Inu muli pafupi makumi atatu, koma muli ndi mwamuna wabwino, mwana, ntchito yabwino. Moyo ndi wabwino?
Ntchito yamakono ndiyo chinthu chodabwitsa. Lero lakula, ndipo mawa - lasokonekera.
Mkazi wanu Dmitry Orlov ndi wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri. Sizobisika kuti anthu opanga nthawi zambiri amakhala okonda chikondi chawo kwa anzawo omwe ali pachikhazikitso. Khululukirana wina ndi mnzake "zochepa" zoterezi? Ngati Dima adadzichitira yekha kanthu ndikulola, ndiye sindidzadziwa konse, mwinamwake. Timalemekeza komanso timayamikizana. Amuna ndi anthu a mitala. Koma ndikukhulupirira kuti munthu sangakhale khungu lopanda moyo. Komanso, pamene tinakwatirana, Dima anali ndi zaka 33, ndipo panthawiyi anali atayenda kale. Kotero, ndikukhulupirira, ndikudziwa ndikudalira theka langa lachiwiri. Nthawi zina pa ine ndi apo kapena iye pali zochitika za nsanje, monga anthu onse wamba, koma kwa kanthawi kochepa. Mulimonsemo, sindimakonda kumthunzi mwamuna wanga. Ndikudziwa kuti akazi ena amayankha mafoni a mwamuna wawo mmalo mwake. Koma kuti mupite kumtunda uwu - osati kudzikonda nokha komanso osalemekeza.
Buku lopatulika la mabuku a Chingerezi linaganiziridwa kuti: "Amuna amakwatirana ndi kudzikweza, komanso akazi - chifukwa cha chidwi." Pankhani ya Irina Pegova, amene banja lake linali lokwanira pa ntchito yabwino, kodi zinthu zinayambira bwanji?
Sindinkafuna kudziwa zambiri pa nkhaniyi. Nditakwatirana, ndinali kale mtsikana wa zaka 25: Ndinamvetsa kuti chochitikachi chidzachitika posachedwapa. M'malo mwake, ndinkaopa chikhalidwe cha ukwati. Ndisanalowe m'banja, ndinawona okwatirana ambiri, osasangalala kwambiri. Pafupi ndi ine panali anthu omwe ali ndi mavuto a banja: misonzi, zoopsa, kutsutsana kwakukulu kwa wina ndi mzake. Ndinkachita mantha ndi zochitika zoterezi. Ndipo bwanji ngati ine ndiri nazo izo? Ili ndi gehena! Ndi bwino kukhala nokha! Ndikamakumbukira, sindinkafuna kukwatira. Ndinatsimikiza kuti tsiku lina munthu adzawonekera kuti ndiwe wochokera kumwamba, ndipo zonse zidzasankhidwa mphindi. Ndipo kotero izo zinachitika: Dima ndi ine tinakomana pa chikondwerero cha filimu ku Warsaw ndipo mwamsanga anayamba kukhala limodzi. Nanga nanga bwanji nyengo yamaluwa? Ife sitinali nazo izo. Tinakhala pamodzi kwa zaka zingapo, kenako tinakwatira, ndipo tinali ndi mwana. Pokhapokha masiku a maluwa a chokoleti atayamba. Tinaganiza kuti ndi zosangalatsa kwambiri kupanga mphatso, zodabwitsa ndikubweretsa chimwemwe kwa wina ndi mzake tsiku ndi tsiku. Osati tsiku lobadwa, Chaka chatsopano ndi March 8, koma tsiku ndi tsiku. Posachedwa, mwamuna wanga adadziyesera yekha mu hypostasis wa wotsogolera, wolima - miyezi yochepa yowonongeka pa nthawiyi. Koma, pobwerera kunyumba usiku kapena m'mawa, Dima anandipatsa maluwa, podziwa kuti sindinkawasamalira. Anamuthandiza kuti asakhale ndi mphatso komanso maluwa. Kodi ndi zoona kuti simukubvala mphete zosakanikirana ndikusindikizidwa ndi kuumirira kwa makolo anu?
Monga mkazi ndinena: tonse timalota ukwati. Ndipo kwa Irina Pegovoj chikwati cha banja sichinali chosiyana. Zotsatira zake, tasaina. Ife sitimabvala mphete zaukwati. Dima sakonda kuvala zodzikongoletsera, iye amayenda popanda ulonda. Ndipo ndikuwopa kutaya mphete, nthawi zambiri ndimataya zodzikongoletsera za golidi.
Irina, kodi iwe umakhulupirira zamatsenga? Mukukhulupirira mu zizindikiro? Nthawi zina ndimakhulupirira. Mwachitsanzo, kuti maukwati okhwima, okonzeka ndiwotsimikizirika kuti ndi otsogolera oyambirira. Sindimvetsetsa pamene anthu otchuka amaphimba maukwati awo mu nyuzipepala ndi pa TV. Tangowalowetsa mu ofesi yolembera. Panalibe chophimba, palibe diresi yoyera.
Msungwana aliyense akulota kutuluka kwakukulu mu diresi lachikwati loyera. Kodi simukudandaula za kusiyana kotereku?
Ayi ndithu. Sindimakonda maukwati monga maukwati a achibale ndi abwenzi chifukwa aliyense amadya, amamwa ndikukhala wochuluka. Dima ndi ine tili ndi zifukwa zokwanira zokonzera anzathu ndi abambo ndikukonzekera tchuthi.
Irina, m'banja mwanu - ukapolo kapena wachiwiri?
M'banja mwathu - ukulu waumunthu wosavomerezeka. Ndikudziwa nkhani zapakhomo, koma monga momwe mwamuna wanga akunenera, zidzakhala choncho. Popanda zosankha. Tsopano azimayi ofooka akukoka bulangeti pazinthu zokhazokha pokhazikitsa malo apamwamba m'banja.
Irina, kotero inu munaganiza zopanga moyo wanu mosiyana? Kodi simukufuna kukhala mtsogoleri wamkulu m'banja, ngati amayi?
Sindimakonda zinthu izi. Ngati ndiri ndi mwamuna - makamaka monga Dima - wathanzi, wamphamvu, ndani angatsogolere banja, kupeza ndalama, kukhala ndi udindo pa nyumba yake, - chifukwa chiyani ndikuyenera kuika zonsezi pazigawo zanga? Mkazi ayenera kumasuka ndi kukhala mwamtendere, kupanga mwana yekha ndi kuphika. Mukuganiza bwanji, mphamvu ya mkazi ndi iti? Kodi iye angasunge mwamuna wake, yemwe anaganiza zochoka? Ndikuganiza kuti chisangalalo cha banja ndikutenga nthawi yambiri yolankhulana: kambiranani mavuto omwe akukumana nawo, khululukirani, akambirane wina ndi mzake. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti musakhale chete m'makona! Mkaziyo, chifukwa cha khalidwe lake, ayenera kuyamba kuvomereza, zonse kuti zisasunthike ndi kusalola mikangano, makamaka zilembo zamalankhula, zimandivuta kwambiri kuchita izi chifukwa cha kunyada ndi kudzidalira. Mayi amakhalanso ndi makhalidwe amenewa, koma ayenera kuyesetsa kuti azikhala wodekha ndikuwakumbukira ngati akufuna kumusunga kuti akhale ndi moyo wabwino. Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kubisa kunyada kwanu zakuya. Irina, ndipo ngati wasintha? Kodi ndichite chiyani ndi kunyada kwa amayi?
Izi ndizosiyana kwambiri. Zikomo Mulungu, sindinakhalepo ndi chinthu choterocho m'moyo wanga, ndipo, ndikuyembekeza, sichidzachitika. Ndikuganiza kuti zidzakhala zovuta kuti ndimvetse ndikukhululukira chiwembu. Mwinamwake, chifukwa ine ndikukhulupirira moona: izi sizingakhoze kuchitika kwa ine. Sindifuna kukhumudwa kwambiri.
Koma ndi anthu angati - malingaliro ambiri. Tonse ndife osiyana, ndipo wina sangathe kukhululukira ngakhale mawu oipa mu adilesi yake. Kawirikawiri amuna amayesa kudabwa akazi ndi zochita zawo.
Irina, kumbukirani zomwe zodabwitsa zomwe munakonza kuti mwamuna wanu azichita? Panali zitsanzo zambiri. Nthaŵi ina ndikuwombera ku Kiev kwa mwezi umodzi, ndipo Dima anagwira ntchito ku Murmansk. Tidakumanana kawirikawiri, pamene tinali ndi masiku omwewo. Nkhaniyi inachitika pachiyambi cha ubale wathu, ndiye tinalankhula kwambiri pa foni. Mwadzidzidzi tinakangana, ndipo ndinazindikira kuti pa foni ndikulephera kuthetsa mkangano. Ndipo ine ndinali nditangotsala ndi tsiku limodzi. Ndimagula tikiti yopita ku Moscow ndikuchokera kumeneko kupita ku Murmansk. Madzulo ndinabwera ku hotelo, kumene anthu ankakhala. Ndikupempha wolamulira wa hotelo kuti andilowe m'chipindamo kwa Dima (iye anali pa ntchito pa nthawiyi). Koma popeza ndilibe sitampu pasipoti, ine, mwachibadwa, saloledwa. Ndiyeno, chifukwa cha mwayi wanga, wojambula filimu anali kudutsa, amene anandizindikira ndipo anandiuza kuti ndimuike m'chipinda kwa wokondedwa wanga. Nthawi yomweyo ndinapita kukagona, ndipo pamene Dima anabwera, anandipeza nditagona pabedi lake. Kuno kudabwa kotere. M'maŵa ndimakhala pansi pa ndege ndikuyambiranso ku Kiev. Ndipo izi, ine ndikuganiza, kuziziritsa! Ndikukhulupirira kuti Dima anali ndi maganizo omwewo. Komabe, mtsikanayo anafika mpaka kumalekezero a dziko lapansi kuti azikhala ndi theka la usiku yekhayo limodzi naye!
Kodi Dima amadabwa nawe?
Ndinadabwa kwambiri ndi chisamaliro. Pa nthawi yomwe ndinali ndi pakati, ndinapita padera. Inde, ndinali ndi mantha kwambiri. Koma mwamuna wanga anandithandiza kupweteka kwa imfa, kuti ndikhale ndi moyo nthawi imeneyi. Dima ndiye anandithandiza kwambiri mwamakhalidwe. Nthawi zina pali zinthu zomwe ndimataika, ndipo nthawi zonse mwamuna wanga amapeza njira yabwino, ndipo ndikuthokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha chithandizo chake.
Irina, kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito machenjera a amayi kuti mupeze zomwe mukufuna kwa mnzanuyo?
Ndipo bwanji! Mwamuna asanakwatire kanthu kena kalikonse, afunika kupeza nthawi yabwino. Palibe khama limene silidzapambana ngati mwamunayo ali ndi maganizo oipa. Zonse zimatengera mkhalidwe. Ngati pempho la mkazi lidzanenedwa muwonekedwe lofewa, laulemu komanso lokongola - munthu wamapiri adzatembenuka! Mwachitsanzo, Dima sazindikira kuti aponyera zopempha, ngati atangouka koma asanakhale ndi utsi, sanasambe. Ndikudziwa kuti ndibwino kuti musamulepheretse kuyankhulana ndi foni kapena, pamene akugwira ntchito ndi bizinesi. Ndisanayambe kukambirana ndi Dima pa foni, ndimapempha nthawi zonse.
Nthawi zina moyo wa mabanja okwatirana amatha kuwonongeka chifukwa cha momwe makolo amathandizira. Irina, kodi umatha kupeŵa mavutowa?
Ndinali ndi mwayi ndi amayi anga aakazi - mkazi wokongola. Iye samafunsa mafunso aliwonse osafunikira. Amavomereza kuti amamvetsetsa chidwi, koma amakhulupirira: ngati tikufuna, tidzamuuza zonse. Mlamu apamwamba kwambiri! Nthawi zina ndimamuuza za mikangano yathu, ndipo nthawi zonse amanditenga, ndikufotokozera kuti nayenso ndi mkazi ndipo akugwirizana nane. Ndikuyamikira kwambiri thandizo lake. Irina, ndi Dmitry, nayenso, akukhutira ndi apongozi ake?
Ndi amayi anga zonse zimakhala zovuta, ndipo poyamba zinali zovuta kuti apeze chinenero chimodzi ndi Dima. Koma zaka zingapo zapitazo, maubwenzi akuwoneka kuti abwereranso mwachibadwa. Nkhaniyi ndi yakuti amayi anga onse anali ambuye panyumba - kuthetsedwa, monga banja liyenera kukhalira. Chifukwa chake, adasokoneza kwambiri miyoyo yathu, ngakhale kuti amakhala mumzinda wina. Pamene abwera kwa ife kapena ife kwa iye - pali mikangano nthawi zonse ndi Dima, kusamvetsetsa, mawu akuthwa akugwiritsidwa ntchito. Sindidabwa, chifukwa amayi anga nthawi zonse ankamuuza mwamuna wake zoyenera kuchita ndi zomwe ayenera kuchita. Koma Dima anazindikira kuti ayenera kukhala munthu wabwino muzochitika zilizonse. Anapeza njira kwa apongozi ake ndipo adatha kumugonjetsa. Tsopano ali ndi ubale wabwino ndi amayi anga. Tikukumanga nyumba kumudzi kwathu wa Vyksa. Ntchitoyi imayang'aniridwa ndi mayi, koma imamutcha Dima ndikulangizitsa kuti: "Ndi mtundu wanji wopanga denga?"
Irina, kwa inu ndi bwino kukhala mosiyana ndi makolo?
Inde! Amayi onse ali ndi nkhaŵa kwambiri ndipo amadera nkhaŵa za tsogolo la ana awo aakazi. Chifukwa munthu aliyense mwa iwo ndi mdani yemwe anatenga mwana wawo wamkazi kwa iwo. Kodi ndi zabwino kuti mwanayo azikhala ndi mwamuna uyu - sakuganiza. Mwachitsanzo, sindikudziwa chomwe chidzachitike kwa Tanya wanga, akamakula, ndipo munthu wachilendo amamuchotsa. Amayi nthawi zonse ali mu ukapolo wa mantha awa. Ndidzakumbukira kwambiri anthu ofuna kudzanja langa ndi mtima wanga wamkazi ndikupeza zolakwa ndi zochepa chabe! Koma sindidzasokoneza moyo wa banja la mwana wanga wamkazi. Irina, ndiuzeni, kodi mumagawana ndi anzanu-abwenzi anu akugonjetsa banja lanu? Palibe mlendo amadziwa kanthu za ubale wathu. Kuyankhula ndi mavuto a banja la anthu ena, kudandaula za mwamuna wake - ndichabechabechabe. Anzanga nthawi zambiri amakamba za mavuto a banja lawo. Choyamba, ndimataya nthawi yanga yamtengo wapatali; Chachiwiri, ine sindiri wokondwa pakumvetsera izi. Ndikuganiza kuti ndilibe khalidwe loyenera kupereka uphungu pa nkhani zovuta. Ngakhale amayi anga ndi apongozi anga sali odzipatulira ku labyrinths m'moyo wathu wa banja. Ndikudalira kokha pa chidziwitso changa. Ndikufunsira kwa mwamuna wanga yekha. Ngati ndili ndi vuto ndi Dima, ndiye kuti tiyang'ane njira yotulutsira pamodzi.
Ngati anthu akusowa wina ndi mzake, amakonda komanso amafuna kukhala ndi msinkhu wawo - ngakhale atagwirizana ndikusagwirizana ndi zilembo - ayenera kupeza chinenero chimodzi, kupanga chiyanjano. Ndinadzimira ndipo ndinasintha kwambiri mwa ine ndekha, chifukwa ndinazindikira kuti sindingasunge khalidwe langa lakale Dmitry Orlov. Kotero ndikuchotsa makhalidwe oipa mwa ine ndekha. Ndili ndi chisankho: musasinthe chilichonse mwa ine ndekha ndikukhala nokha kapena "kuswa" ndekha ndikukhala pafupi ndi munthu wosirira. Izi, ndithudi, si zophweka.
Irina, iwe unayang'anitsitsa mtsogoleri wotchuka Stanislav Govorukhin mu kanema "Wokwera". Chifundo chake kwa amayi omwe ali ndi mawonekedwe obiriwira amadziwika bwino.
Zoonadi. Govorukhin nthawi zonse amanena momveka bwino kuti amafuna kuwombera zokongola kwambiri zachi Russia. Amakonda akazi m'thupi, choncho sadapeze mafilimu abwino nthawi yaitali. Sindikudziwa chifukwa chake Govorukhin ankandikonda ine, chifukwa m'dziko la cinema muli mafilimu ambiri omwe ali ndi "mafomu." Koma, ndikuvomereza, ndi zabwino.
Amuna amasiku ano amayesa kuti adzizungulira okha osati ndi zokongola zokongola, koma ndi maonekedwe abwino. Irina, kodi mwamuna wako samatsatira zofanana zazingwe?
Ngati ndili ndi magawo omwewo, ndiye kuti maudindo adzakhala osasamala. Ndikuzindikira kuti ndifunikira kudzipezera ndekha mu mawonekedwe, koma sindidzafikira kukula kwachitsanzo ndipo sindikufuna! Awa ndiwo lamulo langa lachilengedwe. Ndipo mwamuna wanga amakonda maonekedwe anga okongola!
Mukutsimikizirani kuti ntchito yodziwika bwino ndi chiwonetsero chabwino chazimayi chikugwirizana?
Inde. Nthawi zina, chifukwa cha kupanda ungwiro kwa chiwerengerocho, mumataya ntchitoyi. Ngakhale palibe wina anandiuza za izo. Ndipo nthawi ina panali chokhumudwitsa ndi mkulu Alexei Uchitel. Kwa chithunzithunzi chake "Space monga chiwonongeko" kunkafunika kuti ulemere pang'ono. Ndinakhala pa chakudya cha Dr. Volkov, chomwe chimapanga magazi chimatsimikiziridwa ndi "zofunika" ndi "zosayenera" mankhwala. Kwa miyezi itatu ndinatayika kwambiri. Panthaŵi imeneyi, ndinkatsimikiziridwa panthawi yomweyi kuti "Kuyenda" kwa Mphunzitsi yemweyo. Pa chithunzithunzi mungathe kuona bwino momwe ndilili patsogolo pa maso anga. Kumayambiriro kwa filimuyi, ndine msungwana wamng'ono, ndipo pamapeto pake ndawombedwa kale.
Irina, kodi ndi zoona kuti pamene munali mwana mumakonda mpanda? Kodi mumakonda kumenyana kapena kuteteza moyo wanu nthawi zambiri?
Maluso awa anandithandizira kwambiri pa kanema ka filimu "Kubwerera kwa a Musketeers". Mu moyo, nthawi zambiri ndimayenera kudziteteza. Ngakhale ndine munthu wamtendere. Sindimakonda mikangano, chifukwa sindikudziwa momwe ndingakhalire m'mikhalidwe yotereyi. Pamene amayi anu adapeza kuti inu munalowa koleji, adawatsutsa ponena kuti: "Dziko la ochita masewerawa ndi bodza losalekeza, zonyansa, zonyansa. Ali ndi moyo wosadziwika. " Tsopano inu mukukhulupirira kuti amayi ali nthawizonse olondola? Ndithudi. Komabe, ndinamvetsetsa izi. Kuwonetsa kosasangalatsa kotere kwa gulu la owonetsa ndi choonadi chenichenicho. Inde, pali zosiyana.
Inu munabwera ku Moscow kuchokera kumudzi wakunja. Kodi mwakhala chinthu chachikulu lero?
Ayi, ndine msungwana wamudzi ndipo musayesere kukhala chinthu chamtengo wapatali, chifukwa ndi kutali ndi kuyamika. Ndimangokhala pakhomo pakhomo pokha. Aliyense amadziwa kuti ndimachokera kumudzi wa Vyksa. Bwanji mukuwonetsa? Aliyense wa ife ali ndi mafupa ake pakhomo. Kodi mukuvutika ndi zodandaula zakale?
Zaka zitatu zapitazo ndinachoka kumsonkhano wotchedwa "Pyotr Fomenko's Workshop", komwe ndinayamba kuchita. Tsopano, ndikuyang'anizana ndi anzanga omwe ndinkagwira nawo ntchito, sindikumva bwino komanso osasangalatsa. Ngakhale ndikuganiza kuti ntchito yake yasankha bwino - posonyeza Theatre-Studio Oleg Tabakov. Ichi ndicho moyo wokha womwe umandidetsa nkhawa. Tinakumana ndi Pyotr Naumovich Fomenko pa zochitika zisanu ndi chimodzi zapitazo, koma sakundipatsa moni. Izi ndizodabwitsa kwambiri komanso zosamvetseka kwa ine. Koma monga munthu wophunzira, ndimati "Wokondedwa!" Ndipo ndikufuna kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi iye. Ndipotu, Pyotr Naumovich ndi mphunzitsi wanga, ndipo ndinkakonda kusewera zaka zisanu m'sewero lake. Ndimkonda ndikumkonda, iye ndi munthu wovomerezeka kwa ine. Chomwe sichimandipatsa ine moni ndicho kusankha kwake. Ngati iye, motero, andibwezera ine chifukwa chomusiya "Tabakerku" - sizovuta. Kodi ndinuwe munthu wobwezera? Ayi, si choncho. Mwinamwake, palibe wina wandikhumudwitsa kwambiri kotero kuti ndinaganiza zobwezera munthu kapena kunyoza. Sindifuna kutaya nthawi yanga, mphamvu ndi mitsempha pazinthu zopusa. Ngakhale ngati zambiri zapolyat - Ndidzayankha ndi ulemu.