Izi zikhoza kutsimikiziridwa ndi malingaliro athu pa chikhumbo cha mzimayi kuti adziganize yekha pamoyo, kuti asankhe yekha kukhala ndi moyo.
Kotero, ndi ndani iye, mkazi wa Russia wamakono? Kodi mphamvu ya amayi ndi amayi ndi yamphamvu bwanji ku Russia masiku ano?
Nazi zina mwazinthu zowonjezereka zokhuza amai: ayenera kukhala pakhomo ndi ana ndi kuphika msuzi; Mkazi alibe chidziwitso cha mtsogoleri; kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse sikuthandiza kulera ana, kusunga nyumba; Ndale si bizinesi ya mkazi.
Udindo wa amayi mmudzi umayesedwa ndi ziwiri zoyenera: choyamba, ndizowerengero za boma. Chachiwiri, izi ndizomwe zimachitika m'mabungwe a anthu.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 2002, chiwerengero cha akazi ku Russia mwa magawo atatu ndi 53.5%. Mwa iwo, 63% akugwira ntchito akazi, ndipo ndi 49% okha a amuna ogwira ntchito. Kodi maumboni awa amatipatsa chiyani? Akazi ogwira ntchito apamwamba amene ali pantchito yawo ali ndi mwayi wokhala opanda ana monga amayi omwe poyamba adzipereka kunyumba. Malingana ndi chiwerengero cha chiwerengero, zaka zambiri za kubadwa kwa mwana woyamba ndi "careerists" ndi zaka 29, komanso kwa amayi - amayi - zaka 24.
Zidzakhala zosangalatsa kuzindikira kuti ku Russia chiŵerengero cha amayi omwe ali ndi digiri, ndipo awa ndi aphunzitsi, asayansi, opitirira kuposa chiwerengero cha dziko lapansi.
Ndipo ichi si malire. Monga akunena, palibe malire kwa ungwiro!
Malinga ndi Chigamulo cha Purezidenti wa Russian Federation No. 337 cha 04.03.1993 "Pazofunika kwambiri pa ndondomeko ya boma pa Akazi," ndikofunikira kuonetsetsa kuti kutenga nawo mbali pakati pa amai ndi ntchito zapadera komanso ntchito za akuluakulu a boma. Pofuna kukhazikitsa lamuloli, makomiti ndi makomiti a chitetezo cha amayi, ana ndi amayi onse adakhazikitsidwa m'magulu onse a boma ku Russia, kuphatikizapo m'madera omwe akukhalamo. Mu 1997, Komiti ya Kupititsa patsogolo Akazi inakhazikitsidwa. Komabe, mwatsoka, mu 2004 zatha. Komabe, amayi a ku Russia adapeza ndikutenga nawo mpata wokhala nawo mbali mu ndale za dzikoli ndikugwira ntchito m'magulu a anthu pambali ndi amuna.
Pali mndandanda wa malamulo ovomerezeka a boma la Russian Federation omwe amalimbikitsa ufulu wa amayi ku Russia masiku ano: National Plan of Action for Kupititsa patsogolo Akazi ndi Kupititsa patsogolo Udindo Wawo mu Sosaiti, yemvomerezedwa ndi Chigamulo No. 1032 wa Boma la Russian Federation la August 29, 1996; Lingaliro la kupita patsogolo kwa akazi ku Russian Federation, lovomerezedwa ndi Boma la Russian Federation la 8 January 1996 No. 6; Lamulo Lachigawo la 15.11.1997 "Pazochitika za boma"; Lingaliro la kukhazikitsa malamulo kuonetsetsa ufulu wofanana ndi mwayi wofanana kwa amuna ndi akazi, ovomerezedwa mu 1997; Chiwerengero cha chiwerengero cha vuto la thandizo la amayi, lofalitsidwa monga cholembera ku Lamulo la Ministry of Labor and Social Development la Russian Federation la 10 July 1997 No. 40.
Pankhani ya amayi mu Russia masiku ano, nkofunika kutsimikizira kuti kale, mu Soviet Union, udindo wa amayi amayi mu nthawi imeneyo unali waukulu kwambiri. Ndipo ngakhale mitu ya amayiyi sinaperekedwe apo, ulamuliro wake unkagwiridwa ndi ntchito yogwedeza yogwira ntchito.
Mayi ndi amayi mu dziko la Russia masiku ano sizongoganizira za chikhalidwe cha anthu, ndi chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe chosagwirizana kwambiri ndi lingaliro loti "chikhalidwe", zomwe zimaphunziridwa ndikuwonetseratu za mkazi wa m'zaka za m'ma 2000 ndi masiku ano vuto lalikulu la chikhalidwe.
Panthawi imeneyi ya chitukuko cha kulengedwa kwa dziko la Russia masiku ano, maonekedwe a ana, monga tawonera kale, akugwera pa msinkhu wochepa, nthawi zambiri amai amakonda "khitchini" ya ntchito.
Mu chidziwitso cha amai mpaka lero, pali zikhalidwe zikuluzikulu ziwiri. Chimodzi mwa izo ndizochita masewero olimbirana. Ndipo wina, monga mwinamwake mukuganiza kale, ndi dongosolo ndi kusungirako nyumba, kubadwa ndi kulera ana. Mkazi aliyense amapeza njira zake zokha kudzizindikiritsa pamoyo wake.
Funso lovuta ndilo - ndilovuta kwambiri: kumanga ntchito kapena kukhala mayi wabwino, mkazi wabwino? Kubadwa kwa ana sikuwoneka kovuta kwambiri kwa amayi ambiri lerolino. Iwo sakufuna njira zophweka.
Koma, komabe pali ena omwe ali okonzeka kusiya ntchito zonse, zopindulitsa, pa guwa la banja losangalala ndi kupambana. Pamene akunena kuti "Kaisara Kaisara". Pamapeto pake, moyo wa banja la makolo ake umathandiza kwambiri poleredwa ndi mtsikana. Ngakhale ali aang'ono, atsikana achichepere amapangidwa malingaliro ndi malingaliro onena za banja lawo la mtsogolo, monga momwe akulingalira.
Nanga bwanji ngati msungwana wachinyumba akusiya zinthu zosafunika? Ndani angamuthandize ndi kusankha? Kawirikawiri, achinyamatawa amapanga chithunzi cholakwika cha lingaliro la "banja" monga choncho, nthawi zambiri pamakhala zochitika zonyansa pazifukwa izi. Atsikana oterewa amawopsya. Iwo amaganiza kuti sangathe kupereka mwanayo ndi chisamaliro chonse ndi chikondi. Koma izi ndizosiyana ndi lamulo. Chibadwa cha amayi chimaphatikizidwa ndi mkazi mwa chikhalidwe chokha. Ndipo palibe ambiri omwe alibe kapena osakwanira mokwanira.
Pali amayi omwe amaopa mimba chifukwa chakuti akhoza kuwononga thanzi lawo, maonekedwe awo. Koma zoona zimalankhula zokha. Mimba yokha imamuthandiza mkazi, kumupanga chithunzi chokakamiza pamaso pa anthu, komanso kwa munthu wofunika kwambiri pamoyo wake - mwamuna yemwe ali wokonzeka kuvala wokondedwa wake.
Kukambirana mwachidule zonsezi, titha kunena chinthu chimodzi. Mu Russia wamakono kwa mkazi wamakono pali njira zambiri zomwe mungapangire moyo wanu payekha, mwachitsanzo. Kwa okwatirana, pali mitu yachikazi ndi madongosolo ambiri othandizira mabanja achichepere. Kwa amayi amalonda, zitseko zonse kuntchito zonse zaluso zimatsegulidwa.
Chisankho ndi chanu!