Malangizo - Kumadzulo
Chodabwitsa, chomwe chimatchedwa "kukwatirana kwachikazi kwa akazi," chinadziwika ndi akatswiri pakati pa zaka za m'ma 1990. Pambuyo pa "Chingwe chachitsulo" chitagwa ndi abingu, amayi ambiri ali ndi mwayi weniweni wopita kudziko lamatsenga maloto awo pansi pa dzina lachilendo kudziko lina. Maganizo athu amaimiridwa ndi mitsinje ndi mkaka, zomwe zili ndi nyumba zachifumu zokhala ndi akalonga okongola komanso okongola. Ife timadziwa motsimikiza: "apo" ndi bwino. Kuposa miyezo ya moyo, malamulo osadziwika kwambiri, kuyeretsa m'misewu, hamburgers yokoma kwambiri. Ndipo iwo ankadziwa motsimikiza: "apa" - akazi abwino kwambiri. Wokongola, wokoma mtima, wachifundo, wachuma komanso wofunika kwambiri - wokhoza kuyamikira. Moyo wosasangalatsa wa Aslavic pokhala ndi khalidwe lakumadzulo kwa moyo - kusinthana kumeneku kunkayengedwa ndi onse awiri kuti akhale oona mtima. Koma zidachitika kuti mafotokozedwe a wina ndi mzake kumbali zonse za nsalu yakale adakopeka ndi kudabwa ndipo adapeza kuti ubwino wa amuna awo ndi wochokera ku chuma, kumalire pa avarice, ndipo sivomerezedwa kuti aponyedwe ndalama m'malo awo. Akuluakulu akunja adadzifunsanso kuti n'chifukwa chiyani mkazi sakhala wopenga ndi chisangalalo, akupeza m'nyumba yatsopano chitsulo, firiji ndi makina ochapira: kodi sizinayende zonse m'dziko lawo losawuka? Chiyambi chokhalira chisangalalo, nkhani za tsiku ndi tsiku za kusudzulana kosokoneza, zolephera za anthu omwe amachoka mu ntchito, osokoneza banja, zigawenga pa malonda a anthu omwe adatsanulidwa ngati matalala ... Tidakhala osakhulupirika, okhutira, tinayamba kuyenda kunja ndikulankhulana ndi "iwo" mosiyana ndi a Martians , koma monga ogwirira ntchito zamalonda ndi ophatikizana osangalatsa pa intaneti, ndi zonsezi kuti posakhalitsa akwatira wolemera wachilendo. "Interdevochek" yayamba kukhala yaying'ono, ngakhale kuyendayenda kwa makasitomale m'mabungwe apabanja apadziko lonse akhalabe okhazikika kwa zaka zambiri. Momwe mungakwatire kwenikweni mlendo - osati ambiri okonzeka kuyankha funso ili.
Ndipo kumayambiriro kwa chaka chino, Pulezidenti wa Chilungamo cha Ukraine Mykola Onischuk, ponena za chiwerengero cha mabungwe olembetsera boma, akunena za chizoloŵezi chawo: ukwati uliwonse wa zaka 30 womwe unalembedwa ku Ukraine umatsimikiziridwa pakati pa anthu akudziko lathu komanso anthu akunja. Ngakhale tilingalira nzika za mayiko a CIS - ziwerengero zimakondabe. Ndipo, monga momwe ndinauzidwa ku Central Registry Office ya Kiev, m'mabanja ambirimbiri, mlendo ndi mkwati. "Chotsani atsikana athu ..." - adagwira ntchito antchito, kundiwuza ziwerengero.
Ngati tilankhula za msinkhu wa akwatibwi omwe sadziwa kukwatiwa ndi mlendo komanso amene ali ndi maloto okondwa, magulu awiri amaoneka bwino pakati pawo. Atsikana - atsikana aang'ono kwambiri, okhawo ochokera ku masukulu apamwamba: zaka 22 mpaka 25. Wachiwiri - amayi omwe ali ndi chidziwitso, ndi banja limodzi kapena awiri omwe sali bwino kumbuyo kwa mapewa awo, nthawizina ndi ana ndipo amayamba ntchito - ali ndi zaka 35 kapena kuposerapo.
Chifukwa cha kusuntha kwatsopano kwaukwati kumakhala pamwamba. Inde, inde, liwu lodziwika kwambiri la makalata asanu ndi limodzi, "c" yomaliza. Nthawi zovuta zimatha kuyambitsa nthano zomwe zimakhalapo mkati mwathu. Ndipo ngakhale podziwa bwino kuti "kumeneko" - mavuto awo ndi moyo siwowoneka bwino monga momwe tinkangoganizira, tikufunitsitsa kupita kumalo kumene zinthu ziyenera kukhala bwino m'madera ovutawo. Mwachidule chifukwa "apo" si "pano". Ndibwino kumene sitili, ndipo akalonga okongola m'mabuku samangokhala kokha kumapeto kwa dziko lapansi, ndipo palibe m'mudzi wapafupi. Kusiya chirichonse ndi kusiya ndicho njira yosavuta yosinthira moyo, ndipo vuto ndilo kukakamiza chitukuko, kutipangitsa kukhala otsimikiza kwambiri pokwaniritsa zolinga zomwe poyamba zinkawoneka zosatheka.
Choyamba, amayi amapita kunja kukakhala ndi moyo wapamwamba kusiyana ndi pano, ndipo chifukwa chakuti akufuna kukwatira wolemera wachilendo. Ndipo, kachiwiri, iwo akuyang'ana chitsanzo chosiyana cha ubale, maganizo osiyana kwa iwo eni kusiyana ndi momwe amachitira kunyumba. Sizowopsa kuti maukwati ambiri apadziko lonse amatha pakati pa atsikana aang'ono ndi amuna okalamba. Mkazi wamng'ono akuyembekeza kuchokera muukwati wokhala ndi chidaliro mtsogolomu, chomwe, mwa lingaliro lake, ndi munthu wachikulire wolimba amene angapereke. Malingaliro amenewa, ndithudi, ali ofanana ndi chithunzi chabwino cha bambo - chithunzi ichi chimapangidwa ndi mkazi aliyense.
Ndipo n'chiyani chimachititsa akalonga achilendo ku limousine zoyera? Pakalipano, asiya kuyang'ana akazi a Asilavo ngati ogulitsa nyumba zotsika mtengo kapena malo okongola oti apite. Chofunika kwambiri kwa iwo ndi khalidwe lathu lina - molunjika kwambiri kuposa la atsikana akumadzulo kwakwati, kukambirana kwa banja, osati ku ntchito. Pafupifupi mkazi wathu aliyense, kukwatiwa ndi mlendo, akukonzekera kukhala ndi ana m'banja.
Dera la kunja kwa mkazi wamtsogolo, komabe, akadali lofunikira kwa suti zakunja - mtundu wa Aslavic wa kukongola sikutuluka mwa mafashoni osati pamagulu ozungulira. "Atafika ku Ukraine, anthu akumadzulo akuzindikira kuti tili ndi atsikana okongola angati. Azimayi a ku Ulaya ndi a America ali ndi umwini wokhala ndi umwini wokwanira.
Mwamuna ndi wosavuta kwambiri kupeza mkazi - osati wokongola chabe, komanso wokoma mtima, wachikondi, wanzeru. Ukalamba wake ndi bonasi yowonjezera pa malo opikisana kwambiri. " Malingana ndi Anastasia, amisiri amalonda ambiri akumadzulo amati amavomereza kuti azichita bizinesi ndi Ukraine, pansi pa zovuta zachuma zomwe zikuchitika tsopano, chifukwa chakuti adapeza mkazi pano. Choncho akwatibwi amachokera kunja amagwira ntchito yabwino komanso fanizo lapadziko lonse - panthawi yovutayi ndipindulitsa.
Vuto la zoyembekeza
Malingaliro a Iridescent onena za moyo watsopanowu, omwe amaoneka ngati ife, ayenera kukhala abwino chifukwa chakuti ndi atsopano, pamene akusamukira kudziko lina nthawi zambiri amathyoledwa - osati "za moyo", monga boti lokonda chikondi, koma za kusiyana kwa chikhalidwe ndi maganizo pakati pa mayiko athu . Zowonongeka ndi, monga momwe zilili nthawi zonse, kupitirizabe kwabwino.
Tinafotokozera kuti chimodzi mwa zofuna za akazi kukwatira alendo ndi chikhumbo chosiyana kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe chathu. Chifukwa cha kupambana kwa chikazi, zenizeni komanso osati kufanana kwa amuna ndi akazi kumadzulo zikuwonetseredwa osati mwalamulo, komanso pa tsiku ndi tsiku: "Mwamuna" wamwamuna "mtsogoleri wonse" amalowetsedwanso ndi mgwirizano mu chiyanjano, onsewa amayesetsa kuganizira zofuna za onse awiri. Mwachitsanzo, chifukwa cha ntchito zambiri zolimbana ndi nkhanza zapakhomo, amuna ku America ndi ku Europe akhala akuphunzira kuti ngati mkazi ati "ayi" - amatanthauza "ayi." Ngakhale kukayikira ndi kukayikira kumatanthauziridwa mokondera "ayi." Pochita izi, izi zingachititse vuto: Mwamuna sangalowe mu chipinda cha mkazi wake, ngati atseka chitseko usiku. Mmawa wotsatira - kusemphana maganizo: "Chifukwa chiyani simunabwere kwa ine?" - "Koma mutseka chitseko, ndingabwere bwanji? "Amayi ambiri a Chiyukireniya amakopeka ndi chizoloŵezi cha mwamuna wake kuti amufunse maganizo ake ndi kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zosankha zake: mtsikana yemwe anakulira ndi chikhulupiliro cholimba" kusankha munthu ", sangathe kumvetsa zomwe akufuna, komanso kuti amve zomwe akufuna, ndiloledwa. Mwachidziwikire, Aurope ndi Amereka makamaka ali okhoza komanso okonzeka kulankhula za malingaliro ndi kukambirana maubwenzi. Ngati wokondedwa wanu wasankha kusudzulana kovuta, mwinamwake anagwiritsanso ntchito vutoli ndi wodwalayo ndipo tsopano akudziwa momwe angayankhulire asanayambe kugwa kwa banja.
Moyo wa Aslavic wamtunduwu sungagwirizane ndi chikhumbo chofunika kwambiri choteteza malo , omwe Amerika ali osiyana kwambiri (pakati pa Aurope, Chingerezi, Ajeremani ndi Achi Scandinavians, ndi ku French pang'ono ndi oimira anthu akummwera amachita chotero). Anthu omwe ali kumeneko akukonzekera kuti munthu aliyense apitirire yekha, kuyang'anitsitsa zovuta za moyo wake komanso za ena. Wina akhoza kugwirizana, ine sindiri. Ndimayamikila kuphweka ndi nthawi yomweyo mu chiyanjano. " Ngakhale m'mabwalo a anthu apamtima sizowonongeka gawo la wina ndi mzake - chifukwa chake mabanja a ana ndi makolo amakhala mosiyana, mikangano pakati pa "mpongozi wake" ndi "apongozi ake" amapezeka kawirikawiri, ndipo olowa mmwamba "akuchotsedwa pa chisa" akakula, ngati chikhumbo cha ufulu sichidumpha iwo kale. Winawake apereka mgwirizano woterewu: monga wotukuka kwambiri, wina angasankhe kuti mbale iyi ilibe ubwino ndi chikondi. Koma maubwenzi ambiri amavomereza pakati pa anthu monga nyengo: sangathe kusinthidwa, mungathe kusintha.
M'madera akumadzulo mulibe "nkhondo" pakati pa achibale, kuphatikizapo omwe kale anali okwatirana: Paki yatsopano ya "akale" amasangalala kukomana, kuthera nthawi ndi ana, ndi zina zotero - chitsanzo cha akatswiri a banja chotchedwa polynuclear. Palibe nsanje pazochitika izi sizimawuka - chifukwa mavuto onse adakambidwa ndikugwira ntchito kwa nthawi yayitali, palibe amene amasunga miyala pachifuwa chake. "5" izi zingatipangitse kuti tiyanjana ndi "maukwati aumwini", komwe ifenso tili osamvetsetseka.
Maofesi a amayi ali ndi zodandaula zokhudzana ndi chiwongoladzanja cha a sukulu zakunja: Madzimayi athu sagwirizana ndi momwe ndalama zimakhalira ndi ndalama zoterezi. Bwanji, ngati ndalama za mwamuna ndi madola zikwi zana pachaka, sangathe kumupatsa zikwi zisanu pakali pano? Izi ndizomwe mwamuna atakhala pazola zake akumufotokozera komwe kwenikweni mazana zikwi mazana akupita - misonkho, zilembo ndi zina zotero. Kawirikawiri akwatibwi amakumana ndi mfundo yakuti mwamuna wabwino samayesetsa kukhala ndi moyo umene umagwirizana (malinga ndi maganizo a mkazi) pa udindo wake. Mmodzi wa anthu olemba mabukuwa a ku mayiko ena omwe adalemba ulemu wazamalonda wa ku Norway ndipo anadabwa kwambiri kuti mwamuna wake amakonda kukhala ndi moyo wa ku Spartan, amakhala m'nyumba yosavuta ndi zinthu zochepa ndipo amathera nthawi yochuluka pa masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Ukraine si Europe?
Tili ndi okwatirana okoma komanso okoma mtima ku Ukraine, osati kuti azitengera mwamuna. Kuwerengera anthu a ku Ulaya samvetsa chikhumbo chathu komanso kuthekera kwathu kukhala moyo woposa momwe tingathere: "Kodi magalimoto apamwamba amabwera kuchokera m'mabwalo a Khrushchev?" Kodi n'chifukwa chiyani mumakhala m'nyumba yotereyi komanso mumakhala ndi ngongole zambiri, mukukonzekera ukwati kapena chikondwerero china? "Skaryna, kumadzulo amakonda kukhala modzichepetsa komanso mopanda phokoso:" Amalonda a kumadzulo a kumadzulo amanena kuti mizinda yokhala ndi phokoso komanso yosangalatsa monga Moscow ndi Kiev ndi yabwino kwambiri kuti athe kukhalapo achinyamata - pamsinkhu wolemekezeka kwambiri amasankha malo ochepetsetsa okhala m'midzi. " Akazi achilendo akudodometsa za "zomwe anthu anganene?" - amayang'anitsitsa kwambiri achibale ndi anansi awo omwe asungidwa m'matauni ang'onoang'ono okha.
Ponena za chuma chodziŵika bwino, zomwe akazi achiyukireniya akufulumira kudabwa nazo amuna awo akunja, Kumadzulo nthawi zambiri zimadabwitsa: chifukwa cha chitukuko cha matekinoloje, kusunga nyumba kumafuna kuchepa. Nchifukwa chiyani akudzipangira okha mavuto, ndiyeno amawagonjetsa molimba mtima ngati mavuto onse a pakhomo angathe kuthetsedwa mwa kugwiritsa ntchito mabatani angapo?
Mulimonsemo, ngakhale okwatirana akakhala ndi nthawi yodziwana, kupita kukachezera, kuti adziwane ndi achibale ndi abwenzi - pafupi chaka chimodzi chitatha, iwo adzikonzekera ku zinthu zatsopano. Ndipo mfundoyi siinali yolepheretsa chinenero (onse akatswiri amanena kuti uwu ndi vuto laling'ono kwambiri lotheka), koma mdziko losiyana, ndi malamulo osiyana, miyambo, zizoloŵezi, chiyero cha moyo. Izi ndizovuta zosayembekezereka, muyenera kungoyembekezera, osati kuthamanga mopitirira muyeso, ndipo musafulumize kukatenga sutikesi yanu yosayimilira komanso yanyumba yanu, pomwe anthu ambiri obwera mosaleza mtima achita. Ngakhale dziko likuwonekera pafupi ndi Ukraine - n'zosatheka kuchita popanda nthawi yokhazikika. Evgenia, yemwe anakwatira ku Poland, adandiuza kuti miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yoyambirira inali yosavuta kupirira: Sindinkadziwa zomwe ndikuchita pano ndi kumene ndingapite. Komano, zodabwitsa, ndinathandizidwa ndi achibale ndi abwenzi atsopano - ku Poland iwo amachitira bwino ndi a Ukrainians, kotero iwo anandiuza mokoma mtima ndi ine.
Poyang'ana kuti ndi mavuto angati omwe akuyang'ana mwatcheru maukwati a chikhalidwe, sitidali Europe momwe ife tikufunira kuwonekera. Kotero_ife timakopeka mosakayika. Mwinamwake, pakapita nthawi, pamene vutoli latha, ndipo kuphatikizana kwakukulu sikudzachitika pafupipafupi, koma m'maganizo, tidzakhoza kuonana osati alendo, koma osangalatsa komanso anthu abwino. Chifukwa chizolowezi chikuwonetsa kuti zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zambiri ndizokwatirana kumene kusiyana pakati pa anthu okwatirana sikukwera pa mphindi imodzi ndipo sichikuwoneka pa mipata yonseyo. Koma mu nkhani iyi, mwinamwake, sikungakhale kwanzeru kulankhula za chikhalidwe: ndi moyo basi.