Kodi ndikufunikira chiweto kwa mwana wanga?

Funsoli ndiloli lovuta kwambiri. Anthu ambiri amayang'ana izo m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Makolo ambiri amatsutsana kwambiri ndi kugula nyama kwa mwana, zomwe iye amafunsa.

Achikulire, mosiyana ndi ana, amamvetsa mavuto onse a kupeza bwino kumeneku ndipo amaganiza kasanu ndi kawiri ngati akufunikira chiweto. Mzimayi aliyense amafuna kuti nyumba yake ikhale yokongola komanso yokongola. Kuti achite izi, amayesetsa kuyesetsa kuyeretsa komanso kulimbikitsa banja lake. Ndipo ndithudi kugula kwa nyama, paka kapena galu kwa mwana, sikumalowa mu mapulani ake.

Choyamba, chiweto chimafuna kusamalidwa nthawi zonse. Mwana yemwe akulakalaka kukhala ndi chiweto mnyumbamo nthawi zonse amalonjeza kuti amusonyeza chisamaliro chonse payekha, izi zikuphatikizapo kuyeretsa pambuyo pake, kudyetsa, kuyenda. Kenaka makolo abwino amapereka pakhomo pakhomo. Komanso kodi n'zotheka kuti muwone? Ndiyeno mawonetseredwe a chisamaliro chonse ndi chisamaliro chonse cha mwanayo mwa mwanayo amakhala kwa pafupifupi sabata. Pambuyo pake amavutika nazo. Choyamba, anawo amatayika chidwi choyamba komanso chowoneka bwino kwambiri kuchokera pa mawonekedwe oyambirira a nyama mnyumbamo, chokoma, chofewa chimakhala chodziwika kwa iye. Chachiwiri, amayamba kumvetsa kuti kusamalira nyama ndizovuta kwambiri komanso matayala mwamsanga. Choncho, pansi pa zifukwa zilizonse, amayesetsa kusamutsira udindo wawo kwa makolo awo, poyesa kuti aiwale kale malumbiro awo asanayambe kulengedwa.

Ndipo ndithudi, makolo alibe kanthu koti achite koma amatenga mavuto onse pa nyama pawokha. Mwina ichi ndi chifukwa chofunikira kwambiri chimene makolo sagula kugula mwana wawo nyama. Pambuyo pake, chinyama chomwecho ndi cholengedwa chopanda nzeru, ndipo pambali, chingadwale. Ndipo pamakhala mavuto monga kudyetsa, kuyeretsa, kuyenda, chithandizo chamatalichi, ndipo izi ndizo ulendo wopita ku ziweto, majekeseni, ndi nyama zomwe zimafunikanso kusambitsidwa nthawi ndi nthawi, ngati iwo (makamaka agalu) amatha kupota zonse, nyumba. Ndiyeno ntchito yonse yolimbika ya mwini nyumbayo kuyang'anira nyumba mwamsanga imatha popanda tsatanetsatane.

Chinthu china ndi pamene banja limakhala m'nyumba yapadera. Ndiye chinthu china, zinyama zimatha kuyenda kuti ziziyenda okha pamene zifuna, ndipo pali phindu lochokera kwa iwo. Agalu amachita ntchito ya alonda, pussies amakoka nthawi ndi nthawi kunyumba ya mbewa, kuchotsa chipinda cha makoswe ang'onoang'ono osakanidwa. Koma m'nthawi yathu ino anthu ambiri amakhala m'nyumba zogona.

Mofananamo, makolo amadziwa kuti nyama zimatha kudetsa nkhawa mwana. Mwachitsanzo, ngati chinyama chifa, ziribe kanthu momwe, kuyambira ukalamba kapena matenda, choti uchite. Mwanayo adzakhala ndi mantha, ndipo zidzakhala zovuta kuti amugwetse pansi.

Kawirikawiri, makolo amabwereza chinthu chimodzi, kuyambitsa chiweto kwa mwana ndi vuto ndi ntchito ya hellish. Ndipo izi zikhoza kumvetsetsedwa ndi makolo. Koma ndiye ndani amene angamvetsetse ana omwe.

Mukhoza kuyang'ana pa lingaliro lina. Ndi maonekedwe a nyama m'nyumba, chirichonse chimasintha mwakamodzi. Mwana wonyansa amabweretsa chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo m'nyumba. Ndipo ngati makolo akuwonetsa mwana wawo momwe angasamalire mtanda wamphongo ndipo chirichonse chidzaphunzitsidwa kwa iye, ndiye kenaka mwanayo adzakhala wathanzi mwathupi, akhale wodziimira yekha. Adzaphunzira kuyambira ubwana kuti ndi udindo wotani. Nyama idzakhala yosangalatsa mwanayo. Ngati makolo akugwira ntchito nthawi zonse, mwana amatha kupeza mosavuta kuchokera kwa nyama yomwe imakhala yosonyeza kukoma mtima ndi kutentha, zomwe amalephera kuchokera kwa makolo chifukwa cha ntchito yawo yonse. Pambuyo pake, nyamayo nthawi zonse imakhala bwenzi labwino kwambiri kwa mwanayo, pafupi ndi mwana aliyense, kaya chikhalidwe chake sichinali, sichidzasungulumwa.

Choncho, posankha ngati ali ndi chiweto kwa mwana, nyamayo iyenera kuganiziridwa mosamala. Kuti ndipange chisankho chotsimikizika pa nkhaniyi, mwa lingaliro langa, ndizosatheka ndipo lingaliro lililonse lidzakhala lolondola.