Mayi ndi mwamuna ali ndi malingaliro ofanana ndi ofanana, omwe amakulolani kuti mukumva mnzanuyo mobisa. Amatha kuthandizana ndi maganizo okhaokha. Onse okwatirana amamvetsetsa kukondana kwa chibwenzi. Amayesetsa kusunga kuunika, moyo waumphawi ndi chilakolako ngakhale atakhala zaka zambiri akukhala pamodzi.
Anthu omwe ali pansi pazizindikirozi amatha kugwirizana ndi kuthetsa mkangano pa nthawi, kuti athetse mikangano. Mu chikhalidwe cha onse awiri, pali kukhudzidwa kwambiri, bata ndi nzeru. Komanso ali otopa komanso ozindikira, monga "kuyendayenda m'mitambo" ndipo nthawi zambiri sagwira ntchito. Chikondi chachilendo chikhoza kukakamiza kuchita zinthu mopupuluma, zomwe ziribe nzeru.
Ubwino wothandizira nsomba za amuna ndi akazi
Chiyanjano chabwino ndicho chikondi cha uzimu kwa wina ndi mzake. Pamtima waukwati sizimangokonda chikondi komanso chilakolako chokha, komanso ubwenzi weniweni. Okwatirana nthawi zonse amakhala pamodzi: kupita ku zochitika, kupita kukacheza, kupita kutchuthi. Pokhala ndi anthu ena, amalankhulana mosavuta, koma nthawi yomweyo pali kukambirana telepathic wina ndi mnzake. Pakati pawo iwo sakhala osasunthika, amatha kudzipanga okha kukhala okondwa komanso kupanga zosangalatsa.
Kugwirizana kwa akazi a nsomba ndi abambo amphongo kumawathandiza iwo ku moyo wonse kuti apereke ndi kulandira chikondi chopanda malire. Kuwona mtima, kudzipereka, kuzindikira, kukoma mtima ndizo zikuluzikulu za mgwirizanowu. Pakati pao palibe malo abodza, kunyenga, mkwiyo, nsanje ndi kunyenga.
Ponena za phindu la phindu, onse awiriwo sawakonda. Malingana ndi izi, n'zovuta kunena za zomwe ali nazo pokwaniritsa mapiri a ndalama. Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti onse awiri amatha kupeza ndalama zokwanira ndikusunthira ntchito. Kugwirizana kwa nsomba za amuna ndi akazi pa kugonana ndizobwino, ndipo ana awo amakulira mozunguliridwa ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro.
Kuipa kwa mgwirizano wa nsomba zamphongo ndi nsomba zazimayi
Ngakhale phindu lonse la kugwirizana kwa nsomba za amuna ndi akazi, palinso mbali zolakwika mu mgwirizanowu. Zambiri mwazifukwazi ndi chifukwa chosagwirizana ndi onse awiri. Zimakhala zovuta kuti anthu oterowo azigawira ndalama moyenera, kuyendetsa chuma ndi kuyang'ana moyo mwachindunji. Monga tanenera kale, iwo amakonda kulota ndi kufotokoza nthawi zambiri. Pankhaniyi, onsewa amakumana ndi mavuto omwe sungathetsedwe.
Komabe, vuto la moyo si chinthu chachikulu. Tsoka ilo, anthu omwe ali pansi pa chizindikiro chimenechi amayamba kukhala ndi zikhulupiliro zosiyanasiyana. Ambiri a iwo amasewera juga, kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa. Kawirikawiri ngakhale mankhwala amalowa m'moyo wa nsomba.
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