Kawirikawiri, ubale wa makolo ndi ana a msinkhu wa pulayimale umayamba mogwirizana ndi ndondomeko yotsatirayi: poyamba mwana alibe chitsanzo china chokha kupatula achikulire a m'banja, choncho amafuna kuwatsanzira, kukondweretsa atate, amayi, agogo, agogo ake ... Choyamba, anaphunzira ndakatulo ndi nyimbo, nthano. Pamene mwanayo akupita ku sukulu, zonse zikuwoneka bwino.
Kenaka sukulu imayamba, ndipo chifukwa chake, mavuto oyambirira: poyamba mawindo ndi zolembera sizikutuluka, ndiye nambala siziwonjezera, zambiri-zambiri ... Ndipo tsopano makolo amayamba kumva kuti "mwana wawo wamkazi" ndi mwana wamba, ndipo ali ndi mphamvu zambiri ndipo, mwa njira, osati khalidwe lapadera. Bambo ndi amayi amasinthasintha, kapena ngakhale palimodzi, kuti akweze "mwana wawo" womenyana ndi ana, nthawizina kuti amweke ndodo yomwe imalepheretsa ubwenzi wake wauzimu ndi iye, umene ukhoza kutayika kwamuyaya.
Paunyamata, pali zochepa zomwe zingasinthidwe. Ndiyeno aliyense akudabwa: Amati, banja, likuwoneka kuti ndilobwino, chifukwa chiyani limakula ngati "lovuta"? Ndiyeno munthu amakula, ndipo ife sitimudziwa iye, chotero amakhala wodabwitsa, wosamvetsetseka ....
Koma zonsezi zikanatha kupewedwa, ngati makolo okha, pamene mwana wawo adakali pazinyalala, sanapeze zovuta kukumba ntchito mu zolemba za aphunzitsi apamwamba omwe atha kuthetsa vuto la msinkhu wautali, ndi ena onse ponena za chitukuko chokwanira cha umunthu !! !!
Koma ndinu makolo olondola. Komanso, mwapeza malangizo abwino kwa makolo omwe angakuthandizeni kuthetsa mavuto okhudza chitukuko cha mwana wanu ngakhale asanakhalepo.
Choncho , loyamba :
- Gwiritsani ntchito DATA YOFUNIKA MUNTHU WONSE (NDI MWANA WANU WINA) AKADZIKIRA KU DZIKO LINO NDI MALANGIZO OTHANDIZA. ZIMENE ZILI MFUNDO - MUSASANKHE.
Koma ndiwe amene wapatsidwa udindo wozindikiritsa ndikukulitsa maluso onse obisika a mwana wako, zomwe angafunikire pokwaniritsa ntchito yake.
Bungwe lachiwiri :
- TENGANI MWANA WANU MCHIMENE AMENE ALI.
Kodi mungakonde kuti mwana wake azipita ku gulu la ballet, ndipo amatsutsa? Sonny ali ndi vuto amaphunzira quatrains, ndipo Vanya woyandikana naye (Kolya, Petya) amawerenga "Borodino" pamtima?
Chabwino, lolani izo zikhale!
Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti uyu ndi mwana wanu. Wokonda kwambiri, wobadwa kwambiri. Ndipo ngati chinachake sichimamugwirira ntchito, ndiye chidzakhala chosiyana. Ndipo zikutanthauza kuti aliyense woyandikana naye adzakhala ndi nsanje.
Ndipo apa izo ziri za zokha
Chachitatu:
- MUSAKHULUPIRE KUKHULUPIRIRA CHIKHULUPIRIRO CHA MWANA.
Kawirikawiri pa zokambirana za maphunziro, makolo amagwiritsa ntchito mawu omwe akukonzekera kuti munthu akulephereka. Nazi izi:
- Kodi n'zovuta kukumbukira ...
- Ndinakuuzani nthawi zikwi ...
- ndiwe wofanana ndi ...
- Ndisiye ndekha, ndilibe nthawi ...
- mumakhala ...
- chifukwa chiyani Lena (Katya, Vasya, ndi zina zotero) ali monga chonchi, koma iwe si ...
- mukuganiza bwanji ...
- ndibwereza kangati ... Ngati simukukondwera ndi khalidwe la mwanayo, bwino kunena kuti: "Sindinali kuyembekezera kuti mwana wabwino woteroyo achite choipa chotere", "zochita zanu zandikwiyitsa kwambiri". Kotero, iwe umatsutsa kokha kokha, ndipo mwanayo, mwa njira zonse, amayesera kukonza khalidwe lake ndipo sakusakhumudwitse iwe. Ndipo yesetsani kulankhula nthawi zambiri kwa mwana wa zaka zapulayimale:- Ndili bwino bwanji kuti ndili ndi iwe!
- ndimakukondani kwambiri ...
- popanda inu sindikanatha kuyang'anira ...
- zikomo ...
- Ndiwe wabwino kwa ine ... - ndiwe wodalirika (wokongola, ndi zina zotero)Koma tsopano chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kupitirira. Popanda kutero, mungathe kulimbikitsa munthu wina akukula yekha "I", kuti amangosiya kuwona ena! Pa zaka za msinkhu wa msinkhu, izi sizidzawonekeratu (kunyumba, kumalo ake, iye adzakhala wachikondi, mu sukulu - ali osiyana, koma adakali pang'onopang'ono poyang'anitsitsa ndi aphunzitsi). Koma sukuluyi idzayamba kukangana, ndipo ngakhale, chifukwa mwana wanu amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuzinthu zonse zikuchitika monga momwe akufunira!
Kotero kuti izi sizichitika, apa pali malangizo anu :
Ndi msinkhu wabwino kwambiri, limbitsani mwanayo kuti azilemekeza chilengedwe. PHUNZITSANI UFUMU WAKE KWA ENA, KUKHALA PAMODZI, UKHALIDWE. Ndipo kumbukirani: malo osasuka komanso osangalala m'banja ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuti mwana wanu wachinyamatayu akule bwino.
Tsopano inu mukudziwa zonse zokhudza malangizo kwa makolo pakuleredwa kwa ana a msinkhu wa sukulu ya pulayimale ndi ndondomeko zomwe zingathandize kukhazikitsa ubale wogwirizana pakati pa makolo ndi ana. Mulimonse momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito njira, zonse zidzakhala zopanda phindu ngati nyumba ya kholo ilibe mtendere ndi banja. Kulumbira, kufuula, makolo amasiya udindo wawo pamaso pa mwanayo, yemwe adzakhale wovuta kwambiri kuti abwerenso pambuyo pake. Choncho, kukukondani, mtendere ndi kutentha, tikuyembekeza kuti mutenga malangizo kwa makolo!