M'dziko lamakono pali kusintha kofulumira kotero kuti nthawi zina timataya chifukwa chakuti njira yopezeka moyo imaleka kupeza kumvetsetsa pakati pa ena. Chovuta kwambiri ndi pamene kusintha kumeneku kumakhudza zofunika pamoyo.
Izi zimaphatikizapo, mwachitsanzo, kubadwa kwa mwana. Masiku ano, maganizo a anthu a ku Russia kwa amayi omwe ali ndi pakati adasinthika kwakukulu, monga, ndithudi, kudziko lonse lapansi. Azimayi ochuluka akusankha zolinga za moyo wosiyana kusiyana ndi kulera ana. Iwo amapanga ntchito, amachita masewera ovuta pofuna zosangalatsa zawo, amasangalala ndi kuyenda. Ana omwe ali pa chithunzithunzi cha dziko lapansi nthawi zambiri amakhala osalemetsa, omwe amalepheretsa kusangalala ndi moyo.Miyambo ya hedonism, kudzikonda ndi kudzikonda sizinathetse mantha ena. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, chikhumbo cha chisangalalo cha munthu ndi chimwemwe, osati chifukwa cha kulengedwa kwa banja lamphamvu, chakhala chokongola pakati pa mibadwo yambiri ya achinyamata. Pochepetsa ubwino wa mwana pamoyo wa mkazi, kulekana kwa banja lachinyamata ndi mibadwo yakale kumakhudzanso. Chodabwitsa kwambiri, izi zingawonekere, koma zikhalidwe zomwe okalamba amalemekezedwa ndi kuzilemekeza maganizo awo, kukhala nawo nthawi zonse, kubadwa kwa ana kumakhalabe kofunika kwambiri. Zokwanira kutembenukira ku China, kumene mgwirizano wamphamvu wa mibadwo umalimbikitsa kukula kwa anthu.
Zonsezi zinapangitsa kuti maganizo a anthu a Chirasha ku nkhani za mimba ndi kubereka zisinthe. Tsopano zochitika pamene mwana woyamba yemwe mkazi amatenga m'manja mwake si zachilendo ndi mwana wake. Iye sanaphunzire kusinthanitsa kapena kulankhulana ndi mwana wakhanda pa chitsanzo cha alongo ndi abale, choncho ayenera kuphunzira zofunikira za nzeru za amayi akuchokera m'mabuku, m'magazini ndi m'nkhani pa intaneti. Sizodziwikiratu kuti magazini ofunika kwambiri okhudza ana ndi mimba akhala otchuka kwambiri pakati pa amayi aang'ono: amaphunzira kuchokera kwa iwo zomwe amaphunzira kuchokera kwa achibale awo kapena makolo awo.
Ngakhale kusintha konse komwe kukuchitika pakati pa anthu pankhani za kubereka, mayiko ena akhoza kudana ndi ubale wa anthu a ku Russia kwa amayi oyembekezera. Ndondomeko iliyonse ili ndi mbali ziwiri, monga palibe choipa popanda zabwino. Amayi achichepere, kukhala ophunzira kwambiri komanso kukhala ndi mwayi wopeza mabuku pa nthawi yoyembekezera komanso kusamalira mwana, akhala akulimbikitsidwa. Tsopano amayi oyembekezera samatengedwa ngati munthu wodwala, monga kale. Mayi wamtsogolo amatha kuchita masewero olimbitsa thupi mpaka pamene atabadwa, amaphunzira momwe angayendetsere helikopita ngati supermodel Giselle Bundchen, kapena kuti apange nsapato zatsopano za ballet, monga Anastasia Volochkova. Izi ndizo kusintha kwakukulu pamalingaliro kwa amayi omwe ali ndi pakati, amalola amayi kuti asiye moyo wofunikira umene umakhala wofunikira kwa iwo. Komanso, ochita kafukufuku pa nkhani za amayi omwe ali ndi amayi ndi ana, omwe amagwira ntchito komanso zosangalatsa pa nthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba, zimakhudza kwambiri maganizo a mwana ndi mwana wake wosakhala ndi mwana kusiyana ndi kusakhala pakhomo. Inde, ngati amayi omwe am'tsogolo amadziwa momwe angadzipangire yekha ndi zinthu zokondweretsa komanso zosangalatsa komanso samadwala matenda. Tsopano mawu akuti "kutenga mimba" atha kukhala yofewa, yomwe ikugogomezera kuti mkazi wamakono, ngakhale kuti anayamba kubereka mochepa, nthawi zambiri amabwera kuchisangalalo ichi chokhala ndi makhalidwe abwino, azachuma komanso okonzekera maganizo.
Nkhani yosiyana, yomwe ili yofunikira kwa mayi aliyense wamtsogolo ndi malo ake, ndi nkhani yophunzitsa mwana wamtsogolo. Koma, ana omwe amagwira ntchito amayi nthawi zambiri amakhala "ana a agogo aakazi." Kumbali inanso, akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti kuwonjezeka kwa malo otchedwa socialization institutions kuli ndi phindu pa chitukuko cha mwanayo. Mwachidule, ngati mayiyo amagwira ntchito ndipo safuna kusiya zofuna zake mwana atabadwa, mwanayo amatha kulankhula ndi anthu ambiri kuyambira pachiyambi cha chitukuko. Amayi, abambo, agogo aakazi, aakazi ambiri m'zaka zoyambirira za moyo, ndiye magulu osiyanasiyana oyambirira okhudzana ndi chitukuko, mugs ndi kindergartens amalola mwanayo kuti azikhala bwino pakali pano. Podziwa zoyenera za moyo wokhutira ndi mkaka wa mayi, mwana wotero kuyambira nthawi yoberekera amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mitundu yosiyanasiyana yolankhulana ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zochitika, ali m'magulu osiyanasiyana olankhulana, motero amakhala ndi makhalidwe osiyanasiyana osiyanasiyana. Njira yake ya moyo komanso zoyenera za mayi zimabwera mogwirizana, chifukwa kuyambira ali mwana samangokhala chitsanzo chotsanzira, komanso maluso a moyo wathanzi.
N'zovuta kunena momwe momwe amamvera amayi oyembekezera komanso kubadwa kwa ana adzakula mtsogolomu. Mbiri imakhala ndi zitsanzo zambiri zosonyeza kuti chitukuko cha ubalewu chikukulirakulira. Miyambo ya banja imatsitsimutsidwa, kenako imachepetsanso kumbuyo. Choncho sitingaleke kuchita zochitika ngati zimenezi, pamene ana a ntchito zapamwamba, atadziwa moyo wawo komanso ubwana wawo, adzalenga mbadwo wa amayi ndi amuna omwe adalimbikitsa kwambiri kukhazikitsa banja lolimba kusiyana ndi makolo awo omwe ali ndi zosiyana kwambiri.