Mwana wodziimira yekha ndilo cholinga chabwino chokhala kholo. Koma kodi pali liti pakati pa chanzeru kuthandiza ndi kupondereza zokhumba zothandiza? Akatswiri a maganizo a ana amalimbikitsa kulumikiza ku maxikiti atatu ophweka pakalera mwanayo.
Khwerero imodzi ndi ufulu womveka wosankha. Ngati phokoso likuyesera kumangiriza lace kapena supuni mu mbale - musachedwe kupulumutsa. Kulongosola kwa m "modzi wa zochitika zowonongeka, zosasokoneza ndi chithandizo chosayembekezereka chidzabweretsa phindu lalikulu.
Khwerero 2 ndi kulimbikitsa cholinga. Kodi mwanayo amasonyeza chidwi chophika kapena kutsuka mbale? Ndizomveka kutamanda njira yake ndikupereka apronti ya "othandizira kukhitchini". Choncho mwanayo adzaona kufunika kwa zochita zake ndipo adzatha kuzindikira zomwe akufunikira.
Khwerero 3 ndi njira ina. Ngakhale zoletsedwa zingakhale zothandiza: kukana kumayenera zifukwa zomveka. Ngakhalenso bwino, ngati ikutsatiridwa ndi zomwe mungalole kuchita. Ngati mwanayo sakufuna kuvala nsapato kuti ayende, musamangodzipangira nokha, koma mobwezera mumupatse kusankha nsapato zomwe akufuna. Ufulu "woterewu" umamuthandiza mwanayo kulingalira mozama ndikupanga zosankha yekha.