mankhwala ambiri komanso kutaya chibwenzi. Simukukondwera ndi nthawi ya pachaka, imene ingakhale yotheka kumangompsompsona manja ndi modzichepetsa? Kuphatikiza apo, ndi mayi wazimayi, osati mayi, chibwenzi chodziwika bwino kapena msonkhano wapamwamba kwambiri, womwe ukhoza kukufotokozerani chifukwa chake pa nthawi yogonana mumakumana ndi izi kapena zokhudzidwa (ndipo ngati ziri zosasangalatsa, momwe mungagwirire nazo). Kuonjezeranso kukuthandizani za njira zamakono zamakono, kufotokozani momwe mungagwirire ndi PMS, yomwe yakhala ikukangana ndi chibwenzi ndi ena, ndikumva ululu panthawi yovuta.

Ngakhale mutakhala otsimikiza kuti kuchedwa kumayambitsidwa ndi nkhawa, pangani nthawi.

Ngati muli ndi kuyabwa, kuyaka, kumverera kosasangalatsa kapena kukhudzidwa kwachilendo. Palibe chochita manyazi, dokotala sangayambe kukupopera ndi chala chako ndikufuula kuchipatala chonse: "Eya, watenga kachilombo!" Matendawa sangathe kupatsirana kudzera mu kugonana, ndipo pamapeto pake ndikuchiritsa. Ziribe kanthu zomwe mukudwala ndi momwe zinakhalira.

Miyezi 6 yatha kuchokera paulendo womaliza.

Kodi mumadzipangira mankhwala? Ngati mutha kusankha kusankha madontho a chifuwa nokha, vuto la thanzi la amai ndilobisika. Matenda ambiri ali ndi zizindikiro zofananako, ndipo mumatha kudziwa zotsatira za mayesero. Ndipo mankhwala osankhidwa molakwika angathe kuwonjezera vutoli.

Sankhani mapiritsi ambiri okhudzana ndi kulera. Ndipo palibe chochita mantha kapena chamanyazi. Dokotala adzakondwera ndi chidziwitso chanu, adzayesa mayeso komanso amalangiza mapiritsi kapena njira ina yabwino kwambiri kwa inu. Njira yodzisankhira yokhayo ingayambitse mphuno bwino, poipa kwambiri - kulephera kwa hormonal, zotsatira zake zomwe ziyenera kuti ziyeretsedwe popanda mwezi umodzi. Chimene chafika kwa bwenzi, sikuti chikukwanira iwe.

Kunama. Dokotala osati chifukwa cha chidwi amakufunsani mafunso okhudza chiwerengero cha zibwenzi ndi kukhalapo kwa moyo wogonana. Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kupeza matenda, komanso posankha chithandizo.

Ziribe kanthu zomwe zinakuchitikirani, nchifukwa ninji mudabwera ku phwando ndi zomwe mukupempha. Dokotala sangathamange kukaitana amayi anu - pali lingaliro la "chinsinsi chachipatala", zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti zonse zomwe mumanena muofesi zidzakhalabe pakati pa inu ndi adokotala. Muyenera kumukhulupirira. Ndipo ngati lingaliro la kuyendera maofesi achikazi limabweretsa mantha - kusanthula sikukusangalatsa, kapena simukukonda momwe mumachitira - muli ndi ufulu wopita kwa dokotala wina. Azimayi amodzi ali ndi zipatala zamtunda (zipatala zazimayi) komanso zipatala zapadera. Sankhani malo alionse.

Katswiri wa zazimayi sangakudye, ndipo muyenera kudziwa izi pamene mukukonzekera ulendo wanu woyamba kwa mwana wamkazi wa achinyamata. Paunyamata, chirichonse chikuwoneka chowopsya kwa nthawi yoyamba, koma ichi chiyenera kulekerera, ndipo posakhalitsa kapena kenako chirichonse chimachitika kwa nthawi yoyamba. Choncho, mayi wa amai mu nkhaniyi, ngakhale mdani, koma mnzanu amene angakuthandizeni m'moyo wotsatira.