Kodi Marilyn Monroe Syndrome ndi chiyani?

Zoonadi, palibe amene angatsutse kuti ngakhale kukongola, komwe amuna omwe akumuzungulira akulota, nthawi zina amaima pamaso pa galasila ndikuwombera chifukwa cha kudumpha pa nthawi. Zomwe zimayambitsa vutoli zingakhale chidendene pa nsapato zomwe mumazikonda, PMS, kukhumudwa ndi wokondedwa wanu, masiku ovuta kapena mosiyana, osakhalapo (mantha a mimba yosafuna), ntchito yochedwa, yomwe bwana adazindikira, foni yosweka, tequila, bala. Koma zimachitika kuti kusakhutira pang'ono ndi iye mwini kumakula kukhala matenda enieni a m'maganizo ndipo matendawa amatchedwa "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome."

Chifukwa chiyani ndi Marilyn Monroe Syndrome ndani?

• Kodi munagwirizana kwambiri ndi mwamuna yemwe adakhumudwa kwambiri?
• Kodi mukulota kukwatira kapena kukwatiwa, kuchita zonse zofunika, ndipo wokhala woyenera kwa amuna sawoneka?
• Kodi munayamba mwamvapo kuti mwa amuna onse mumasankha zakumwa zauchidakwa, zosafikika, okonda kutambasula manja anu, ozizira, osakhulupirika, osayanjanitsika, kuwononga ulemu wanu, osapezeka? Pa nthawi yomweyi, simukuwona amuna oyenerera komanso oyenera, chifukwa samakhudza mtima wanu.
• Kodi munayamba mwadzidzimangira kuganiza kuti pamene mwayi umasambira m'manja mwanu, mumamva kuti mulibe chitetezo, ndipo mumayamba kudutsa, mumadutsa nokha?
• Kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito molakwika zakudya komanso / kapena mowa?
• Kodi mumadziyang'ana pagalasi ndikunyansidwa ndi mantha, ngakhale ena akunena kuti ndinu wokongola?

Ngati ambiri mwa mafunsowa mutayankha, ndiye kuti muli ndi "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome" - matenda opatsirana. Mawu awa adakonzedwa ndi ochita kafukufuku oyamba a vuto ili ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Elizabeth McCavoy ndi wolemba Susan Izraelson, amene anakhala olemba buku lomwelo. Zifukwa zomwe olemba a bukuli adapatsa dzina la wotchuka wotchuka, amanama pazinthu zenizeni za moyo wake.

Marilyn Monroe anali wopambana, wokongola komanso wokongola. Koma poyang'ana pagalasi, nthawi zonse ankawona munthu woipa yemwe sankayenera kukhala wachimwemwe. Pafupi ndi Marilyn, pafupifupi amuna onse ankalota, koma adakopeka ndi amuna omwe ubale wawo ndi mkazi wake unasweka.

Mizu ya khalidwe ili yayambira kuyambira ubwana. Popeza amayi ambiri omwe akudwala matendawa ndi ochokera ku mabanja osayenera, kumene makolo sanapereke ana opanda chikondi, sanakhutire zosowa za mwana wawo. Kotero, lero sali wotsimikiza mkazi, akuyang'ana mwachikondi chikondi - ndi msungwana wamng'ono wa dzulo amene sanalandire kuchokera kwa makolo achikondi. Choncho, nthawi iliyonse akadzipeza kuti ndi mnzake yemwe angamukumbutse za bambo wozizira kwambiri kapena amayi omwe asiyidwa, kuyesera kuti apeze chikondi chawo. Adzayesera mobwerezabwereza kuti adziwonetse yekha ndi dziko lonse kuti "iye ndi wabwino", kuti "ndi zomwe mungakonde." Muunyamata, opanda chikondi, chikondi ndi chikondi, onasama adzakhala osamala, osirira ndi okonda, okondweretsa, komabe, kusowa kwake kwa malingaliro omwe tanena. Zidzakhala zochepa kwambiri kwa amuna omwe amafunikira izo, monga zikuwonekera kwa iye.

Mmene mungachotsere matenda

Pali malamulo khumi omwe angathandize kuchiza Marilyn Monroe Syndrome. Akazi omwe amapereka dzina lofanana ndilo, amakhulupirira kuti matenda a Marilyn Monroe amachiritsidwa. Ofufuzawo amakhulupirira kuti kuti athetsere mkaziyo bwinobwino ayenera kutsatira malamulo awa:

• Mkazi ayenera kudzikonda yekha ndi chikondi chosadziwika.
• Kumulandira ayenera kukhala nkhani ya moyo wonse.
• Mayi ayenera kudzilemekeza yekha.
• Chisamaliro chonse chowatsogolera nokha.
• Dzikhulupirire nokha popanda dontho la kukaikira.
• Samalani thupi lanu ndikukonda.
• Mphamvu zawo zonse kuti apereke kukonzanso malingaliro awo, moyo ndi thupi.
• Sangalalani ndi moyo wanu.
• Khalani omasuka ku malingaliro atsopano, makamaka omwe angasinthe miyoyo.
• Dzipangire nokha kuti ndithudi adzagonjetsa Marilyn Monroe Syndrome.