Pamene achinyamata akubwera, ana ayamba kupeza njira yawo pamoyo. Chifukwa cha kukula, njira zatsopano zowonera dziko lapansi, achinyamata ena amakhala ndi moyo wotanganidwa, ndipo ena - osangalatsa. Koma pa nthawi yoyamba ndi yachiwiri, iyenera kukhala yosiyana ndi chinthu chochititsa chidwi ndi chothandiza, kuti mwanayo asayambe kuimirira.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti mwana wachinyamata ali ndi zovuta zambiri zomwe zingasokoneze psyche yake. Wachinyamata angakhale ndi mavuto oyankhulana ndi anzawo, chilakolako chidzawoneka ngati omwe ali pafupi naye, ngakhale izi siziri zitsanzo zoposa za anthu. Moyo wa mwana wachinyamata nthawi zambiri umadzazidwa ndi kusamvetsetsana ndi chikhumbo cholowa m'gulu. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ngati simukusiyana ndi zomwe zikufunikira komanso zosangalatsa, ndiye kuti mtsikana kapena chibwenzi angatseke mwa iwo okha kapena apite molakwika. Koma momwe mungasinthire moyo wachinyamatayo, kotero kuti iye anali ndi chidwi kwenikweni?
Kuti mumvetsetse momwe mungasinthire moyo wa achinyamata, muyenera kudziwa chomwe akutsatira ndi zomwe akufuna. Musamapangitse kuti maloto anu ndi maloto anu asinthe. Kumbukirani kuti zosangalatsa simukuziganizira nthawi zonse. Choncho, m'pofunikira kusankha ntchito zomwe zimagwirizana ndi khalidwe lake komanso maganizo ake. Zoonadi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti kuli koyenera kufotokoza chilakolako cha mwana kuti alankhule ndi umunthu wokayikira ndi kumwa mowa. Kuchokera pa izi ndipo nkofunika kuteteza mwanayo mothandizidwa ndi zinthu zosangalatsa.
Masewera Osewera
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zingasokoneze moyo, ndi masewero owonetsera. Tsopano mumzinda uli wonse muli magulu omwe anthu omwe amafuna kusewera masewera osiyanasiyana ndi masewera a masewera amasonkhana. Anyamata amasankha awo enieni, amatha kukonza luso lawo ndi luso lawo, ndiyeno "kusewera" pa "ma rolls". Choncho, ngati wachinyamata akusewera masewera ena, mungamuitane kuti alowe nawo mu "ma rolls". Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana yosewera masewera. Nthawi zina, anyamata amasonkhana pamodzi, mbuyeyo amawerenga zochitika zinazake, ndipo aliyense amayankha momwe angakhalire, pamene amamvetsera zomwe ali nazo. Kuchokera ku mayankho awa (zochita) kuti chitukuko cha chiwembu chikudalira. Pali mtundu wina wa "rolyok". Pankhaniyi, anthu samangonena, amasonyezanso. Anyamata amadula zovala zawo, amapanga zida, ndiyeno amapita ku chomwe chimatchedwa "Inruzka" ndi "kusewera" malembawo. Ndipotu zosangalatsa zoterezi n'zochititsa chidwi komanso zothandiza. Mfundo yakuti anyamata akuphunzira kulenga chinachake, amasewera, ndikudziwonetsera okha ngati ochita masewera, nthawi zambiri amaphunzira masewera osiyanasiyana.
Ku gulu lomweli lingatchulidwe ndi kusewera nawo masewero a anime, mafilimu ndi mndandanda. Uthenga woterewu ukukhala wotchuka kwambiri. Choncho, ngati wachinyamata akufuna zosangalatsa zoterezi, chikhumbo chake chiyenera kuthandizidwa.
Makanema a owonetsera
Zosangalatsa zoterezi ndizokonzanso. Pankhaniyi, anthu amasonkhana m'magulu. Gulu lirilonse "limenya" nthawi inayake. Malingana ndi nthawi yomwe amasankhidwa, zovalazo zimasulidwa, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi izo, zida ndi yunifolomu zimapangidwa. Kawirikawiri, owonetsa machitidwewo amasankha zaka zapakati pazaka za m'ma 500. Ngati wachinyamata amakhala membala wa gululi, samangophunzira zinthu zambiri zothandiza. M'mabungwe oterewa mulidi ndondomeko yapadera ya mphunzitsi ndipo achinyamata amaphunzitsidwa kulemekeza amayi, kuthekera kwawo kudziyimirira okha ndi kuteteza akazi.
Inde, mukhoza kuchepetsa zosangalatsa ndi zinthu zosavuta: kuvina, masewera m'maseĊµera a masewera, magulu a zamasewera, masewera. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mnyamatayo anali ndi chidwi ndipo ankafuna kutenga mbali. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti sakufuna kuchita zomwe mumaganiza, musataye mtima. Mungofunika kuyang'anitsitsa mwanayo ndiye kuti mumvetsetsa zomwe akufuna.