Mwinamwake, palibe makolo omwe sangachite manyazi ndi nkhani zotere, kuti adzakhala ndi mapasa kapena mapasa. Nthawi yomweyo pali malingaliro okhudza momwe angachitire ndi iwo, momwe angadyetse, kuyenda ndi kusamba, momwe angakonzekere chipinda cha ana awo. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ndi mwana mmodzi poyamba mavuto ambiri, ndipo apa awiri.
Atakulungidwa tsiku lalikulu ndikusintha zinthu zonse zofunika, makolo nthawi zambiri amakhala osangalala kuti akhale chete, pamene ana akuchita masewero ndipo pamapeto pake samafuna chidwi chenicheni. Ndipo sizingatheke kuti littermates abwere m'malingaliro kuti akhale ndi kuyang'ana zomwe ana awo amakopeka ndi mayesero kapena masewera omwe amamangiriza mapasawo.
Zimakhala zovuta ndi mapasa kuyambira pachiyambi, muyenera kuzigwiritsa ntchito moyenera pamene mukusamba, kuyenda kapena kuvala, ndiyeno zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, ana amayamba kusuntha. Mwachitsanzo, powasamba, kuwayang'ana ndi kovuta kwambiri, ndi kovuta kwambiri kuyesa kuyenda ndi awiri pamene ayamba kupondaponda. Pambuyo pa zonse, ngati wina apita kumbali imodzi, ndiye kuti wachiwiriyo ndi winayo ndipo sizikuwonekeratu kuti ndani wa iwo athamanga. Mapasa kapena mapasa amawerengera nthawi yomweyo makolo, chabwino, kapena kuthandizidwa ndi manja awiri, koma sikuti nthawi zonse amakhalapo, koma vuto likhoza kuthetsedwa.
Tsopano pali zidole zambiri zomwe ndizochepa, koma nthawi yomweyo zimakondweretsa ana, zimakopeka ndi zovuta zawo, ndipo nthawi yochepa imamukondweretsa kwambiri. Kwenikweni, mukufunikira kuti mupereke mwana wachiwiri miniti kapena ziwiri, pamene woyamba akupeza chidole.
Kuti musankhe masewera oterewa muyenera kumvetsa mfundo zawo:
- zojambulajambula zambiri. Pachifukwa ichi zingakhale chidole chomwe chimaphatikizapo zochitika ziwiri, mwachitsanzo, kuyendetsa masewero, monga lamulo, maonekedwe kapena mawonekedwe ovundukuka otseguka. Zinthu zotere zimakondweretsa kwambiri ana ndipo akuziganizira, kuwonjezera, mawonekedwe angagwiritsidwe ntchito pazithunzi za sandbox;
- otembenuza. Matayipi abwino omwe angasinthidwe ndikusankhidwa kuzinyamayi zosiyana siyana, amakhala okonzeka kusambira mu bafa ndi chidwi ndikusangalala nawo;
- kukula kwake. Chidole sichiyenera kukhala chachikulu, kuyembekezera kuti ayenera kukhala woyendayenda kapena mu bafa, chifukwa akusowa kuyenda zambiri.
Munthu m'modzi, koma kusinthana
Amapasa nthawi zambiri amadziimira okhaokha kuyambira ubwana, akuyenda pakati pa anzawo komanso nthawi zina safunikira makolo. Makolo ambiri amasangalala ndi izi, chifukwa ndi zabwino, ufulu ndi ana amakhala otanganidwa komanso otetezeka nthawi yomweyo. Komabe, tiyenera kuzindikira kuti khalidweli liri ndi mapasa ndi mbali yoipa:
- Nthawi zina, mapasa amathandizidwa pamodzi ndi mlongo kapena mlongo kuti asazindikire kuti ali munthu ndiyekha, wosiyana popanda theka;
- Kuyambira pamene ana amapasa ali ndi chiyankhulo chawo choyankhulana, ndiye chifukwa chake amafunikira munthu mopanda malire, pamapeto pake pangakhale kuchedwa pakukula kwa mawu. Kuwonjezera apo, kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse muwiri, kumagwiritsidwa ntchito pochita ntchito imodzi, koma ngati aliyense amachita gawo lake, amachita bwino. Izi zimabweretsa mfundo yakuti, mwachitsanzo, luso lamagetsi limapangidwira pamwambamwamba, ndipo ali ochepa mukulankhulana. Ndipo mosiyana, mapasa achiwiri amalankhulana bwino dziko, koma mwayi wa m'bale wake watsekedwa. Zotsatira zake, iye monga nthumwi amaimira zonse, ndipo chachiwiri monga Mlengi amagwira ntchito ziwiri.
Izi zimakhala zochititsa chidwi kwambiri, komabe kupititsa patsogolo njira yeniyeni yochokera ku izi kumasokonezedwa, choncho ndikofunikira kwambiri kusankha zisudzo zoyenera zachitukuko cha ana onse kumbali zonse.Zitsanzo, masewera achidole amapanga luso lomwe limatuluka pambuyo pa mapasa, mwachitsanzo:
- ana amakulitsa luso lawo;
- izi zimapangitsa kumvetsetsa udindo wawo;
- amasonyeza makhalidwe a mwanayo ndi luso lake;
- Masewerawa akuphatikiza ana, amaphunzitsa kuyanjana ndi ubale.
Malire anu "I"
Mwanayo ndiyekha, koma ayenera kukhala ndi malire ake a "I". Kawirikawiri, katundu amasonyezedwa m'mayesero aumwini, zinthu ndi malo. Zoonadi, magwiritsidwe ambiri adzayenera kugulidwa, kuchulukitsidwa ndi awiri, awa ndi maseti, mabasiketi kapena ziphuphu ndi zina zina zazing'ono. Komanso masewera akuluakulu, njanji zazikulu, okonza mapulogalamu, masewera a pakompyuta, ogula ana onse. Komabe, kuwonjezera pa luso logwiritsa ntchito zonsezi, mwanayo ayenera kukhala ndi chinachake chapadera, chomwe chidzasiyanitsa umunthu wake kuyambira ali mwana, chikhoza kukhala chidole chapadera. Chidolecho chiyenera kufanana ndi khalidwe ndi chikhalidwe cha mwanayo, zida zake zowonjezera, mwachitsanzo, nyama zogwiritsira ntchito ndizoseketsa komanso zowopsya, kugogomezera makhalidwe omwe ali nawo. Ndikofunika kuti ana adziwe momwe angasamalire katundu wawo. Kuti athe kupempha mwachidwi zinthu zoterezi ndi kuzigawana nawo, ngakhale kuti izi ndizosewera. N'kofunikanso kuti azigawanitsa malo kuti azikhala enieni komanso akuluakulu, mwachitsanzo, makina osungirako zinthu ndi masamulo osungiramo zinthu ndi masewero, izi zimapangitsa chidwi.
Malingana ndi kukula kwa malo okhala ndi chipinda cha ana, mukhoza kugula mahema a masewera, adzakhala malo achinsinsi komanso malo anu, koma nthawi yomweyo muziwagwirizanitsa ndi ngalande yomwe idzagwirizanitsa anawo.
Chiyankhulo cha kulankhulana kwa mapasa
Monga tanenera kale, mapasa angathe kugawana ndi chinenero chawo, koma palibe amene angamvetsetse, ngakhale makolo awo, omwe amachititsa kuti azitha kulankhula. Amapasa amafunika mavuli omwe angapangitse kulankhula kwawo, mwachitsanzo, zidole napaltsah, dominoes ndi lotto, makamaka, zonse zomwe mukufunikira kuti muzitchula mawu ndi kuyankhula.
Onetsetsani kuti mumvetsere kuyankhulana kwawo ndi nthawi yolankhulana ndi njira yaumunthu, mwachitsanzo, yolondola, kutchula mawu oyenera omwe ntchitoyo idapangidwa.
Ndikofunika kwambiri kusewera ndi ana palimodzi, kupanga masewera kapena zinthu zomwe aliyense angachite nawo, akhoza kukhala sitolo ya masewera komwe aliyense adzapita kukagula ndi kulankhula chinenero cholondola.
Ndalama zopangidwa ndi zala zinganene kuti ndi zofunika kwambiri, chifukwa kugwiritsa ntchito kamwana kakang'ono pamanja, mwanayo amatembenukira mmalo mwake, akuti chiphuphu ndipo nthawi yomweyo amasiya chizoloŵezi cholankhulana m'chinenero chaumwini.
Pamene mapasa akukula, ali ndi zaka 4-6 ndizofunikira kupanga masewera a tebulo. Mwachitsanzo, masewerawo "Scrabble" ali ndi zosavuta, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pamaganizo ophweka, palinso "Activiti" yofanana, masewera awa omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito monga: Association, Crocodile, Sharad. Kawirikawiri, fufuzani masewera omwe ana amafunika kuganizira za momwe zinthu ziliri, kukonzekera zochita ndikuganizira kuti ali ndi zibwenzi. Masewera othandiza ndi zithunzi zobisika, kumene mawu amafunika kufotokoza chithunzichi.
Timafunika masewera ndi masewera, pomwe ana ali ndi gawo lawolo ndikuphunzira kusunga. Kuwonjezera apo, masewera oterewa amapanga luso lamagalimoto, mwachitsanzo, Pylons kapena Balancing Tower. Maseŵero onse otchuka monga Monopoly kapena Space ndi abwino kwambiri, koma kwa achibale okalamba. Kulimbitsa banja, makolo ndi ana amafunika kuthandizana, bambo ndi mwana mmodzi, amayi ndi wina, ndiyeno amasintha, ana amawonezera makolo awo ndikuphunzira mwamsanga kuchokera kwa iwo.
Masewera Osewera
Mapasa ndi opanda ntchito amasintha maudindo awo bwino, ndipo amachita izo mwachisangalalo ndi mwaluso, ndi zabwino kwambiri, ziwalole kuti zikhazikitsidwe ndi madokotala ndi aphunzitsi, ndi zina zotero. Koma mapasawo amagawanika kukhala atsogoleri (oyamba kubadwa) ndi akapolo, pamene ali moyo ndi masewera atsogoleri a ana amayesa kukhala ndi malo abwino komanso omasuka. Mwachitsanzo, mu masewera kuchipatala mtsogoleri adzakhala nthawi zonse dokotala, ndipo mwana wachiwiri adzakhala wodwala, pamasewera apolisi mtsogoleri adzakhala apolisi, ndipo mwana wina adzakhala wolakwira. Ndikofunika kusintha izi ndipo osayenera kulimbikitsa utsogoleri umenewu, koma kuti uchite bwino. Kuchita izi, kuchepetsa kupezeka kwa masewera kuchipatala mwa kukhalapo kwanu ndi kukhala ndi odwala kuti mwana wachiwiri azidziona ngati dokotala, komanso masewera ndi apolisi. Kenaka makolo ayenera kusinthana ndi ana, izi zidzatsegulidwa ndi kuyang'ananso ntchitoyo.
Chinthu chinanso, nthawi zina mapasa amapanga dziko lawo, kumene anyamata ambiri amachita zinthu zomwe sizikuwonekera, mwachitsanzo, pamene khitchini ndi nyumba ya cholengedwachi. Ana, ndithudi, ali ndi malingaliro osamvetsetseka, koma nkofunikira kuti mapasa asatayike kumvetsetsa kolondola kwa zinthu izi kapena zidole.
Mphamvu yogwirizana ndi kukhala ndi udindo
Mapasa ndi abwino kwambiri kutsanzira zochita za wina ndi mzake, ndi zabwino, koma aliyense ayenera kuphunzira momwe angachitire zomwezo mwa njira yake, osadalira wina ndi mzake, kuti aliyense adziwe kuti ali ndi udindo wowona momwe ntchitoyo imapangidwira kapena zojambulazo zimachokera. Kuti tichite izi, ndibwino kugawana zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chimodzi, mwachitsanzo, pamsonkhano wa wopanga, mwana amodzi amamanga nyumba, ndi njira yachiwiri kuti wina asathe kukopera, ndikuchita ntchito molingana ndi kumvetsa kwake. Nthawi zonse mutamandire mapasa, ndipo musamafanizire bwino kapena oyipa.