Kodi n'zovuta kukhala mwana wamkazi wa makolo otchuka?
M'dziko lathu, izi zimalepheretsa kwambiri. Kunja kwina kumachita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ngati mwana waponyedwa mu kanema ndi bambo wotchuka, amangoti izi ndi zabwino zokha. Ku Russia, mwamsanga muwone izi. Ndadabwa kumva izi: mu ntchito yothandizira, manyazi akhoza kuchitika, koma wowonayo sangakuwonetseni kanema ndi talentless artists. Ndipo ndithudi sadzapita ku zisudzo za masewero. Kodi mumaphonya atate wovomerezeka wa Alexander Abdulov tsopano?
Ndamupeza mafunso ambiri kwa iye monga munthu. Tsoka, sindingathe kuwayankhula ... Koma ndimayankhula naye nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi nthawi ya moyo wake. Ndikudziwa kuti ali pafupi, ndikuyankhula naye ndipo ndikudziwa kuti tsopano ndili ndi chitetezero china kumwamba.
Xenia, kodi mumadziwa bwanji bambo wanu wa chiBulgaria?
Sindimakonda kulankhula za nkhaniyi. Posakhalitsa zojambula zidzamasulidwa filimu yomwe ndikuwombera bambo anga - Alexander Abdulov, ndipo pa chithunzi ichi ndifotokozera pang'ono za bambo anga obadwa. Ndili ndi bambo mmodzi - Alexander Abdulov, ndipo ndizokwanira ine. Si ntchito ya ana yoti akhululukire kapena kusakhululukira makolo: amadzipatulira okha pakati pawo.
Xenia , tsopano sikuti mumangokhala wokonzerako masewero, koma ndi mayi wokwatiwa, mayi wamng'ono. Kodi mumamva bwanji pa maudindo otchuka a Ksenia Alferova?
Mwinamwake, mayi wamkulu, ine sindimadzimverera ndekha, ndipo mwina sindidzatero. Agogo anga aakazi ndi "koligan yakale" ndipo ali ndi mtima wautali m'ma 80s. Chifukwa chake, mayiyo - sindiri ine! Nthawi zonse ankayang'anira banja: analota nyumba yaikulu, chikondi cha moyo komanso mwamuna mmodzi. Zindigwiritseni ntchito ndizofunikira, koma ndi njira yokhayo, chifukwa mphamvu ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana zimandimenya ndi fungulo. Ndinatsimikiza kuti kusintha kwakukulu kwa mayi kumachitika pamene akukhala mayi, osati pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi ayamba moyo wamba. Zilibe kanthu: aŵiriwa amalembedwa mwalamulo kapena ayi. Mwachitsanzo, ine ndi Egor, titatha ukwati, mu November 2001, tinaganiza zokwatirana. Iyi inali sitepe yathu yoyenera.
Kwa ambiri, mwambo waukwati uli chabe msonkho kwa mafashoni amakono.
Sindivomereza mawu oti "mafashoni" . Egor ndipo ndinangomva kufunikira kwa sakramenti ya ukwati. Koma bambo anga sanandilole kuti ndikwatire, ponena za kufunika kwa ntchitoyi. Pambuyo pake, ndondomeko ya debunking siilipo, ndipo mwambowu ukuchitika kumwamba. Ngati mkazi m'kupita kwanthawi adzakhala ndi munthu wina - kudzakhala tchimo. Chifukwa pambuyo paukwati, mwamuna ndi mmodzi - onse padziko lapansi ndi kumwamba. Ndikulangiza aliyense kuti aganizire mosamala asananyamule gawo limeneli. Kodi kusintha kotani pambuyo pa ukwati - sindingathe kupanga. Mwinamwake, pali lingaliro lodziwika kwambiri la udindo. Ndi wokongola kwambiri, wamkulu ndipo silemetsa kwa ine. Izi ndi zoyandikana kwambiri ndi banja. Ndipo ngakhale atabadwa mwana wamkazi wa Dunya, ndinayamba kudzikonda ndekha. Ndinamvetsetsa kuti ndiko kulera ndi kulera mwana, banja ndilo ntchito yanga yaikulu ya akazi. Ndipo ntchito - chifukwa chochuluka. Mwanayo atabadwa, panali kugwirizana, ndipo ndinazindikira kuti ndinakhala mkazi wokhutira. Ndinangoyamba kukonza zonse mwa ine ndekha: Sindikutanthauza mawonekedwe a mphuno kapena kutalika kwa miyendo, koma zochitika zonse.
Xenia, ndani amasamalira mwana wamkazi wa Dunya pamene muli panjira?
Mpaka chaka ndi theka ndinakhala ndi mwana, ndikuyamwitsa ndipo sindinagwire ntchito konse. Mwezi uno, Duna adzakhala ndi zaka zitatu, ndipo tsopano ali ndi nanny. Koma ndimayesera kupereka nthawi yanga yonse yaulere kwa mwana wanga wamkazi. Mwana akapezeka m'banja, amuna ena amachitira nsanje chifukwa chakuti ana amachotsa chidwi cha amayi ndi chikondi chawo.
Egor ikhoza kukula mwamsanga. Kufikira chaka amamusamalira bwino kuposa ine komanso mwachimwemwe: anasintha maunyolo, osamba. Sindikudziwa kumene adaphunzira izi! Zimasangalatsa pamene amuna amachitira nsanje ana awo omwe. M'malo mwake, iwo ali ndi udindo wowateteza mkazi ali ndi mwana ku mavuto onse akunja. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, patapita chaka, mwanayo atayamba kale kuyenda, kugonana kwa "mwamuna-mkazi" kumachotsedwa, ndipo mwamunayo samverera kuti amaletsedwa. Koma zimatengera mkaziyo. Ndi awiri uti mwa inu amene munayesetsa kuti muyese bwino?
Mwachibadwa, ndine . Poyamba, sizingakhale zosiyana, chifukwa amayi omwe ali pafupi ndi mwana wake amakhala maola 24 pa tsiku.
Ndiye iye ayenera kachiwiri kukhala mkazi ndi mkazi, kusiya kukhala mayi yekha. Iyi ndi njira yovuta yokonzanso: kubwereranso kugonana komanso kukongola, kuchotsa kuumiriza kwambiri mwanayo. Atsikana ena amaopa kutenga pakati, kuti asawonongeke. Kodi simunachite mantha kuti mulankhule bwino? Kuopa uku ndi mtundu wanji! Ndinayamba mwamsanga. Iye adasambira kwambiri. Musadye mkate wochuluka, ndipo muwabwezeretse masamba, zipatso ndi tirigu - zomwe zimathandiza mwanayo. Mfundo yakuti madzimayi ndi ovuta chifukwa cha kulemera kwake, amaimba mlandu amuna omwe akuwufotokoza. Kodi munthu wamba sangamve bwanji ngati atangobereka mwana wamwamuna kapena chifuwa chake pang'ono? Ndikudabwa kuti ndinu mwana wanji? Alibe vuto. Mayi anga ndi ine tinali mabwenzi: sadandigwedeze maganizo ake. Sindimakonda ndondomeko ya maphunziro. Ndipotu, ana ali zolengedwa zabwino kwambiri, ndi khalidwe lawo komanso khalidwe lawo. Ndipo ntchito yanga monga mayi sikuti iwononge matalente ake achilengedwe ndikupatsa mwayi wonse wopita patsogolo. Kotero ine ndinakulira ndi amayi anga. Iye anati: "Aliyense ayenera kulakwitsa kuti amvetse moyo." Zoona, amayi anga anandipulumutsa ku zolephera zapadziko lonse. Ndi kangati zomwe mumayankhula pazovuta m'banja?
Xenia, ndani woyamba kupita kuntchito?
Timakambirana pa mkangano uliwonse, koma osabalalitsa m'chipinda. Musawope kukangana: amathandiza kumvetsetsa chiyambi cha mkangano. Apo ayi, zonse zidzatha pa chisudzulo, ndipo okwatirana adzalanda adani. Chinthu chachikulu sikutsegula chitseko, koma khalani pansi ndikukambirana zokhudzana. Kodi makolo adazindikira bwanji Yegor Beroev, pamene mudamubweretsa kunyumba kwanu ngati mwamuna?
Ngakhale kuti sakonda iwo, palibe amene akanandiuza izi. Ili ndilo kusankha kwanga ndipo ndimakhala ndi iye, osati amayi anga! Amamvetsa chilichonse, ndipo ngakhale sakonda Yegor, amayi ake adasunga maganizo ake payekha. Kotero, ine sindikudziwabe ngati Yegor amakonda amayi anga kapena ayi ... Mu imodzi mwa zokambirana inu munanena kuti simunaimire wojambula pa udindo wa mwamuna wanu. Amayi anali ogwirizana nanu?
Tinakumana ndi Egor pamsonkhano wofalitsa wa First Channel. Iye anali wachinyamata wamng'ono wa Moscow Art Theatre. Ndikutsimikiza kuti amayi anga amafuna kuti ine ndikhale mwamuna wake monga banki wodalirika kapena ndalama zowonjezera, osachepera! Chifukwa wojambula si wovuta. Kuwonjezera apo, pali amuna ochepa kwambiri pakati pa ochita masewerawa (sindikutanthauza kugonana): uwu ndi ntchito yeniyeni ya akazi - kuti ikhale yowoneka, nthawi zonse kukonda. Bambo anga, Alexander Abdulov, ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha munthu yemwe adakhalabe ndi ntchito imeneyi monga munthu m'mafupa ake. Mwina,
Egor ndichinthu chosiyana pa nkhaniyi .
Xenia, kodi inu pamsonkhanowo munayesetsa kumukopa?
Ayi, adandipambana. Icho chinali lingaliro lake. Ine ndinangotenga chibwenzi ndikuchitapo kanthu kwa Yegor kutali kwambiri ndi nthawi yoyamba. Iye anali wokongola kwa ine, koma kenanso. Chiyanjano chathu chinachitika mosazindikira. Chisoni chinawuka mwamsanga, koma kwa nthawi yaitali sindinathe kudzipanga ndekha zomwe zikuchitika kwa ine. Kenaka ndinazindikira kuti ndilibe anthu a Egor, omwe ndimakhala omasuka kwambiri. Ndipo ndinaganiza - ichi ndi chikondi ...
Xenia, ndi chiyani chomwe chimakuvutani kupeza zofanana ndi mwamuna wanu?
Iye ali ndi nthawi yeniyeni komanso amachitira masamba pamisonkhano yonse, ndipo ndimakhala mochedwa ndipo sindingachoke panyumba nthawi. Kotero, tiri ndi magalimoto awiri, ndipo palibe imodzi - inali yankho la vuto lathu. Mwamuna wina amakonda kuganizira za sitepe iliyonse, koma ndimachita zonse mwachangu ndipo sindimakonda kumanga mapulani. Egor ndi wokayikira, wosayika, ndipo ndine wodalirika ndipo nthawi zonse ndikuyembekeza zotsatira zabwino. Ndipo ndi munthu wotani amene sakusangalatsani? Popanda kuseketsa, kudzidalira komanso kulingalira. Sindinkagwirizana ndi munthu woteroyo. Pamene anthu amadziona okha, ndizoopsa! Ndimakonda kusewera munthu wina, koma osati zoipa. Mwanjira zambiri, chisangalalo cha banja chimadalira pa ubale ndi abambo ake.
Kodi Ksenia Alferova wotchuka komanso wokongola adayamba bwanji kumvetsetsa ndi makolo ake?
Ndine munthu wopanda ndewu ndipo ndimatha kupeza chinenero chimodzi. Yegor nayenso ali ndi khalidwe losavuta. Sitikhala ndi makolo athu - ndipo ndiko kulondola. Abambo ndi amayi amodzi ndi awiriwa akhoza kukhala abwino, koma ngati onse amakhala pansi pa denga lomwelo - sipadzakhala mtendere m'banja. Ife tiri ndi moyo wathu womwe, iwo ali nawo awoawo. Timapita kukachezerana ndi kulankhulana bwino. Banja lirilonse ndi gulu lokhalokha, ndi njira yake ya moyo ndi mphamvu.
Amakhulupirira kuti ana onse aakazi ali ngati amayi: Xenia, mumakonda chiyani ndi amayi anu?
Mu njira zambiri, ngakhale kuchokera kunja. Nthawi zambiri ndimadzigwira pa zomwe ndikuchita kapena kulankhula ndi amayi. Mwinamwake, izi ndizosapeŵeka. Anandibweretsanso pa chitsanzo chake. Ndili ndi mwana wanga, ndimalankhulana mofanana ndi amayi anga ankakonda kundichitira. Ndipo iwe ndi amayi anu muli ndi antipodes angwiro? Amayi ndi otsogolera, ndipo ndikugwira ntchito kwambiri. Amakonda kusungulumwa, koma ndimakonda makampani aakulu okweza. Ngati muli mumsampha, mumayanjana ndi ndani zomwe mumakumana nazo: ndi amayi anu kapena anzanu? Ndili ndi zaka zanga, salinso kudandaula ndi amayi anga, koma amalankhulana ndi anzanga. Ndili ndi abwenzi abwino. Sanagonepo ndi kusakhulupirika ndi kusangalatsa kwa anzanu. Ine ndikuganiza, ndipo sindikusowa kutero. Amati mukujambula bwino ...
Ksenia Alferova wotchuka komanso wokongola amakhala ndi zosiyana siyana: Ndikhoza kupanga stuko, kugoka, kukoka. Izi zimachitika pokhapokha. Ine kawirikawiri sindijambula, pansi pa kudzoza ndipo makamaka zomwe ndikuwona. Ndinayamba kuphunzira Chiitaliya, chifukwa nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ku Italy ndi Egor ndi Dunya. Ndinaphunziranso Chingelezi, Chifalansa ndi Chijeremani. Muli ndi nyumba ku Sicily. Chifukwa chiyani kumeneko? Kum'mwera kwa Italy ndizomwe zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri, malo okongola, anthu ali ndi maganizo, amuna ndi okonda kwambiri. Italy ndi nyumba yanga yachiwiri, ndili ndi ufulu kumeneko.
Xenia, ndi miyambo iti yomwe inasamukira ku banja lanu kuchokera kwa makolo anu?
Chaka ndi chaka banja lathu lonse , ndi abwenzi, timalemba pa February 6 - tsiku lobadwa la agogo anga aakazi Ksenia, amenenso ndi bwenzi langa lapamtima. Pa Chaka Chatsopano, zimakhala zovuta kusonkhana, ndipo tsiku limenelo, pafupifupi aliyense akhoza. Ndinu katswiri wodalirika ndipo muli ndi chiyembekezo chachikulu m'dera lino. Kenaka anasintha kupita ku cinema ndi masewera. Kodi simukudandaula?
Chowonadi ndi chakuti ndi amayi anga onse achibale ali amilandu, ndipo agogo anga aamuna amakhalanso ndi dzina la "The Lawyer Best of Novosibirsk". Choncho, ndinaganiza zopita ku sukulu yamalamulo ku University State of Moscow. Anaphunzitsidwa ku UK, ali ndi lindo lovomerezeka la malamulo, ndipo anagwira ntchito kwa kanthawi ku kampani ya malamulo ku Britain ku Moscow. Ndinayesa ndekha mulamulo, koma ndinazindikira kuti ichi si ntchito yanga. Ndipo ndatsimikiza mtima kuchita zokhazo zomwe ndimakonda. Izi ndizo moyo wanga. Mu nyuzipepala panali mphekesera za Yagor Beroev "buku la msonkhano" ndi Ekaterina Gordeeva, mpikisano wothamanga wa Olimpiki yemwe ankachita masewera olimbitsa thupi, yemwe adasewera naye "Ice Age". Iwo adanenanso kuti chifukwa cha izi simunafune kutenga nawo mbali pakupitiriza kuwonetserako. Kodi pali zoona pazinthu zonsezi?
Egor ndi ine tinadabwa kumva za nkhaniyi kuchokera m'mapepala. Zosangalatsa, koma sindikufotokozera chirichonse kwa aliyense. Kusindikiza kwa chikasu ndi tsoka kwa achibale athu ndi anthu apamtima. Pambuyo pa nkhani zoterezi ndizofunika kuwatsitsimutsa. Ntchitoyi "Ice Age" ndi ntchito yabwino. Tinaphunzira zambiri, kuphatikizapo aliyense - mabanja ndi ntchito. Osati aliyense adzatsutsa katundu wotere. Kotero, mwakuthupi panalibe mphamvu kapena nthawi yopsekera mabuku ojambula pa ayezi. Tinabwerera kunyumba, ndipo pomwepo tinagona, tikugwa kuchokera ku kutopa. Poyamba zinali zosangalatsa kwa ife, koma tsopano nkhaniyi yayitali kwambiri ... Kodi amayi anu anatenga bwanji miseche za Egor? Mayi angoyang'anitsitsa maso anga, ndipo amamvetsetsa zomwe zili zoona, ndipo zenizeni. Mlingaliro langa, ine sindimapanga lingaliro la mkazi wosasangalala, wonyengedwa ... Egor ndipo ine ndiri ndi chinachake choti ndiwonongeke - wina ndi mzake.