Msungwana aliyense akufuna kupereka mphatso zachilendo ndi zachilendo kwa mwamuna, kuti akumbukire nthawiyi kwa nthawi yaitali. Zimakhulupirira kuti mphatso ziyenera kuperekedwa kokha chifukwa cha maholide, koma posonyeza kuti kumverera kwanu ndi chisamaliro sizikufunikira kamodzi pachaka, koma mochuluka. Pambuyo pake, ngakhale ngakhale pasadakhale maphwando a kalendala, nthawi ndi nthawi amauza wokondedwa wanu ndi mphatso zoyambirira, izi zidzalimbitsa ubale wanu. Kuphatikizanso apo, mwamunayu adzasangalala kwambiri kukumverani.
Zigawo za mphatso
Mphatso za abambo zingagawidwe mu magawo atatu: mphatso zoyamba, zachizolowezi, zapadera, yachiwiri - mtengo, wachitatu - zoyambirira. Pafupifupi gulu lotsiriza ndi zolankhula zathu zidzapita. Mphatso izi sizingakhale ndi tanthauzo lapadera, koma ziyenera kukhala zokondweretsa, zokoma (ngakhale zopangidwa ndi wekha) ndi kuperekedwa ndi mtima wonse. Pa mndandanda wa mphatso zachilendo za munthu mukhoza kudzinenedwa kuti ndi mlengalenga wokondedwa, womwe umalengedwa kuti apange wokondedwa.
Zoonadi ndikufuna kuzindikira kuti kusankha mphatso kwa mwamuna sikophweka, makamaka ngati ndi mphatso yachilendo. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya ali ndi mtundu wanji wa munthu: mwamuna kapena mkazi. Ndicho chifukwa chake muyenera kusamalira mphatsoyo pasadakhale.
Njira yoyamba
Pa mphatso zambiri zachilendo, monga lamulo, zimatanthauza chikumbutso chokongoletsa kapena chipangizo chosangalatsa. Koma ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti mphatso ngati imeneyi iyenera kukukumbutsani nthawi (makamaka zaka khumi). Mwachitsanzo, ikhoza kukhala nyimbo ya nyimbo, kumvetsera zomwe munthu angaganize za woperekayo. Chinthu chachikulu apa sichiyenera kutaya ndi zokonda za amuna. Mwa njira, nyimbo - iyi ndi malo omwe amagwirizana ndi maganizo a munthu, zochitika zake. Chabwino, ngati msungwana ali ndi kumva bwino ndi mawu, bwanji asamalembere yekha album kwa wokondedwa wake ndi kumupatsa iye. Kulephera kwa deta yolankhula si chifukwa chokhumudwitsa. Lembani mwamuna kuti azitsatira nyimbo zabwino zokondweretsa zauzimu.
Kusamala mu maubwenzi
Choyamba, kuti mupange mphatso yanu osati yachilendo, komanso yofunikanso, yesetsani kusankha kwake mwachidwi, powonetsa mwambowu. Dziwani zomwe zingamudabwitse kwambiri.
Timadzikonda tokha
Sikofunika kutenga ndalama zambiri pa mphatso zachilendo, zikhoza kupangidwa ndi manja anu. Mwachitsanzo, khadi lovomerezeka lovomerezeka lovomerezeka lovomerezeka kapena zolemba zam'ntchito yake ndithudi liyenera kuyamikiridwa. Chinthu chachikulu ndikutanthauzira mavesi kwa munthu wina ndikuyika gawo la moyo wake m'magawo awa.
Album ya kukumbukira
Monga lamulo, nthawi zambiri zosangalatsa za moyo zimapezeka pazithunzi. Kotero, kuti mukumbukire limodzi ndi okondedwa anu zabwino zomwe zikuchitika mu moyo, mupatseni iye album ya kukumbukira. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kugula kalasi yeniyeni, ndi mmalo mwa zithunzi kuti muikemo timapepala, komwe munalemba zolemba zanu zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa zomwe mwakhala pamodzi. Pa tsamba lililonse muyenera kulemba chikumbutso chimodzi. Album iyi ikhoza kuperekedwa osati kwa wokondedwa yekha, komanso kwa bwenzi, m'bale.
Si zachilendo
Monga mphatso yapachiyambi kwa theka lanu lachiwiri mukhoza kusankha malo apadera achikondi ndikukonzekera. Mwachitsanzo, mphatso yachilendo yoteroyo ikhoza kupangitsa chipinda kuti chiwombere kuhotelo, yomwe muyenera kulikongoletsa mwachikondi. Pambuyo pake, ponyani makiyi anu ku knight ndi cholembedwera ndi mafuta anu, omwe amasonyeza adiresi yomwe muyenera kuyembekezera. Kapena mukhoza kupita njira ina ndikuphikira wokonda chakudya chamadzulo ndi chodetsa nkhawa panyumba, ndikudzaza madzulo ndi malo apamtima. Dzigulireni nokha zovala zochepetsetsa zochepetsetsa ndikudzipereka nokha kwa wokondedwa wanu monga mphatso yabwino kwambiri, yomwe ayenera "kutulutsa". Mphatso yotereyi idzakhala yachilendo kwambiri ndipo idzakumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali ndi mphuno yanu.