Mwachibadwa, kununkhira kwa mafuta onunkhira, poyamba, kununkhiza kokoma ndi kokongola. Pambuyo pake, pafupifupi mtsikana aliyense ayamba kulota kuti ndizochokera kwa iye zosangalatsa, zokopa ndi zosavuta zolemba za mafuta onunkhira akutulukira. Kuwonjezera apo, iye ayenera kutembenuzira mitu kwa amuna ambiri, komanso kukondweretsa malingaliro awo osakanizika. Koma momwe mungasankhire kununkhira kwa mizimu yoyenera, kuti musankhe mwanzeru kuti zotsatirazo zikhale zabwino kwenikweni?
N'zachidziwikire kuti fungo lokoma liyenera kutsindika zochitika zake zonse zakunja, zokopa, komanso zimapatsa mwiniwake zosangalatsa. Momwemonso, madzi a chimbudzi akhala kale otchuka kwambiri, opangidwira. Kuwonjezera apo, amayi ambiri nthawi zambiri amasankha kukachezera masitolo onse okongoletsera ndi opangidwa ndi mafuta onunkhira. Ngakhale kuli koyenera kumvetsetsa kuti si zophweka kupeza fungo, sikovuta kulipeza, ndipo n'kosatheka kusankha zonunkhira, zomwe kwenikweni zimayesedwa zokongola. Ndipotu, zosiyanasiyana zokongola, zamalonda, zomwe zimawonekera nthawi zonse komanso zowonongeka pa TV, zingakulowetseni mu chiwonongeko chozama. Ndipo kuti athe kusankha bwino, zidzakhala zofunikira kuti mkhalidwe ukhale wodekha, womasuka, ndi kuti fungo lina lililonse losaoneka ndi losaoneka liripo. Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti simuyenera kuchita izi mofulumira, chifukwa njirayi ingatengere nthawi yayitali. Choncho ndibwino kuganizira mosamala.
Kupanda chidziwitso kapena chidziwitso. Choyamba, mtsikanayo asanakhalepo ndi vutoli asanasankhe chisangalalo choyenera, ayenera kudziwa malamulo angapo osayankhula. Mofananamo, musanayambe kupita ku sitolo ina, musamadzidye nokha ndi zitsulo zosiyanasiyana zonunkhira, kapena yesani ndi zodzoladzola zonunkhira. Ndipo chimbudzi cha madzi chidzasokoneza kwambiri komanso chosasangalatsa. Zidzakhala bwino ngati dona woteroyo adzakhala ndi nthawi yeniyeni. Pambuyo pake, ngati palibe lingaliro lofanana ndi lodziwika bwino la fungo lofunikira, lingakhale lofunikira konse, osati kwa masiku angapo. Ndipotu akatswiri ambiri angatsimikizire kuti tsiku lina zingatheke kumvetsetsa, kumangomva zokoma zitatu zokha. Ndipo china chirichonse sichingakhoze ngakhale kudziwika. Kuti mukhale ndi chithunzi choyamba, choyenera cha mizimu yotereyi, muyenera kuyendetsa pang'ono pamzere wina. Kuonjezera apo, pepala ikhoza kukhala yabwino kwambiri, chifukwa chokoma chomwecho pa chivindikirocho chimachokera mwamsanga. Ndipo sizidzamva fungo momwe ziyenera kukhalira. Chabwino, ngati fungo lafika pafupi kwambiri ndi moyo wanu, ndiye kuti simukufunikira kuthamanga pomwepo, ndibwino kuti mupulumuke kachiwiri, koma pakangopita kanthawi. Izi ndizofunika kudziwa momwe fungo lidzasintha tsiku lonse.
Makalata apamwamba, apakati, ndi apansi. Mtsikanayo atatsegula chivindikirocho ndi botolo la mafuta onunkhirawo, zofukiza zonunkhira zidzatulukira kunja, zomwe akatswiri ambiri amatha kutchula malemba apamwamba. Komanso, madzi a chimbuzi adzakhala ndi ofanana, malowa. Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti zolembera zotere sizikhala motalika kwambiri, pafupifupi miniti yokha. Koma ndi omwe amapanga zowonjezereka, lingaliro lolondola kwambiri la mizimu yokha. Ndipotu, zambiri zimadalira zida za khungu la mayiyo. Komanso, pafupifupi mizimu yonse ingathe kuchita mosiyana ndi zinthu zina. Pa chifukwa ichi, ndiye zolemba zina zapakati zikuwonekera. Koma uku ndikumveka kofatsa komanso kofatsa komwe kumatenga ola limodzi. Koma zolembera m'munsizi - zambiri zomwe zimawoneka ndi anthu onse ozungulira iwo, ngati mkazi woteroyo akufuna kupeza zonunkhira, makamaka, kuti azisankha bwino, pamtundu umodzi kapena wina. Chirichonse chimadalira zomwe amakonda.
Fungo loyenera. Nyumba zambiri za mafashoni ndi okonzeka kupatsa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya njira zosiyanasiyana. Komanso, amayi ambiri sadziwa zomwe angasankhe bwino. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti zidzakhala zofunikira kudziwa komwe mkazi wotereyu adza kugwiritsa ntchito fungo lopangidwa ngati limeneli. Chabwino, poyenda mophweka komanso mophweka, kapena kugwira ntchito mu ofesi, ndi bwino kupereka zofuna zanu zosavuta komanso zonunkhira. Chabwino, zolemba zamaganizo ndi zosiyana zamadzulo zolembazo zingakwaniritse, mwachitsanzo, ngati pulogalamu yamaseŵera, kapena ku malo ena odyera, komabe ndi wokondedwa wanu. Adzasangalala ndi fungo lanu pafupi ndi inu.
Zowonjezera, ndiye zabwino. Pali funso lina losangalatsa komanso losatha - ndi oyeretsera angati amene angafunike mtsikana. Ndipotu, imodzi yokha ndi yochepa kwambiri. Mwinamwake ndichifukwa chake tiyenera kupeza ochepa monga choncho. Ngakhale osachepera, ndipo ngakhale atatu, pachiyambi kungakhale kokwanira. Ngakhale pali funso: kodi muyenera kuchita nawo chiyani? Kuonjezera apo, pali nthawi zosiyana, ndipo aliyense ayenera kutenga fungo lanu. Choncho musadandaule kuti mizimu yoteroyo imatha kutaya khalidwe pa nthawi. Ndipotu, mtsikana wotere sangathe kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Ngakhale poyamba poyamba kukayikira kotero kuli kotheka.
Kukambirana ndi galasi. Poyang'ana koyamba palibe chosamvetsetseka, sizikuwonekeratu kuti ubale woterewu uli ndi zotani monga mkati galasi. Ngakhale akatswiri ambiri oganiza zamaganizo adatha kuzindikira kuti pamlingo wina wapadera, dona aliyense ayamba kusankha mafuta onunkhira, malingana ndi mawonekedwe ake, omwe amawoneka choncho. Pambuyo pake, ndi zachilengedwe kuti ngati kununkhira sikuli kofanana, ndiye kuti khalidwe la konkire kwa munthu wotere lingasinthe. Ndicho chifukwa chake zidzakhala zabwino pamene mayiyo atsimikiziranso kuti ndiyani yemwe amakondwera kwambiri. Makamaka, adzatha kusankha fungo labwino la mtundu wake wamwamuna.
Sankhani mwanzeru fungo lanu lapadera, laumwini ndi labwino.