Pamaso pa zochitika ziti pamoyo wanga bambo amalota?
Ngati munthu wolota adawona bambo ake, zikutanthawuza kuti kusintha kwakukulu kwafika pa moyo. Ndi nthawi yosintha zolinga ndi moyo. Mwina tsoka lakonzekera kusintha kosangalatsa. Khalani okonzekera kuti muyenera kusamukira kumalo ena okhala kapena kusintha kwambiri ntchito yanu. Palinso mabuku ena olota maloto omwe amatanthauzira malotowa ngati chiwonetsero cha chochitika chofunikira kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, ukwati kapena chofunika. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti malotowa ali ndi mphamvu zamphamvu kwambiri kuyambira nthawi ya Lolemba mpaka Lachiwiri, kuyambira Lachinayi mpaka Lachisanu ndi Lamlungu usiku.
Mwa njira, pali nthano kuti ngati mtsikanayo ali ndi bambo wobadwira, posakhalitsa adzakhala ndi mwana wamwamuna ndi agogo ake. Amuna amakonda kulota ngati posachedwa ntchito ikuyembekezeka kusintha.
Bwanji ngati munamuwona bambo wakufa m'maloto?
Izi zikhoza kumasuliridwa mwanjira zosiyanasiyana. Ngati abambo anu ali ndi moyo weniweni, ndipo mumalota mumamuwona mu bokosi, izi zikusonyeza kuti matenda aakulu adakhazikika mu thupi la wachibale wanu, zomwe zingachititse imfa. Nthawi zina otanthauzira amatanthauzira loto limeneli monga kukhalapo kwa munthu wosaganiza bwino mu gulu la anzanu kapena ntchito yothandizira.
Ngati papa anamwaliradi, ndipo mu loto anawoneka kwa inu amoyo, ndiye izi ziyenera kutengedwa mozama. Yesetsani kukumbukira, mwinamwake iwo anakupatsani inu malangizo kapena chinachake choti munene. Izi zingakhale chenjezo lochokera kudziko lina. Mwina, mwa njira iyi, wachibale wanu wakufa akuyesera kukufikitsani njira yoyenera. Ngati abambo anu amatha kukhumudwa, ndiye kuti, simukukhala moyo wanu, mukuchita chinachake cholakwika. Yesetsani kuganiziranso malo anu, khalidwe lanu ndi zikhumbo zanu. Ngati mumakhulupirira bukhu la Freud la maloto - ndi chizindikiro choti mumasonyeza kulimbika mtima komanso kuleza mtima mukakumana ndi zovuta.
Mwazinthu zina, kuti mumusunge wakufayo mu loto - kusintha kwadzidzidzi nyengo. Dzuwa lotentha lingalowe m'malo mwa kuthira mvula, ndipo mmalo mwa mphepo yamkuntho imabwera tsiku loyera bwino.
Izi zimachitika kuti anthu amalota bambo awo abambo. Ichi ndi chizindikiro chotsimikizirika kuti mukufuna chisamaliro cha makolo ndi chikondi. Mumadziona kuti simukufunikira kwa wina aliyense, zomwe zimakhudza moyo wanu. Komanso, zolemba mabuku zimasonyeza kuti mkati mwa miyezi itatu kuchokera nthawi yomwe malotowo akuchitika, chochitika chofunika chokhudzana ndi banja lanu chidzachitika. Izi zingakhale chisudzulo, ndi chiyanjano, mwina sangakhale ndi kukonzanso kukonzedwa.
Monga mukuonera, zomwe abambo ake amalota zimachitiridwa mosiyana kwambiri. Chofunika kwambiri ndi fano la papa, zolankhula zake ndi mkhalidwe wake. Pamene ndikukondwera kwambiri, malotowa ndiwotchulidwa kwambiri. Yesetsani kulingalira za okondedwa anu nthawi zambiri momwe mungathere, kuwachezera ndi kuwasangalatsa. Ndipo kumbukirani - njira yathu yolingalira sidalira kokha pa maloto, komanso m'tsogolo.