Momwe mungakokerere mwamuna kuti athandize pakhomo

Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimachititsa kuti banja likhale mikangano, kukangana, kusokonekera komanso chifukwa cha kusudzulana konse ndi kukana kwa mwamuna kuthandiza pakhomo. Monga lamulo, amuna akulengeza kuti izi ndizo ntchito za akazi okha: kusunga dongosolo m'nyumba, kupanga chisokonezo. Amuna amatchula kuti iwo ndi opeza, kuti amapeza ndalama. Kubwera kuchokera kuntchito, amuna amakhala patsogolo pa TV ndi nyuzipepala pokonzekera chakudya chamadzulo. Zomwe zili zofanana, sichoncho? Koma ndi masiku omwe amayi anali kukhala kunyumba ndikuchita nawo ulimi komanso kulera ana. Akazi amagwiranso ntchito, amalandira ndalama, ndipo madzulo amatha kugwira ntchito yovuta tsiku ndi tsiku, ayenera kuphika chakudya ndi kuyeretsa nyumbayo. Mu chigamulo cha moyo, ndikofunikira koti mwamuna ndi mkazi azithandizira panyumba. Ndipo pano amayi ambiri amakumana ndi mavuto aakulu ndi kukana kwa amuna.
Azimayi ambiri amalakwitsa kale zaka zoyambirira za moyo waukwati, popanda kukhudza mwamunayo kuthandiza pakhomo. Azimayiwa akuyesera kukhala amayi abwino, kuti apulumutse mwamuna wake ku mavuto a zachuma, kuti athetse zonse. Koma pali ana, ntchito zina zowonjezera ndipo amayi amasiya kulimbana ndi chirichonse. Ndipo mwamunayo wayamba kale kuwonongeka ndipo amakana kuthandiza pakhomo. Ngakhale kuti banja lanu liri laling'ono, pomwe chikondi ndi chilakolako sizing'onozing'ono, n'zosavuta kuti mukambirane ndi mwamuna wanu. Kuyambira pachiyambi cha moyo wanu waukwati, chititsani kuti mulemekeze ntchito yanu ndikugawana maudindo apanyumba. Ukwati wanu ndi mgwirizano wofanana wa anthu awiri achikondi. Ndipo kufanana sikuyenera kuwonetsedwanso osati kupanga ndalama zokha, koma ndikugwiritsanso ntchito mphamvu ndi nthawi m'nyumba ndi moyo wanu. Kambiranani za amene akufuna kuchita ntchito zapakhomo. Ndani amadziwa, mwinamwake mwamuna wanu wakhala akulota kukhala mtsogoleri wa malo odyera akuluakulu ndipo ali ndi matalidwe odyera. Aloleni awawonetse. Chotsani ziwonetsero kuti izi ndizo maudindo okhaokha.

Nthawi zonse amanyoza ndi madandaulo simungapeze thandizo kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake. Ingokhala wokwiya komanso wamantha. Mwamuna adzayankha ndi kukana zopempha zanu zonse, ayambe kumangotha ​​ntchito ndikuyesera kukhala pakhomo, ndiko kuti, nthawi zonse amanyozedwa ndi kukakamizidwa kuchita chinachake.

Amuna ambiri amakono amawonongedwa ndi kuleredwa kwa amayi awo. Koma ndi ulesi womwe umapezeka ndi kotheka ndipo nkofunika kulimbana. Lolani mwamuna wanu kuti asawononge chakudya chamadzulo, kutsuka mbale, kutsuka ndi kuvala malaya ngati zoona ndithu. Ndipo pophunzitsa ana anu, kumbukirani mavuto anu ndi mwamuna wanu, phunzitsani ndi kumuthandiza mwana wanu ali wamng'ono.

Munthu wopasuka adzagona patsogolo pa TV popanda chikumbumtima, ponena zakuti watopa, ndipo iwe udzayenda ngati gologolo mu gudumu. Mwinamwake ife tiri ndi mlandu pa izi?

Musawope kukhala ofooka. Onetsani kuti simungathe kupirira popanda mwamuna. Ndipo mulole kuti mudziwe nokha momwe mungasinthire babu yonyezimira, kuti mukhomere msomali. Lolani mwamuna wanu asadziwe za izi. Amuna amakonda kusonyeza kuti ali apamwamba komanso ofunika. Choncho gwiritsani ntchito izi. Musayesere kukhala mayi wachitsulo ndi mkazi wodziimira, wamphamvu. Nthawi zonse muzitamanda mwamuna wanu chifukwa cha thandizo lililonse pakhomo. Musati muziyamika, chitani nthawi zonse momwe mungathere komanso momwe mungathere. Alimbikitseni zoyesayesa za mwamuna wake, ngakhale asasambe mbale monga momwe mumakonda. Kutsutsidwa kulikonse kumapha chikhumbo chochita chinachake nthawi yotsatira.

Lolani munthuyo akhale mwamuna. Chifukwa nthawi zambiri timawononga amuna athu. Funsani mwamuna wanu kuti akuthandizeni ndikukhulupirirani kuti akuthandizeni. Kukhulupirira kotere kwa mwamuna wanu kudzabwezeretsedwa kwa inu makumi khumi. Kuyambira tsopano, simusowa kutaya mphamvu ndi mphamvu pokopa mwamuna wanu kuti azithandiza panyumba.