Choyamba, timadziŵa amene angaoneke kuti ndi wotayika. Osati munthu aliyense yemwe sangakwanitse kufika pamwamba, sangathe kupeza ndalama, angatchedwe wotaya. Pali anthu osiyana omwe ndalama ndi malo sizinatanthauze kanthu. Ali ndi moyo pantchito yomwe akuchita, abwenzi omwe amawalemekeza. Ndili ndi banja limodzi, iwo adayambitsa chipinda cha kukula kwauzimu kwa ana awo. Iwo ali ndi ndalama zochepa, chifukwa m'nthawi yathu ino anthu ochepa sadziwa za kukula kwa ana awo - ambiri a anthu amafuna kuti mwanayo azijambula, nyimbo, zinenero zina ndi zina zotero. Koma, komabe, okwatirana awa amasangalala ndi ulamuliro winawake, ali ndi gulu lawo lomwelo la anthu amalingaliro, momwe iwo amamverera kuti amalemekezedwa ndi anthu oyenera. Ndipo mwanjira ina wina samatembenuza chinenero kuti awaitane otaika.
Monga lamulo, osungika enieni sasangalala ndi moyo ndipo nthawi zambiri amadandaula za izo. Tsiku lina ndinakumana ndi mwamuna yemwe nthawi zonse ankadandaula chifukwa chosoŵa ndalama. Pa nthawi yomweyo, sanachite chilichonse kuti apititse patsogolo maphunziro ake kuti apeze ntchito yodalirika. Ndipo kukambirana kwathu pang'onopang'ono kunasiya.
Chizindikiro china cha wotaya, ichi ndi chimene munthu uyu sangachite, sichikuyenda bwino. Bwenzi langa nthawi zambiri ankayesa zojambula pa dzanja lake, ndiye akugulitsira malonda, koma palibe ponseponse amene angapindule mbiri ya katswiri wabwino komanso wogwira ntchito. Nthaŵi zonse ankawoneka ngati kuti sakuyamikiridwa. Ndipo palibe chodabwitsa kuti malipiro ake anali ochepa, ndipo nthawi zambiri ankasintha ntchito.
Wokhumudwa ndi munthu amene sachita zinthu zake zokha ndipo sachita chilichonse kuti apange moyo wabwino, amapita molakwika, pamene akukhulupirira kuti mu zovuta zake, anthu ena ali ndi mlandu.
Mmodzi mwa anzanga oyandikana nawo ankayenera kuti akhale ngati wotaya. Zolinga zake zamalonda zinakhala kutali kwambiri naye. Ayi, kuti apeze ntchito yabwino, adakhala zaka zingapo kuti alowe maphunziro apamwamba, adagwira ntchito sayansi, yomwe sanafune. Pa nthawi imene ophunzira akale anakhala otsogolera akuluakulu, adasokonezeka ndi mtundu wina wopeza mwangozi. Zonsezi zinapitilira kwa nthawi ndithu. Alibe pafupifupi mabwenzi omwe asiyidwa. Vuto linatha pamene iye, molimba mtima adavomereza kuti wasayansi weniweni kuchokera kwa iye sangagwire ntchito, ndipo anayamba kugwira ntchito yake yaikulu.
Chifukwa chiyani simukusowa kulankhula ndi wotayika?
Iye amakoka pansi
Tonse tikuyesera chinthu chabwino, ndipo wolephera akuyesera kutibwezeretsa ku msinkhu wake. Mawu omwe ankakonda - "sanakhale bwino - palibe choyamba! "Ngati mupita kwinakwake ndi wotayika, konzekerani kuti adandaula za momwe zinthu zilili mtengo wapatali, ndiyeno muyenera kulipira chilichonse, kapena kupita naye mumsewu wodutsa mumsewu wambiri, m'malo mopita kukagalimoto , kapena kudya wina wodya m'malo mwa cafe.
Mwa zolinga zake iye amagwiritsa ntchito munthu wopambana kwambiri
Wokhumudwa adzafuula za momwe iye aliri wosasamala mu moyo, ndipo iwe uli ndi mwayi. Ndipo panthawi yomweyi mudzamva kuti ndiwe wolakwa, izi ndi zomwe munthu wosowa amafunikira. Adzagwiritsa ntchito mwayi wanu kufooka ndikukhala pakhosi panu - kukuthandizani kukwaniritsa zochepa zake, kutenga ndalama zambiri zomwe sangabwerere, kukhala m'nyumba mwanu. Kodi ndi koyenera kulankhulana ndi munthu wotero m'moyo?
Amasirira olemera kwambiri
Wokhumudwa akhoza kuyamikira zomwe wakukwaniritsa m'maso mwanu, ndikuyimbira ndi matamando, ndikutchula maso anu kuti mwalandira mopindula ubwino wa moyo, ndikuyitaneni chipinda chakumtunda. Koma iye yekha akuyenerera iwo kwambiri. Konzani kuwona kuti akhoza kukunyengererani pamaso pa okondedwa anu, abwenzi, akuluakulu. Ndipo chifukwa chokha ndicho nsanje.
Kulephera kumayendera
Zonse sizingamvetsetse, koma nthawi yomweyo ndizoona. Zinali zoyenera kuti ndizilankhulana ndi wotaya, momwe ndinalili ndi mavuto ndi ndalama, ntchito, ndi zina zotero. Poyamba ndinkaganiza kuti ndi ngozi, koma mavutowa atabwereranso, ndinaganiza kuti chifukwa chiyani. Chododometsa chonse ndi chakuti timamvera chisoni munthu wotaya mtima, chifukwa ali nacho kale moyo, ndiye momwe timalankhulira naye.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani mukakhala "wokhazikika" kwa munthu woteroyo? Choyamba, yesetsani "kuphunzitsanso" izo, nthawizina zimachitika. Muuzeni kuti apite ku maphunzirowo, ayang'ane ntchito, kotero kuti, mwa njira imodzi kapena yina, athetsere mavuto ake okha. Ngati iye ayesa kuchoka pa zonsezi, sakufuna, ndiye amachotsa machitidwe onse ndi iye. Mwamuna aliyense ndi wokonza nyumba yake.
Tsopano tikudziwa ngati tifunika kuyankhulana ndi munthu wotaya moyo. Tsatirani malangizo awa ndipo mutha kumvetsetsa kuti mukwaniritse moyo wanu, sikuli kofunika pamoyo kuti muyankhulane ndi wotayika.