Kutanthauzira kwa maloto: Kodi amayi amalota chiyani

Amayi. Makalata anayi ali ndi tanthauzo lalikulu kwa aliyense wa ife. Ichi ndi chiyambi chathu, wathu "I". Ikuimira moyo, nzeru, gwero la mphamvu, chitetezo. Maonekedwe a amayi mu maloto sangathe kukhala ndi tanthawuzo loipa, atiopseza ndi tsoka ndi tsoka, koma akhoza kuchenjeza za iwo kutipatsa ife mwayi wopewa zolakwitsa, kukonza zolakwitsa zapitazo.

Tiyeni tione zomwe amayi anga akulota

• kugona za amayi kumakhala chenjezo lokhudza ngozi yomwe ikuyandikira. Ndikoyenera kumvetsera mawu ake, nthawi zambiri m'maloto, kumene akunena chinachake, pali tanthauzo. Ngati adakhala chete, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuyembekezera mavuto m'mbali iliyonse ya moyo;
• ngati mu maloto, amayi anu amawoneka osayenera, odwala, ndiye inu mukuchenjezedwa za mavuto aakulu omwe akuyandikira. Kwenikweni, izi zikugwirizana ndi moyo waumwini, banja, achibale. Koma ndibwino kukhala osamala ndi kuntchito, monga ngati zolephera mu ntchito zidzakhala zofunikira, kusintha kwa kutayika kwa malo ogwira ntchito;
• maloto a mayi amene adamwalira - ngakhale kuti chithunzichi, ndi chizindikiro chabwino. Mukuyembekezera nkhani yosangalatsa, kukumana ndi anzanu akale. M'moyo wa banja, zonse zidzakhala zabwino, ngati palibe mavuto m'banja, ndiye kuti banja lidzalimba. Kwa atsikana, izi zikutanthauza chikondi, zomwe posachedwapa adzakumana nazo;
• maloto okhudza amayi ake, momwe amaseka, amakamba za zinthu zabwino m'tsogolo muno. Mukhoza kuyembekezera kuwonjezeka kwa ntchito, mwachitsanzo. Mu moyo wapadera, kwa atsikana omwe sali okwatiwa, posachedwa mudzapatsidwa dzanja ndi mtima, pezani chikondi chanu;
• pamene akukuitanani - amasonyeza kusowa thandizo kuchokera kwa anzanu ndi mabwenzi abwino;
• Ndinalota amayi anga akulira - kwa nthawi yaying'ono mavuto onse m'banja ndi kunyumba adzakukondani inu ndi okondedwa anu;
• pamene iwe ukudziwona wekha ngati waung'ono pafupi ndi amayi ako - chizindikiro chakuti iwe ulibe mphamvu zokwanira kuti upirire zovuta zomwe zachitika kale;
• Mayi wa munthu wina pafupi ndi inu akulozera chenjezo kuti mnzako amatha kukhala ndi vuto. Mudzafunsidwa kuthandizira kuthetsa mavuto omwe adayamba. Ngati kukana kupereka thandizo, zotsatira zake sizingatheke;
• kuyenda ndi iye mu loto - posachedwapa kudzakhala zochitika zabwino. Pakhoza kukhala chirichonse, kuchokera kudabwa kosadabwitsa kwa anzanu kapena achibale ndi kuwonjezera malipiro kuntchito;
• Wolota analota za amayi oledzera - sizimakhala bwino kwa chirichonse, choyamba kwa kholo lomwelo, ngati mayiyo ali moyo. Mwinamwake amafunikira thandizo, koma sakufuna kukuvutitsani ndi mavuto ake. Ngati ali wakufa - ndiye mukhoza kuyembekezera kusagwirizana m'banja, kukangana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wake.

The archetype ya mayi ndi chimodzi mwa mavuto kwambiri. M'mabuku a maloto mungapeze kumasulira kosiyanasiyana kwa zochitika zomwezo. Chowonadi ndi chakuti fano limene limabwera kwa ife mu loto, kuwonjezera pa mbali ya kuwala, ili ndi mbali zamdima. Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri ndipo zingakhale chifukwa cha ubale wovuta ndi makolo m'mbuyomo. Mwachitsanzo, inu munkazunzidwa kwambiri, kapena munali chiwawa ndi nkhanza m'banja. Ngati ndi choncho, chithunzichi nthawi zambiri chiyenera kugwirizanitsidwa ndi mbali yolakwika, yomwe siimakhala bwino. Ndipo ngati chirichonse chiri chosiyana, ndipo Amayi amatanthauza zinthu zachikhalidwe zabwino kwa inu, ndiye inu mukhoza kusamalira mosamala zithunzi zotere mwa njira yabwino.