Chaka Chatsopano ndi tsiku lakubadwa, amtundu uliwonse wa maholide, kuona-misonkhano - izi zonse ndizofukwa ... kuti muyang'ane mu sitolo. Ndipo tsiku lina la malipiro (bwanji, kwa mwezi, mwakhala mukuzunzidwa - osati kuti musangalatse nokha?) Ndipo masiku apadera, osaiwalika m'kalendala ya okondedwa awiri. Anapatsidwa maudindo ndi mafunso. Amagwirizanitsidwa ndi chinthu chimodzi - onse amatha kupanga ntchito yogwira ntchito, koma yovuta kwambiri.
Pamene makadi a ngongole alibe kanthu, ndipo makaponi angapo ali mu thumba la ndalama, wina akudabwa mumutu mwanu funso: ndi kugula kudalira kapena njira yothetsera nkhawa? Kodi timatani zambiri - kuchepetsa mitsempha kapena kukulitsa kudalira pa "chinthu chaching'ono ichi, sindidzapita ku moyo"?
Anthu ambiri samadziwa momwe kugula zinthu zofunika kwambiri mnyumba kumakhalira kusonkhanitsa zinthu zazing'ono. Zokongola (ndi zotsika mtengo!) Zithunzi zamtengo wapatali zimakhala ndi zinthu zosasangalatsa zomwe zimasonkhanitsa kuti zikhale zosonkhanitsa zazikulu. Kelemu, yomwe idagulidwa pa malonda - musabweretse phindu, koma kuvulaza tsiku lotsatira. Momwe mungadziwire ngati kugula kunayambitsidwa ndi kudalira kale kapangidwe kapena kukhalabe ndi njira zokwanira zolemetsa?
Zopindulitsa komanso zosasangalatsa
Mosakayika, kudalira ndi zinthu zomwe zimapindula kapena zimagwirizana ndi ena ntchito.
Mwachitsanzo, sichikuwoneka kuti ndizabwino kugula kirimu chachiwiri (ngakhale usiku kirimu) pamene nyengo isintha. Si chinsinsi kuti mnofu wa khungu umadalira mwachindunji momwe tikumvera zosowa zake. M'nyengo yozizira, kudyetsa ndi kuchepetsa, komanso m'chilimwe - kuuma khungu - izi ndi zachilendo. Koma ngati ndalama ziri ziwiri kapena zitatu kapena zisanu, ndipo palibe ntchito kwa iwo, izi ndizowononga ndalama ndikuyesera kuchepetsa nkhawa pogula, ndipo kotero kudalira.
Kugula kwa okondedwa osati osati kokha - mwayi wambiri wogula, osasamala anthu ena.
Kulankhula mosaganizira kuti sikofunika kugula anthu ena kumatanthauza kufotokozera munthu wosungulumwa. Tonsefe nthaŵi zonse timayenera kugula chinachake kuchokera kwa ena - kuchokera ku sweti kupita kwa munthu wokondedwa kupita ku mphatso yophiphiritsira kwa wothandizana naye.
Koma chiwerengero cha kugula "kwa ena", mwachidziwikire pa zofuna zawo ayenera kuchepetsedwa kukhala osachepera. Nthawi zambiri, mukhoza kulola "chonde" munthu wina kapena kumusamalira, ngati ali mwana. Ndipo ngakhale izi kuyambira ali aang'ono, yesani kumudziwitsa mwanayo kuti asankhe yekha. Panthawi imodzimodziyo - nokha kuti ndalama zanu sizinagwirizane ndi anthu ena, kuti asayesedwe kuti asinthe udindo wawo wogula.
Kugula nyumba ya banja - mbale yopanda kanthu ya shopaholic
Kugula "Zachizoloŵezi" - njira yabwino yosangalatsa zokha, komanso kusonyeza shopaholism. Amayi amwezi ndi mwezi amagula mafuta ochapa ndi zotsekemera, nsalu zapasitomala ndi zowonongeka pansi pa zotentha - zambiri.
Tsoka, osati zachilendo ndi kudzibisa koteroko kwa kudalira kugula kapena njira zolemetsa. Komanso, malonda amalimbikitsanso ife: apa, grater yakale si yabwino, tikusowa chatsopano!
Sizovuta kuthana nazo izi. Tangoganizirani chinthu chimene mukufuna kuti mugule "kunyumba, kwa banja." Ganizirani momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito nthawi zambiri. Kodi mungachite bwanji ndi vutoli? Kodi ziyenera kutsukidwa nthawi zonse mutatha kugwiritsa ntchito?
Zoona, kugula ndi kudalira pamene kumagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi chizoloŵezi chokhalitsa ngati njira yeniyeni yothetsera nkhawa. Koma nthawi zambiri zinthu zimafunikira kwenikweni. Choncho gwiritsani ntchito ndalama zatsopano "zogwiritsira ntchito" pokhapokha mukadziwonetsa nokha kuti ntchitoyo ndi yamtengo wapatali. Gulani izo ndi mtima wangwiro ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito kwa zaka zambiri.
Kotero inu mudzasiya nthawizonse kukayikira ngati mukupanga kugula kuganiziridwa molakwika chifukwa cha mkati mwa shopaholic. Mwa njira, njira imodzimodziyo imakhudza zosintha za zovala za amayi.
Kodi mungatani kuti muthane ndi mavuto?
Kotero, inu mumamvetsa kale kuti kugula monga kudalira kapena njira ya kupanikizika ndi njira yomalizira. Popeza izi mosakayikitsa si chida chopambana chiri ndi zovuta zake. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti palibe kugula kungathandize.
Pa nkhani ya chithandizo kuchokera ku mania ya kugula, nkhani zambiri zalembedwa kale. Koma chinthu chachikulu chimakhalabe chimodzi. Ngati khadi lanu la ngongole silikulimbana ndi chilakolako chachikulu chofuna "kugula zambiri ndipo ndizo," ndipo kuchepetsa kugula ndi kanthawi kochepa - ndi nthawi yopeza njira zina zopanda kupweteka komanso zopambana.
Ngati kugula mania kunasunthira ku gawo lotsatila ndipo lakhala lodziimira payekha, silikuchokera ku nkhawa, koma lokha (ndiyeno nkhawayo imalingalira kuti imadziyesera yokha) imakhala yovuta kwambiri. Ndipo m'pofunika kuyamba ndi mfundo kuti mutsegule gawo ili la coil lovuta, losemphana.
Kotero, musanapite ku sitolo, yankhani nokha ku funso:
- Kodi mukufuna kugula chifukwa mukufuna chinthu?
- Chifukwa chokumva chisoni, chisoni, chisoni?
- Kapena chifukwa chakuti mukufuna kugula?
Pachifukwachi, ndibwino kuti padera pakhale ndalama zochepa kuti aziwongolera mosavuta akazi awo okongola.