Komabe, pokhala ndi tsiku lachikondi, musaiwale kuti kudzichepetsa kumakongoletsa munthu, kotero musanapite tsiku muyenera kulingalira mosamala zomwe muyenera kuvala tsiku ndi momwe mungakhalire nokha, kuti musadodometse mnyamata wanu wamtsogolo, komanso mwinamwake mwamuna wamtsogolo. Chomwecho, chovala chomwe mungasankhe, kukhala ndi nthawi yachikondi ngati mukugwirizana ndi bizinesi, ndipo mumadziwa komwe mwalitanidwa (izi ndizimene mupita ku lesitilanti, opera, masewera kapena malo ena achikondi, ndi zina zotero), ndiye Muyenera kusankha zovala malinga ndi kavalidwe ka kavalidwe kameneka, ndizovala zazing'ono zakuda kapena zakuda. Zimapita pafupifupi akazi onse, zimawoneka zokongola komanso zokongola, mumangoganizira za kutalika kwa kavalidwe ndi kavalidwe. Nthawizonse imakhalabe mu mafashoni, imapangitsa mkazi kukhala wachikazi, inu mukhoza ndithu kuyesa mtundu. Yesani kusankha mtundu wina monga mtundu wobiriwira wakuda ndi wina wosakhala wowala kwambiri. Mungasankhenso suti yamalonda ndi kavalidwe ka mafashoni ndi mathalauza kapena siketi ya sing'anga yaitali, koma ndithudi sizimveka bwino.
Koma, monga lamulo, chirichonse chimadalira pa msinkhu wa anthu omwe amapita ku msonkhano uno. Anthu achikulire amakonda kupita ku malo odyera kapena kumalo owonetsera mavalidwe ndi kuvala zambiri mosasamala. Achinyamata mwachibadwa amapita ku cinema kapena ku discos, mumavomereza suti padola yomwe simungayang'ane kwambiri, ndipo kuvina sikungakhale kosavuta. Choncho, ngati mukupita kumalo ena (ndiko kuti, malo omwe tawafotokozera pamwambapa) pamene zovala zolimba sizingalandiridwe, kenaka funso likubweranso: ndi zovala ziti zomwe mungasankhe, kukhala ndi chibwenzi? Zikhozanso kukhala ndi jeans zapamwamba ndi chiuno chomwe mumawoneka chodabwitsa, chifukwa jeans yosankhidwa bwino amatsindika zithumwa zanu zonse: ndi miyendo yochepa ndi bulu. Kwa iwo mungathe kuwonjezera kansalu (izi zingakhale zapamwamba zamtengo wapatali kapena shati yamakono, batani pamwamba omwe inu, ndithudi, "mumayiwala" ku zip) ndikuwonjezera chidendene chake kuti mugogomeze mgwirizano wanu. Ngati mulibe chifaniziro chabwino kwambiri chovala zovala zomwe mumawoneka bwino ndikuganiza kuti zinthu zikuyendereni bwino. Mfundo yofunika kwambiri ya kalembedwe yanu ndizowonjezera: musapachike pa nkhokwe zanu zonse za golide, zikuwoneka kuti mukutsatira zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kalembedwe lanu ndi fano lanu lero. Musabweretse thumba lalikulu ndi inu kuti musiye kusankha kwanu pang'ono, chifukwa lero ndinu wachikondi, mkazi wofooka komanso wopanda chitetezo. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, musaiwale, patsiku lachikondi, valani zovala zapamwamba kwambiri zomwe mumakhala nazo (ngati zili choncho) chifukwa ndi Mulungu yekha amene amadziwa zomwe zidzachitike tsiku lanu lachikondi. Momwemo mudzakhala otsimikiza kwambiri ndipo simudzakhala ndi mantha.
Ndipo kutsirizira kotsiriza kwazomweyi ndi malangizo: musamabvala, ngati kuti mukudzipereka nokha kwa aliyense amene ali m'chipinda chimodzi ndi inu, lolani ziwalo zonse zobisika za thupi lanu zisabisike kwa maso a alendo, koma zowonekera kwa omwe ali pafupi. Musavalidwe mu zinthu zodula kwambiri kuchokera ku mabitolo okwera mtengo kwambiri. Mnyamata wanu angaganize kuti simungakwanitse ndipo zingamuopseze kwamuyaya, ngakhale kwa iye zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri. Pezani mawonekedwe anu apadera mu zovala, kuti musamawoneke ngati chirichonse, koma kuti muwoneke ndi imvi ndi kukoma ndi zovala. Ndipo musaiwale za kudzipangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta komanso zachibadwa, nthawi zonse zimakonda amuna.