Kotero pamene mukakuonani mukunong'oneza: "Inde izi ziri zofanana ..." Choncho, timadana ndi mafano athu, omwe amakonda mbiri. Ndipo mwinamwake timadumphadumpha podziwa za momwe wojambula wotchuka wotchuka yemwe adawomberedwa ndi munthu wotentheka kapena wodzipereka wodzipereka ... Ngakhale titatenga mapulani a osati dziko lapansi, koma gulu laling'ono, mbiri yabwino imakhala ngati katundu wolemetsa. Choyamba, nthawi zonse mumangoganizira kwambiri, zomwe sizikulolani kuti mupumuke ndi kukhala nokha. Chachiwiri, nthawi zonse mumayenera kugwirizanitsa chikhomo chotengedwa ndi chithunzi. Khwerero kumanja kapena kumanzere - ndipo kupembedza kumalowetsedwa ndi kukhumudwa. Chachitatu, ngakhale ndi khama nthawi zonse, kutchuka kumapita - nthawi ndi nthawi. Anthu amaledzera ndi china chake ndikuiwala zomwe ankakonda kale. Ndipo mmalo mwa bata amakhala ndi mkwiyo wokwiya ...
Dzina loipa ndi kutchuka
Kodi n'zotheka kuyesa kutchuka ndikuchitira nsanje munthu - kodi ndi zabwino kapena zoipa kwa aliyense wa ife? Kumbali ina, pali vuto lokhalabe "pa dziko". Zikuwoneka kuti ngati chitukuko chanu chodziwika kokha ku bwalo laling'ono likuzindikira kuti mukuzungulira, mutenga maluwa ndi mchere wambiri? Tsoka, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala okonzeka ku tomato. Osati chifukwa chakuti munali kwinakwake opanda ungwiro, ndipo ngakhale osati mochuluka chifukwa anthu ozungulira ali ndi zosiyana kwambiri. Zimatanthawuza kuti munthu mwadzidzidzi amakhala chandamale. Kwa munthu wokhalapo wosauka komweko ndiye pali chilakolako choponya mkati mwake chinachake. Otsatira oterewa amatcha studio pawonetsero, koma kunena kwa anthu otchuka kuti: "Ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndiwe wamwano!" Kotero amamva kuti ndalama zanu ndizolimba komanso zodziimira. Izi, ndithudi, ndizovuta kwambiri kuposa zanu. Koma kuchokera mwadzidzidzi, osati maganizo okha, komanso kudzidalira kungadwale kwambiri.
PS Zomwezi sizikutanthauza kuti tikuyitanitsa kusungidwa mu selo losiyana - ndipo sizisonyeza! Timangotanthauza izi, kufunafuna chinthu china, nthawi zambiri timawona chithunzi chokhacho - koma osati zotsatira zenizeni za thupi. Kotero, mpaka mutalandira telefoni kuchokera ku Hollywood, ndi nthawi yoti muzidziyesa nokha ndi kudzidalira! Alemekezedwe chifukwa cha kutchuka kwawo ndi kaduka - kodi ndi zabwino kapena zoipa, mukuganiza?
Zoonadi, izi ndi zoipa komanso zonyansa
Chizolowezi chokonda. Palinso zotsatira zina za kutchuka. Pa chinthu chomwecho, chinthu ichi kawirikawiri chimakhala ngati mankhwala, kulenga kudalira. Ndipo kotero, "nyenyezi", omwe pafunso lirilonse likufuula molimba mtima, kuti akuvutika ndipo samapatsa moyo mwa okonda chidwi ndi abwenzi a atolankhani, pokhala ndi chidziwitso chodziwiratu, nthawi yomweyo amayamba kuwawa ndi kugwera mu kuvutika maganizo. Ndipotu, amafunikanso kutetezedwa kuti asadutse. Pafupi ndi momwe anthu okhala m'midzi akudandaula chifukwa cha phokoso ndi gulu la anthu, koma pofika ku tawuni ya chigawo cha chipululu, amamva bwino kwambiri ndipo amayesetsa kukhala ndi "mng'oma" wamba.
Kodi izi zimachitika bwanji? Chidwi chokwera pazochita chiri ndi makhalidwe angapo. Chiwerengero ndi chabwino kapena ayi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri sitingayang'ane bwinobwino zomwe munthu adadutsa komanso zomwe zinatayika panjira yopambana. Nthawi zina malingaliro awo odzikuza amathetsa mavuto a m'banja. Koma nthawi zambiri amakhalanso ndi moyo, kutengedwera kwa ana. Samalani! Mtundu wina wa umboni wa kufunika kwake ndi kutchuka sikungakhale zopambana, koma kumudziwa ndi "gulu la osankhika." "Matenda apamwamba" anthu odzikuza - matenda a mtima, zilonda komanso matenda ena. Powapewa, munthu ayenera kukumbukira kuti ntchito yokongola ndi yotchuka ya "mbuye wa chiwonongeko" ndi ntchito chabe.