Mbali yakunja ya oyambirira ikugwira maso ndipo ili pamenemo, munthu aliyense wodzilemekeza adzakuweruza. Tonsefe akazi ndi okongola, osamvetseka komanso okongola kwambiri mwa njira yawo ndipo timabisa moto wobisika ndi chithumwa chokhazikika. Koma kuti tiwulule bwino ndikugogomezera maluso athu, pali zida zankhondo zazikazi zomwe zingathetse "Cinderella" yodziwika bwino kuti ikhale mfumukazi, yapadera komanso yapadera. Choncho, mutu waukulu wa nkhaniyi udzakhala zovala zogonana. Mwachibadwa, kuti tikhale amodzi ndi zizindikiro za kugonana kwa nthawi zonse ndi anthu, timangofunikira zovala zobisika kwambiri. Si chinsinsi kuti mkazi ali ndi zolinga zake zokongola ndi zokopa, choyambirira, amayesetsa kukondweretsa ndi kugonjetsa munthu m'njira yake yosakumbukira, chithumwa, kukondana ndi chithumwa. Ndicho chifukwa chake zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kudziwa maganizo a amuna omwewa.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina wovomerezeka, imodzi mwa zovala zamasewera zochokera kumwamuna ndizoketi. Zovala zazing'ono zimaganiziridwa kuti ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunikira kwambiri pa zovala za amayi, pamene amapereka mpata woti aganizire za abambo amodzi mwa zida zankhondo zazikulu za mkazi aliyense - miyendo yokongola komanso yaying'ono. Komabe, chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi msuti wautali ndipo nthawi zonse ndidulidwa. Sikofunika kwambiri pamene malowa amapezeka: kutsogolo, mbali kapena kumbuyo. Pambuyo pake, chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu chovala ichi ndikuti nthawi zonse amavumbula miyendo yokongola ya mwiniwakeyo, akuseka ndi kuyambitsa fantasy yachimuna.
Kachiwiri, kugonana kolimba kunapangitsa kuti thupi likhale lolimba. Chikhalidwe choyenera cha chinthu ichi ndi mawonekedwe okongola a mwini wake, omwe adzagogomezera kudulidwa kwakukulu kwa kavalidwe.
Malo achitatu, malinga ndi momwe amuna amalingalira, ndizovala zoyenera. Sikofunika kwambiri ngati pali chodula pa izo kapena ayi. Koma ndi bwino kuti khosilo limasowa chifukwa limakopeka ndipo limakondweretsa mzimayi kuyang'ana kavalidwe, ndi pa bulasi, pazifukwa zina zimasokoneza. Malingana ndi kafukufuku waposachedwapa, mafilimu okhwima, owoneka bwino amachititsa mphepo yamkuntho yamamtima. Pachifukwa ichi, wolimba kwambiri ndi chitsanzo chabwino. Pankhani iyi, musaiwale za batani lakumtunda losasunthika, ndipo ngakhalenso bwino za awiri kapena atatu. Kuphatikizanso apo, amuna amasangalala kwambiri ndi kukhalapo kwa uta pa chovala ichi.
Komanso maginito a maonekedwe a amuna ndi akazi mu jeans wolimba. Amapereka kugonana kolimba kuti adziwe bwino kukongola ndi kukongola kwa chifaniziro cha akazi, kuwakakamiza kuti atembenuke miyendo yawo pa ubwino wodutsa mu jeans zolimbana ndi kugonana. Koma kawirikawiri, mathalauza sawakopeka makamaka ndi amuna, makamaka kuopseza kugonana kolimba kwa thalauza zakuda zakuda ndi mivi sikuwachititsa kusangalatsa.
Chifukwa chake, pamene zokambiranazo ndizovala zazimayi kwambiri, anthu amayamba kufotokozera zinthu monga latex. Inde, pamlingo winawake izi ndi zachigololo, koma mbali ina ya zovala za akazi zakhala zowopsya komanso zosagwirizana ndi malamulo, zomwe pazifukwa zina, amuna ambiri amagwirizanitsidwa ndi BDSM ndi mafakitale achiwerewere. Mwachibadwa, munthu sayenera kuzunza mochedwa, chifukwa zovala zooneka ngati izi zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, chovala choyera ndi chowala chiyenera kugwirizanitsidwa ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi makhalidwe oipa, komanso maonekedwe ake, monga maonekedwe ake, ngati kuti, "Mu mtengo, tiyeni tidzakhale pamodzi! ".
Zovala za amayi ziyenera kukhala zokongola komanso zophweka.
Zingakhale zodabwitsa komanso zokongola kuposa zovala zamadzulo. Kukhumudwa kwakukulu, hafu yokongola samavala kavalidwe ka madzulo, izi ndi mphepo yamkuntho ya moyo wathu. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ndi kuleza mtima koteroko, tikuyembekeza tsiku limene kudzatha kutuluka ndi tsitsi lokongola komanso madzulo kuti, madzulo, madzulo azisunga kwambiri kuwonetsera kukongola kwathu ndi kukongola kwathu. Ndipo panthawi yomwe mukukhamukira kumalo a chimbudzi cham'mawa ndi matsenga a madzulo timachokera kwa mkazi, mayi ndi ofesi ya amayi kupita ku mayi yemwe ali ndi kalata yaikulu.
Koma, mwatsoka, madzulo a matsenga sakudziwika tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo ndi ntchito yathu kukhala okongola ndi okongola tsiku lililonse m'moyo wathu wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Amakonda kwambiri m'chilimwe, panthawi imene nkhawa zimakhala kumbuyo, ndi kuzungulira dzuwa, zabwino komanso nthawi yambiri. M'nyengo ya chilimwe, kavalidwe katsulo kakang'ono kamasangalatsa kwambiri. Zokongola kwambiri zimakhala pamodzi ndi nsapato za chilimwe, makamaka popanda chidendene, chifukwa chimodzimodzi zovala zowonongeka zimakhala zokopa za akazi komanso kugonana.
Powonjezeranso za nsapato, mukhoza kunyamula nsapato ndi zidendene zapamwamba. Palibe chomwe chimakweza mkazi (zonse mwamakhalidwe ndi mwathupi) ngati chidendene. Kawirikawiri, ponena za nsapato, zofunika pa chidendene ndizo_ngakhale zoonda ndi zokongola, kapena ayi. Chinthu chachikulu chimene chiyenera kukumbukiridwa - nthawi iliyonse, musamangodzipangira munthu nsapato pa nsanja. Izi siziri zokondweretsa kwambiri kuti ngakhale amuna amagawana kwathunthu kukhumudwa kwa chinthu ichi cha nsapato. Pomwepo, nsapato pa nsanja yapamwamba idzalekerera. Zina mwa nsapato makamaka mungathe kusiyanitsa nsapato zapamwamba ndi nsapato zazikulu chitende. Ndipo chifukwa cha izo komanso chifukwa china chisankho chabwino chidzakhala chida chakuda.
Zonsezi, zowona, zimatanthawuza ku zida zakunja za zovala za amayi. Koma mkazi ayenera kukhala (komanso kuposa nthawi zonse) zogonana komanso zofunika pazomwe akakhala yekha ndi wokondedwa wake chovala ichi chiyenera kukhala chochepa. Mwa ichi, mwinamwake, pali lamulo lofunikira la chiwerewere kwa amuna - "zovala zochepa, zabwino." Kulankhula za zovala zapakati pazimayi, zogonana zosiyana, ndithudi, ndi kuyesa kwawo kosiyana. Azimayi amawakonda kwambiri ma ruche ndi maulendo, amuna amasiyana ndi minimalism ndi mtundu. Zopindulitsa kwambiri ndizofiira, zakuda ndi zoyera. Kuphatikizanso apo, kuwonjezera pa masituniketi ndi garters, mumangothamangitsa wokondedwa wanu misala.
Mayi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zokongola komanso zodabwitsa za chirengedwe ndi kumuthandiza kukhalabe ndi udindo wotere, wokondweretsa, wokongola komanso wokongola nthawi zonse amathandiza zinthu zomwe zatchulidwa m'nkhani ino.