Nthawi zambiri zimakhala kuti kuntchito mumazunguliridwa ndi anthu. Chabwino, kodi si malotowo a mkazi aliyense - kodi alipo wina yemwe angamveke naye, ndi ndani yemwe angakonde ndi amene angakonde? Koma mwatsoka, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti mkazi akhale ndi gulu lachimuna kuti asamadziderere kwambiri komanso kuti asamakhulupirire za mwayi wapamwamba. Ngati mukufuna kupeza ntchito pamalo oterowo, khalani okonzeka kusewera ndi malamulo.
Kotero, inu munayamba kugwira ntchito pamalo atsopano ndipo tsiku loyamba inu mukuwona kuti anzanu akuyang'ana mwachidwi mwatsogolere, ndipo akuyesetsa kuti awathandize. Poyamba, chidwi choterechi chimakondwera, koma pakapita kanthawi, chimayamba kukwiyitsa ndikukhala ndi nkhawa. Tidzakambirana nthawi imodzi, kwa osungulumwa, omwe akufunafuna bwenzi lomanga nalo banja, mizereyi siigwira ntchito. Koma ngati muli azimayi ambiri omwe ali ndi amuna kapena abwenzi okhazikika, chidwi chawo cha anzanu chidzakhala posachedwa, makamaka pamene antchito angapo ayamba mwakhama kufunafuna malo anu. Kwa ntchito palibe nthawi, chifukwa nthawi zonse mumasokonezeka ndi zokambirana, zomwe zimakhala zovuta pamitu. Ndipo kawirikawiri izi zimachitika ngakhale anzako ali ndi akazi kapena zolakwa zosatha ndipo palibe chomwe chidzasinthe pamoyo wawo. Mwachidule, iwo okha, pafupifupi opanda chifuniro chawo, adasokonezeka ndi zomwe zikuchitika masiku ano. Ziribe kanthu kaya ndinu mkazi wokongola, coquette kapena mkazi wamanyazi, chofunika kwambiri, ndiye kuti ndiwe wokhawokha mu timu.
Amuna ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mkazi sangathe kukhala katswiri wapamwamba ndikupanga zisankho. Ndipo musadabwe ngati mukumva kuti ntchito zopindulitsa zikuchoka m'manja mwanu, nthawi zonse mumapatsidwa ntchito zowonjezera, misonkhano yayikulu ikuyesera kugwira popanda inu. Zili zomvetsa chisoni, koma zoona ndizo-mu gulu la mwamuna, mkazi ayenera kutsimikizira kuti ali ndi luso pamphindi iliyonse. Choncho muyenera kukonzekera vuto lalikulu lopulumuka, nthawi zambiri popanda malamulo. Zochita zanu zamakono zidzakwiyitsa amunawo ndi kuvulaza maganizo awo okhudzidwa okha. Theka lathu lolimba kwambiri ndi losavuta kugwirizanitsa ndi kupambana kwa munthu wina kusiyana ndi kugonjetsedwa ndi "mkazi wokongola wopusa". Chifukwa chake, amai ambiri, kamodzi mu gulu la amuna, amayamba kumva ngati winawake ngati spy, ataponyedwa m'dera la adani. Musati mutenge mkhalidwewu mochititsa chidwi, ndipo komatu kusamala sikungakhale kosasangalatsa.
Musayambe kukambirana kwa nthawi yaitali ndi abwenzi anu pa foni ya ntchito, pofotokoza msonkhano wa dzulo kapena kukangana ndi mwamuna wake. Tawonani kuti amuna ali ochepa kuposa azimayi, ndipo amakonda kungokamba. Mwachidziwikire, ndibwino kusunga moyo wanu ndi zisindikizo zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ndipo mochulukirapo, musakambirane, ngakhale ndi chinsinsi, ndi anzako ena ubwino ndi zopweteka za ena: chiyanjano cha amuna chidzapitirirabe, ndipo mawu anu adzafalitsidwa nthawi yomweyo pamtunda, ndipo, mwinamwake, mu mawonekedwe osokonezeka.
Polimbana ndi chibwenzi chokhwima, yesetsani kuti musamangopitirira kwambiri - kuti mukhale ngati "chibwenzi chanu": Amuna amodzi sakuzindikira, kotero simungalemekezedwe motere. Khalani womasuka kuti muzitsindika za chikazi chanu ndi zofooka pamene, mukuti, muyenera kusuntha tebulo kapena kutsegula chithunzithunzi chopanikizana. Koma kukonza kukonza pamaso pa aliyense kapena kutchula kufooka kwa "masiku ovuta" sikuvomerezeka. Sikofunika kufunsa nthawi zambiri. Anzako amatha kunjenjemera kwa nthawi yaitali.
Zobvala zoyera, zopanga zofunikira zapadera Monga zovala za tsiku ndi tsiku, zowonjezera, zofunikirako ziyenera kuperekedwa kwa kachitidwe kakang'ono kazamalonda. Kusiyanitsa pamagulu ndi mavalidwe olimba ndi mathalauza, maketi achifupi, ndizo zonse zomwe zimatsindika za kugonana kwanu. Chofunika kwambiri kwa inu tsopano ndizochita bwino komanso molondola: tsitsi loyera, maonekedwe okongola, mu mtundu wa pastel, fungo losangalatsa koma losalimba la mafuta onunkhira.
Pitirizani kuntchito kwanu kuti mukhale oyera komanso oyenera.