Inu simungakhoze bwanji kukondana ndi mwamuna yemwe ali ndi utsogoleri? Ndipo ngati ali wochenjera, wokongola ndi wotetezeka? Ndi chifukwa chake okonda abambo a amai awo akuchuluka kwambiri tsiku ndi tsiku. Komabe, anthu ochepa okha amadziwa mavuto ndi mavuto omwe angathe kuthetsa ngakhale buku lalifupi kwambiri.
Azimayi nthawi zambiri amawona zinthu zabwino zokha. Pokondana ndi abwana ake, amai amawona zitsanzo za ubale wabwino umene umatha ndi ukwatiwo. Komabe, zenizeni apa zikudodometsa kwambiri.
Kawirikawiri, kwa novel ndi abwana pali zinthu ziwiri zomwe zingasinthe pa chitukuko cha zochitika. Choyamba choyamba: mwangoyamba kumene ntchito yatsopano ndipo bwana wanu amakukondani. Njira yachiwiri: mwakhala mukugwira ntchito kwa nthawi yaitali mu kampani, komabe, pamsonkhano wampingo kapena wosadziwika, mwadzidzidzi munaganiza kuti bwana akukuyang'anirani mwachindunji. Kawirikawiri izi zimakhala zoona, kukondana ndi anzako kumathandiza kuwonjezera chidwi. Ndipo kotero, mkaziyo sazindikira mmene akufulumira kugwira ntchito. Mapeto a sabata samabweretsa chisangalalo chimenecho. Makhalidwe apamwamba ndi madiresi a office akukhala bwino kwambiri, ndipo pamene muwona mtsogoleri, mumayamba kuchita manyazi.
Izo sizichitika popanda moto. Kukondana kumamvekanso ndi amuna ndi akazi, choncho ndi zopusa kukhulupirira kuti bwana sakuzindikira mmene mumamuchitira. Pazochitikazi, amayi ali otheka kwambiri kusonyeza chidwi chawo kuwonjezeka mphamvu yogwira ntchito. Tsopano amavomereza kuti azikhala mochedwa kuntchito kapena kufika mofulumira, ngati bwana amamvetsera.
Monga lamulo, pa nkhaniyi mkazi samayimilira ndipo amauza mnzake kapena mnzake kuntchito zakukhosi kwake. Magalasi a akazi a pinki amakhala motalika kwambiri. Ambiri amakhulupilira kuti bwana ndiye wabwino kwambiri kuti bukuli likhale lenileni kapena kuti anzake amamvetsera.
Ndi chenjezo loyenera kwa amayi onse - kukondana ndi bwana kungakhale koopsa. Zoopsa pa mbiri ndi ntchito. Mwamwayi, ziwerengero zimasonyeza kuti abwana ndi abwana samatha ndi zabwino, nthawi zambiri.
Zomwe zimachititsa kuti munthu azivutika maganizo chifukwa cha maganizo a kuntchito:
- Vuto lodziŵa za chikondi chanu ndizoyang'anira bwino. Bwana wanu akhoza kungomulanga kuti awononge mphoto kapena kutumiza ku dipatimenti ina, yomwe ndi yosasangalatsa kwambiri. Mwachilendo, makamaka milandu yolemetsa, chifukwa bwana wamkulu yemwe ali ndi wogonjetsa akhoza ngakhale kuwotcha.
- Monga lamulo, kukonda munthu wabwino ndi kosavuta. Choncho, pa njira yanu yotsimikiziranso kuti padzakhala okondedwa angapo m'mutu mwa atsikana omwe amafunanso chibwenzi. Ngati mmodzi wa iwo amadziwa za maganizo anu kwa bwana, sangathe kuchotsa ntchito yanu, komanso moyo wanu. Kuonjezera apo, kuchokera ku mphekesera ndi miseche, simungathe kuchotsa.
- Mukakhala kuti chifundo chanu chili pothandizana, ndiye anzanu akunyodola. Ndipo pamene mumagwiritsira ntchito nthawi yambiri pamodzi, mavuto omwe mumakhala nawo ndi ubale wanu. Mphuphu, miseche zidzakhala mbali yofunika kwambiri ya ubale wanu, ndipo, chifukwa chake, padzakhala zifukwa zambiri zotsutsana. Ngati mukukangana kapena kutsutsana, anzanu akuwona izi ndipo adzalandira okha chifukwa cha nkhondo yanu.
- Sakuzindikira ngati bwenzi lake. Kawirikawiri amuna omwe ali ndi udindo wapamwamba sadziwa momwe angakhalire mosiyana kunyumba. Ngati kuntchito ukuvala khofi, ndiye panyumba mudzamusamalira bwino. Imeneyi ndi njira yowonongeka, pamene bwana sangathe kuchotsa chigoba cha bwana wamkulu kunyumba ndikumuuza wamkulu. Monga lamulo, ngakhale mtsikanayo ndiye anayambitsa ubalewo, iyeyo amalira ndi kulira. Nthawi zonse kumverera kumalo achiwiri sikutheka.
- Chisankho chokhazikika, pamene mwaganiza kugwiritsa ntchito bwana kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu. Pano, akazi amatha kugwiritsa ntchito maluso awo ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira zonse zonyenga. Ndiyenera kunena, kwambiri, bwinobwino. Ngati nthawi ya maloto anu ndi yofunika, ndiye pangani kusankha nokha: konzani bwana kapena mukwaniritse chirichonse. Komabe, ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti mutapita nthawi mutumize malo apamwamba ndikusocheretsa mnzanu wina.
- Ngati ubale wanu wayamba, aspustya kwa kanthawi watha, ndizotheka kuti simungathe kuyanjananso. Ena mwa inu muyenera kusiya ntchito yanu, sizikuwoneka kuti izi zidzakhala bwana wanu, omwe sangachoke malo ofunda. Ndipo ngati mupatsanso kuti akufuna kuti mstizza ubale ubale ...
Ngati, komabe, chifundo chanu chikugwirizana, ndipo ndinu otsimikiza kuti mwakonzeka kupita kumapeto, ndiye poyamba funani chiyanjano chanu bwinobwino. Yesani kusakaniza ntchito yanu ndi chikondi chanu. Ngati ntchito yanu sinali yayikulu, ndiye mukhoza kufufuza mofanana ndi ntchito yatsopano. Monga chonchi, funsani kusamukira ku dipatimenti ina.
Uzani anzanu ku bukuli pokhapokha mutasankha kukhala limodzi. Ridkimzhenshchinam mwayi, kuntchito onse ogwira nawo ntchito ndi anthu abwino, ndipo mlengalenga ndi ochezeka komanso oona banja. Pogwirizana chotero iwo amakhala mabwenzi, ndipo buku lanu lidzavomerezedwa ndi bang. Maphwando ophatikizana, maofesi a ofesi ndi masiku ogwira ntchito amaikidwa ndi holide.
Zotsatira zake: buku lokhala ndi wotsogolera liyenera kuyambika pokhapokha ngati mutagwirizana komanso mpaka nthawi yomaliza kubisala kwa anzanu.